Serious What NoFap Should Actually Be ("Passive NoFap")

[BlkPillPres]

I have not fapped for exactly 3 days straight, not because I was resisting temptation, not because I was avoiding visual stimuli, but because my body is just satisfied for now because I was fapping enough prior.

Every once in a while after a few weeks of fapping, the urges just stop, and I believe that is your natural rest period, in the same way that I don't force myself not to fap, I don't force myself to fap either, I'm not going to go google porn or look at my personal stash, I'm also not going to avoid certain forms of media, like movies//tv shows/anime with sex scenes or sexual innuendo.

I'm not at war with myself, like the average idiot no fapper, who is constantly torturing themselves to bring about something that ironically comes naturally anyways, when the urges return, and they always do, i'll just go back to fapping, but until then I'm not going to instigate the interest either (I know full well if I start up a porn video now that's it for me). I'll give myself two more days max, might come back tomorrow even.

Seriously there should be no such thing as "nofap", you shouldn't be forcing your body not to seek out a release to an urge, imagine how crazy it would be if someone was doing "nofood", of course if you don't eat you die, but I'm making the argument on the context of resisting a biological urge. Imagine if not eating didn't kill you, but you'd just be hungry all the time and get the belly pains, and there was an online group that obsessed about starving themselves because of all these "magical effects" it gave them even when people who gorged themselves on 3 course meals everyday never had any problems, you'd think these people were idiots for not just eating right?.

Its the same thing for "nofap", its all just a placebo. On that same note, the guys who masturbate 4+ times a day are just as fucking idiotic as nofappers, they are the other side of the coin, they are literally going out of their way to fap multiple times, because the more times you orgasm per day, the less enjoyable it is, and the less you ejaculate, so you are just forcing a ruined experience, you aren't getting your faps worth lol, I'd say max should be 2 times a day, and even that is pushing it, depends on what time you fap and how many hours you rest in between a fap session.

This phenomenon for me is why I never saw the point of nofap, and while it always felt idiotic, because after fapping for weeks, every once in a while you wake up the next day and your libido subsides, so why even go out of your way to force yourself not to fap, when eventually you are going to stop for a day or two anyways, doesn't your body already do nofap.

There is only one condition under which I would say nofap is a logical choice, and that's for a male who is trying to "ascend" and actually has a chance at doing so, that's the only reason to do it to get rid of any ED you may have in relation to porn, but if you aren't going to be having sex with women and you know its over for you, there is literally no reason not to masturbate, its like a man on death row denying himself his last meal and final words.

 

[Deleted member 265]

nofap helps me with motivation but i dont think it can make you "betterlooking" or more "attractive" etc

 

[BlkPillPres]

nofap helps me with motivation but i dont think it can make you "betterlooking" or more "attractive" etc

Motivation?

1. How does it motivate you?

2. What have you accomplished with said "motivation"?

3. How was being sexually satisified a detriment to your "motivation" before nofap?

 

[StaroRavager]

The very premise of no fap is faulty and it becomes even more nonsensical the lower your SMV is

 

[Sans]

The very premise of no fap is faulty and it becomes even more nonsensical the lower your SMV is

That’s because it’s nothing but a massive cope.

 

[truecelweeb444]

That’s because it’s nothing but a massive cope.

 

[VictoryOrDeath]

NoFap meaning resisting your will to fuck is cuckoldry. "You can't get laid so don't even imitate the gesture of getting laid bro"

 

[StaroRavager]

That’s because it’s nothing but a massive cope.

A cope in which you deprive yourself of another cope what will they think of next

 

[rightwing-ethnicel]

Its scientifically proven that porn damages your brain. Porn is giving you a short term high, same as drugs and sugar. You lose the motivation to do simple tasks because you have less dopamine. On the other hand, masturbation without porn isnt bad, if youre not doing it too much

 

[Blacktarpill]

2 or 3 weeks ago i fapped 4 times a day. (for a week)
After that fap marathon, i stopped fapping for 4 days.

