That is where I disagree with 99% of so called "incels." By that same logic, anyone on the forum can find a girl with down syndrome or a genetic/mental deformity and marry her. But why don't they? It is because of limits. Everyone has their own limit on the forum, some greater than others, such as the "if you don't your a volcel" kind of posts, where they show a black women or a morbidly obese women - and everyone jokes around saying looksmatch and whatnot.
I can almost garauntee that no one on the forum will be changing the course of their life to marry a sub 3.
I know this sounds very confusing, especially as it goes against the entire meaning of incel, but it is true.