Was that someone on Lookism (I forgot his username) talked about the idea of genetic resilience: If you have superior genes you can overcome the difficulties in your shit environment no matter how severe these are. In fact a shit environment only makes you stronger.
I used to blame my parents a lot for my upbringing which I thought made my life hell. Now looking back I’d say they were unsuccessful because their genes are inferior too which also determined their treating me badly. My mom most likely has ADHD inattentive type and my dad is 100% a narcissist. JFL @ them having unrealistic expectations for me despite being dead average themselves.
I used to blame my parents a lot for my upbringing which I thought made my life hell. Now looking back I’d say they were unsuccessful because their genes are inferior too which also determined their treating me badly. My mom most likely has ADHD inattentive type and my dad is 100% a narcissist. JFL @ them having unrealistic expectations for me despite being dead average themselves.