 

[Deleted member 265]

Motivation?

1. How does it motivate you?

2. What have you accomplished with said "motivation"?

3. How was being sexually satisified a detriment to your "motivation" before nofap?

1. motivation as in actual betterment of my life, not to achieve some sort of godlike goals. going to the gym, eating healthy, i even enjoy video games a lot more and dont idle as much

2. no comment, retard question

3. i didn't have motivation to even sustain basic necessities of life

also sleeping quality increases 5x, dont need to stay up for 30hours cause i can fall asleep, and i dont get any acne on long streaks

 

[Insomniac]

I don’t really get nofap tbh but if it helps some here then cool.

 

[voiceoftreason]

Only doing nofap to stop balding, I don't care if it doesn't work, I'm literally taking any suggestion I get to at least slow down that shit.

 

[Just_another_cel]

I don’t really get nofap tbh but if it helps some here then cool.

This. I don't get why there's such hostilities between fappers and no-fappers on this board. Why does one group really give a fuck what the other does? Personally I've stopped fapping and have instead used that energy to exercise and have lost a bunch of weight in the process. If I were fapping I would be too damn tired to go walking(oldcel). I say do what works for you and who cares what the rest think.

 

[TheLegendofBentCock]

I always said nofap is placebo. Nofappers are a bunch of weird nerds who relate everything to video games.

I only do it to prove that I have control over my autopsy fetish.

When you watch a woman's stomach being pulled out of her dead body several times a day, whilst sitting in a pool of you're own cum, it can get quite depressing.

There are times when I wish I never found out about the horrors of autopsy.

Also I agree about you're body having a natural cycle. I will fap to autopsies for a whole week, several times a day and then the next couple of weeks I can forget about them until the cycle resets itself.

This. I don't get why there's such hostilities between fappers and no-fappers on this board. Why does one group really give a fuck what the other does? Personally I've stopped fapping and have instead used that energy to exercise and have lost a bunch of weight in the process. If I were fapping I would be too damn tired to go walking(oldcel). I say do what works for you and who cares what the rest think.

Masturbating doesn't sap you're energy, it just lets you focus on things other than sex.

 

[Just_another_cel]

I always said nofap is placebo. Nofappers are a bunch of weird nerds who relate everything to video games.

I only do it to prove that I have control over my autopsy fetish.

When you watch a woman's stomach being pulled out of her dead body several times a day, whilst sitting in a pool of you're own cum, it can get quite depressing.

There are times when I wish I never found out about the horrors of autopsy.

Also I agree about you're body having a natural cycle. I will fap to autopsies for a whole week, several times a day and then the next couple of weeks I can forget about them until the cycle resets itself.




Masturbating doesn't sap you're energy, it just lets you focus on things other than sex.

I can't speak for anyone else but it literally turns me into a lethargic mindless zombie.

 

[TheLegendofBentCock]

I can't speak for anyone else but it literally turns me into a lethargic mindless zombie.

Well it shouldn't unless you are doing it half a dozen times everyday. Perhaps you are low T? I dunno.

 

[nice_try]

One fap a week is a healthy routine in my oppinion.

 

[PectusManletScarCel]

Balance is key too everything

 

[downunderlegattacks]

I practice marital arts/lift weights.
No fap keeps my motivation at it's peak, if you get into a fap cycle you will destroy your life outside of whatever you do in your room.

With not fapping, I have a weapon of sorts; my focus. I can hit my goals of lifting, training, working. That being said I'm in my early thirties, and no longer have the urge to do it all the time.

 

[Salustio]

Nofap is a cult-like group, stop trying to reason with them.

 

[TheLegendofBentCock]

I practice marital arts/lift weights.
No fap keeps my motivation at it's peak, if you get into a fap cycle you will destroy your life outside of whatever you do in your room.

