how? It's not exactly a metapod vs metapod battle but it feels a lot like it.
My entire family (as well as I am) are religious.
The approach I'd take to blackpilling them, is first bringing them down to the realm of reality.
What do I mean by this?
If I told my mom right now, I'm never going to get a girlfriend because I'm ugly she'd quote a bible verse like:
"Trust in the lord with all your heart..." - Proverbs 3:5-6
Or
"Ask and you shall receive, seek and you shall find...." -Matthew 7:7-8
She'd say, the reason you dont have a girlfriend is because you don't cast all your doubts upon God.
Now you see, the danger in this interpretation doesnt mean IN EVERY DANGER/HARDSHIP you come across in life, God will rescue you.
The way I'd counteract these points my mum makes would be:
If I was to jump off a cliff, by your logic: So long as i trust in God, he will prevent harm from coming to me.
Or
If I'm broke and i really need money, somehow God will provide me money without working.
That's not how it works.
I'm not sure what religion you are, but as well as Good spirits there's evil spirits. God and the devil.
As well as the divine creator and master of the world, the devil himself has his own influence on the world/people.
God doesnt control us like bots so we have "free will" in a sense (plz dont debate with me on that).
As every woman has free will as well as men, women have decided to use that free will to exclude 80% of men.
Then you drop studies upon studies on her:
-OkCupid. 80/20
-If a woman has sex even once, her pair bonding will be ruined for ever.
-If she tries to say, find a religious Christian foid to get married to, drop the marriage divorce statistics on her: Especially the one for your religion.
Then ask her: Of the rest that didnt divorce, do you honestly believe that all of them are in happy marriages?
Point her over to r/deadbedrooms and r/failing marriages
-Before she asks you, why would you want a marriage built on sex: Make sure you state as sex is a gift given to man and wife to show love to each other, if your wife doesn't want to have sex with you; wouldnt that mean she doesn't love you?
(I must reiterate marriage isn't just for sex, but finding a woman that loves you physically, mentally, spiritually as well as sexually is close to impossible)
-Provide studies highlighting women want chads only.
-Chadfishes highlighting looks matter.
Just mass dump enough proof on her to convince in this century, ALL WOMEN just want looks or a betabux (ask her if she'd be fine with you getting a prostitute because that's what modern marriage is for the majority of men - mention how divorce Is always in the foids favour and how alimony payments screw up a man [See mgtow]).
Conclude with: based on all this information which has been provided, it's safe to assume I "shouldn't jump off the cliff", the cliff being "pursing the modern woman".
I do trust in God to provide me for everything I need, but that doesn't mean I can't look at things logically and face reality.
I'm not placing a limit on God's power as if he was able to raise his own son from the dead for us, without a doubt he could find me a woman to marry - defying all odds.
However, he could also save me from harm if I fell of a cliff, but that doesnt me I have to jump.
The worldly influence affects everyone and woman are biologically inclined to seek the best genes. You can't change biology.