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What to do if best-friend is becoming popular

Elliot Dodger

Elliot Dodger

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My best friend whom I've known for years is starting to be popular and he might try to pressure me for social events. I might get seeting jealously seeing him effortlessly make friends and fit into groups while I am the outcast of society. I am really scared of social events.
 
idk i've never had friends.
 
Haven’t had a best friend since elementary school
 
Try to hold onto him and, if he actually starts pulling you up with him, see how far he'll take you.
 
Cut him out of your life and find someone else or just be alone.
 
My best friend whom I've known for years is starting to be popular and he might try to pressure me for social events. I might get seeting jealously seeing him effortlessly make friends and fit into groups while I am the outcast of society. I am really scared of social events.
mf just attend the social events
 
Can’t relate. I never had TRUE friends back when I was in school. I was just a personal jester or lol cow to them.
 
He will probably let you down soon and stop talking to you if is he really getting popular
 
don't have friends
i don't have any voluntarily.
 
Find a new best friend
 
aint this bluepill?
Bluepill would be more so believing that you could also become popular if you imitated him or whatever. Acknowledging that you can't do so through your own efforts because your looks, non-NTness or whatever are too much of a problem, and so your only chance to maybe improve your social standing is to desperately hold onto a guy who is actually rising through the ranks is just bleak realism:feelsbadman:.
 

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