With not fapping, I have a weapon of sorts; my focus. I can hit my goals of lifting, training, working. That being said I'm in my early thirties, and no longer have the urge to do it all the time.

I feel the same. I wish I was approaching when I was 21. Now I approach for social reasons rather than with the hope of getting a girlfriend out of it to service my needs.

 

[Indari]

Nofappers are maddeningly retarded

 

[Mainländer]

Tolerance is shitty. I wish I could fap only to softcore again.

 

[-BrettyBoy-]

I don’t really get nofap tbh but if it helps some here then cool.

 

[Deleted member 8353]

This is how I feel as well, I just fap whenever I feel an actual urge to do so, never out of boredom. Nofap is borderline cuckery if you're not going to be ascending.

 

[BlkPillPres]

I don’t really get nofap tbh but if it helps some here then cool.

Yeah but it doesn't help anything, its a placebo, so that statement is false

This. I don't get why there's such hostilities between fappers and no-fappers on this board. Why does one group really give a fuck what the other does? Personally I've stopped fapping and have instead used that energy to exercise and have lost a bunch of weight in the process. If I were fapping I would be too damn tired to go walking(oldcel)

The hostilities exist because black pillers hate things that are illogical, especially things that are often repeated.

We hate when normies say - "you guys can't get GF's because you hate women" (as though we act the same in our real lives as we do online)

In the same sense that we hate when nofappers say - "I get an energy boost when I don't masturbate" (yet magically people who have sex often, an act that is more physically exerting, aren't as "drained" as they are)

I hate illogical BS period, you guys are peddling BS no different than normies. How the fuck can you argue that you NEED to not masturbate to have the energy levels you have now to function efficiently, while at the same time wanting to have a GF (have sex), wouldn't the sex then drain you even more and then you would not be able exercise or go walking at all, do you see how your retard logic isn't consistent.

Any incels against masturbation SHOULD ALSO BE AGAINST SEX, because sex drains you even more than masturbation, so you'd lose even more of your precious "energy boost stores" JFL. How did you guys get to be so fucking stupid, that's what frustrates, you NEVER address this gaping hole in nofap theory, it should be the first thing that pops into the head of anyone considering nofap as a choice, it was the first thing that popped into my head.

Let me state it again for the final time: IF MASTURBATION (AN ACT WHERE YOU UTILIZE A SINGLE HAND), PHYSICALLY DRAINS YOU EVEN WHEN DONE ONCE A DAY, TO THE POINT THAT YOU CAN'T PERFORM DAILY TASKS, THEN WHY IS EVERYONE ELSE ON THE PLANET WHO HAS VIGOROUS SWEAT INDUCING SEX (AN ACT WHERE YOU UTILIZE YOUR ENTIRE BODY) HAS ENERGY TO PERFORM THESE TASKS WITH NONE OF YOUR COMPLAINS ABOUT ENERGY LOSS.

Clearly you are just under a placebo

Nofappers are maddeningly retarded

I don't think they get that stupidity is enfuriating, that's why all the - "why are you so mad about what they're doing/saying" comments are ridiculous, these are the same guys that will be raging when someone posts about some betabuxx that is getting cucked, rightfully so, stupid people are angering, but they magically forget about that when it comes to nofap - "were not harming anyone", wrong, your stupidity is harming me by making me angry, stop being stupid, or stop spreading your stupidity.

I practice marital arts/lift weights.
No fap keeps my motivation at it's peak, if you get into a fap cycle you will destroy your life outside of whatever you do in your room.

With not fapping, I have a weapon of sorts; my focus. I can hit my goals of lifting, training, working. That being said I'm in my early thirties, and no longer have the urge to do it all the time.

1. This seriously sounds like a cringy troll comment, like you are joking, its just too cliche

2. Alright lets test your logic, lets see if your brain explodes trying to cope with the obvious gaping holes inside nofap theory.

A1. If you get a girlfriend who you have regular sex with, will that affect your energy levels more significantly than when you masturbate?
A2. If your answer is yes, then explain why it doesn't affect everyone else
A3. If your answer is no, explain why masturbation will drain you physically, but a more physically exerting act (sex) won't

One fap a week is a healthy routine in my oppinion.

How old are you, I cannot pull that shit off, one per day at least is what I'd recommend, like a daily multivitamin JFL.

 

[Cuyen]

Only doing nofap to stop balding, I don't care if it doesn't work, I'm literally taking any suggestion I get to at least slow down that shit.

I didn't know it is good for stop balding. somoene mentioned about it in a previous thread but idk

 

[Michael15651]

NoFap meaning resisting your will to fuck is cuckoldry. "You can't get laid so don't even imitate the gesture of getting laid bro"

Well said and summarized.

 

[nice_try]

How old are you, I cannot pull that shit off, one per day at least is what I'd recommend, like a daily multivitamin JFL.

28, but I never had the urge to fap daily. Not even in my teens. Maybe low T. Would explain my small dick, too. :x

 

[downunderlegattacks]

Yeah but it doesn't help anything, its a placebo, so that statement is false



The hostilities exist because black pillers hate things that are illogical, especially things that are often repeated.

We hate when normies say - "you guys can't get GF's because you hate women" (as though we act the same in our real lives as we do online)

In the same sense that we hate when nofappers say - "I get an energy boost when I don't masturbate" (yet magically people who have sex often, an act that is more physically exerting, aren't as "drained" as they are)

I hate illogical BS period, you guys are peddling BS no different than normies. How the fuck can you argue that you NEED to not masturbate to have the energy levels you have now to function efficiently, while at the same time wanting to have a GF (have sex), wouldn't the sex then drain you even more and then you would not be able exercise or go walking at all, do you see how your retard logic isn't consistent.

Any incels against masturbation SHOULD ALSO BE AGAINST SEX, because sex drains you even more than masturbation, so you'd lose even more of your precious "energy boost stores" JFL. How did you guys get to be so fucking stupid, that's what frustrates, you NEVER address this gaping hole in nofap theory, it should be the first thing that pops into the head of anyone considering nofap as a choice, it was the first thing that popped into my head.

Let me state it again for the final time: IF MASTURBATION (AN ACT WHERE YOU UTILIZE A SINGLE HAND), PHYSICALLY DRAINS YOU EVEN WHEN DONE ONCE A DAY, TO THE POINT THAT YOU CAN'T PERFORM DAILY TASKS, THEN WHY IS EVERYONE ELSE ON THE PLANET WHO HAS VIGOROUS SWEAT INDUCING SEX (AN ACT WHERE YOU UTILIZE YOUR ENTIRE BODY) HAS ENERGY TO PERFORM THESE TASKS WITH NONE OF YOUR COMPLAINS ABOUT ENERGY LOSS.

Clearly you are just under a placebo



I don't think they get that stupidity is enfuriating, that's why all the - "why are you so mad about what they're doing/saying" comments are ridiculous, these are the same guys that will be raging when someone posts about some betabuxx that is getting cucked, rightfully so, stupid people are angering, but they magically forget about that when it comes to nofap - "were not harming anyone", wrong, your stupidity is harming me by making me angry, stop being stupid, or stop spreading your stupidity.



1. This seriously sounds like a cringy troll comment, like you are joking, its just too cliche

2. Alright lets test your logic, lets see if your brain explodes trying to cope with the obvious gaping holes inside nofap theory.

A1. If you get a girlfriend who you have regular sex with, will that affect your energy levels more significantly than when you masturbate?
A2. If your answer is yes, then explain why it doesn't affect everyone else
A3. If your answer is no, explain why masturbation will drain you physically, but a more physically exerting act (sex) won't



How old are you, I cannot pull that shit off, one per day at least is what I'd recommend, like a daily multivitamin JFL.

There is no argument here my man, I'm describing what works for me.

What cringe are you talking about? This is my life lol. I'm going to ignore some random ass dude on the net shit talking my routine.

A1/2 Sex/Masturbating does effect your body, everyone does feel lethargic or move differently after it.

What logic or cope? LMAO it's what I do and feel. You're being an asshole for no reason.

That being said keep up the great work.

 

[BlkPillPres]

There is no argument here my man, I'm describing what works for me.

What cringe are you talking about? This is my life lol. I'm going to ignore some random ass dude on the net shit talking my routine.

A1/2 Sex/Masturbating does effect your body, everyone does feel lethargic or move differently after it.

What logic or cope? LMAO it's what I do and feel. You're being an asshole for no reason.

That being said keep up the great work.

JFL, the irony, this kind of arguing seems to be a trend with nofappers, I had to point out what you're doing here, to another guy in a thread:

Your final statement reeks of this BS concept of - "personal truths" when you say "equally valid IN MY VIEW", there is no such thing as "personal truths", something is either true or it isn't, were either right or wrong. Anybody who is unwilling to assert they are right, and wants to take the "agree to disagree" stance has indicated that they are arguing disingenuously and don't actually care if what they believe is true or not, they don't care about actually being right, they just want to keep doing/saying it.

You guys always jump to the "lets agree to disagree" stance when pressed on your beliefs, if it were actually true and something you believed worked, you'd easily be able to assert it is true, but you guys never do that, when someone asks simple logical questions all of a sudden the fervor fades and you guys back peddle into - "it doesn't matter, I'm gonna keep doing it, I don't care".

You can't answer one simple question:
IF MASTURBATION KEEPS YOU FROM EXERCISING AND STAYING HEALTHY, THEN AREN'T YOU ADMITTING THAT YOU CAN NEVER HAVE A WOMAN BECAUSE THAT WOULD LEAVE YOU TOO DRAINED TO DO ANYTHING?

So are you even incel at this point, shouldn't you just thank women for rejecting you, allowing you to have all this energy to pursue your goals

I think that's the greatest irony about incel nofappers, the two mindsets are contradictory in a sense, because if not masturbating yields so many benefits, then not having sex yields even more benefits, so why do you even want a woman then, you should thank them for being hypergramous and rejecting you, if you had sex often it would kill your health way more than masturbation.

You should be thanking Chad for cucking you, really he's just helping you keep your health and vitality, he's a hero, he's taking on all that physically draining stuff so that you can keep your "routine" (copes) up.

 

[downunderlegattacks]

Didn't even read it.
I'm not a nofapper, I'm just sharing my routine.

 

[BlkPillPres]

I'm just sharing my routine.

What for, it hasn't help you escape inceldom, so what use is it, just more pointless copes, also JFL at avoiding the truth, cognitive bias at its best.

Why should anyone heed the advice of someone like yourself who avoids arguments.

Whats the point of replying to say "didn't read", you'd have the same effectiveness if you simply didn't reply at all.

 

[downunderlegattacks]

What for, it hasn't help you escape inceldom, so what use is it, just more pointless copes, also JFL at avoiding the truth, cognitive bias at its best.

Why should anyone heed the advice of someone like yourself who avoids arguments.

Whats the point of replying to say "didn't read", you'd have the same effectiveness if you simply didn't reply at all.

I'm not giving advice.
I'm just talking with you guys.

But even if you were to press me, to ME, sex/masturbating would stop me from going to the gym.

Am I saying it would stop gains? No. Am I saying everyone should follow me? No. Would I tell people not to jerk off for performance enhancement or focus? No.

I'm just saying what I do for BJJ/lifting. Cope? Sure, for women. Have I gotten results?

Yeah. I'm 185lbs, sub 15% bf, and I'm good at BJJ and MMA. But I'm not stupid enough to say that because I got my results, that everyone should follow.

Anyways, I enjoy your content regardless if you're just picking a fight for no reason.