What long term effects will/have not having sex do to you?

[The End]

We're all pretty pissed off here, and it's all because we are without sex. But even if we do get sex someday down the line, what unalterable effects will/have not having sex during our primes (teens, early twenties) have on us?

Spoiler: My answer to my own question.

It's difficult to say what are the direct results of not having a "coming of age" youth. So, we will have to guess.

Me, I'm 37 years old so I can safely say my personality is cemented. As a preface, these are the effects I believe inceldom has had on me, obviously different people will have different outcomes.

• I hate women, and it's pretty clear why -- they hate me. They have something I want but won't give it to me.
• I'm more alienated than I would be otherwise. My very nature forbids me to ever be super social, but I think I would have more socializing opportunities if I were linked to women.
• Lower self-esteem.
• Less happy, and less satisfied.
• My jealousy has been super-charged by my lack of sex. When you see other people enjoying what you want, but you cannot have it, it's impossible not to be jealous.
• More self-absorbed and narcissistic.
• My hatred of women has made it impossible to enjoy entertainment where women are featured prominently.
• My nihilism has been increased, because I've experienced so little of value.
• I'm fixated on suicide and ER.
• My ability to handle responsibility has been lessened.
• I've led a more unhealthy life because there has been no reason to be fit.
• Even aside from sex, I've had less life experiences because I have no one to share them with.
• Other people perceive me as more of a loser because of my lack of sex. Of course in the future from now on, I won't tell anyone about my inceldom.

 

[BraccusRex]

Ironically sex seems like it would just be another cope for incels. Even if we did get a looksmatch girlfriend. With everything we learned about the blackpill we would never be able to live a life of blissful ignorance like normies.

It's over before it even began.

 

[Joelossus]

Ironically sex seems like it would just be another cope for incels. Even if we did get a looksmatch girlfriend. With everything we learned about the blackpill we would never be able to live a life of blissful ignorance like normies.

It's over before it even began.

This. Even if i should somehow manage to acsend with my looksmatch, it would still be impossible for me to forget about the blackpill. The thought of her being able to leave me any time for a genetically superior man, will always be in the back of my head, and it would ruin all the days i would spend with her.

 

[turbocuckcel_7000]

your entire psychology becomes very different and you are liable to do all sorts of stuff that will increase your agitation and suffering and isolation.
it will be much harder to make friends (little in common) or start a relationship at all (all you can get is rotten leftovers after being starved) or think positively, which is a prerequisite for a good work ethic and making good consistent progress towards goals.
and you'll feel a very strong urge towards desperate risky behaviors and giant self-sacrificial amounts of work (common pitfalls for single men, thread coming soon)

 

[The End]

Ironically sex seems like it would just be another cope for incels. Even if we did get a looksmatch girlfriend. With everything we learned about the blackpill we would never be able to live a life of blissful ignorance like normies.

It's over before it even began.

Yes, I agree. I think the damage is done. Are psyches are warped by our deprivation. I really believe that. I think it's not entirely dissimilar to the effects child molestation has on the victim. Or perhaps missing your parents' love.

I think I'd be aware of the blackpill even if I fucked girls. I really study humans, and try to break down their behavior as basically as I can. I always try to learn the truth, and the truth about humans is usually not in line with the popular belief. We're too biased.

 

[mybodyisrotting]

I wonder if the state of mind that allows one to go ER is an evolutionary mechanism that gives an incel a low inhib boost necessary to possibly pass on his genes by force.

 

[surgeryordeath]

social isolation

 

[The End]

I wonder if the state of mind that allows one to go ER is an evolutionary mechanism that gives an incel a low inhib boost necessary to possibly pass on his genes by force.

Oh absolutely. Animals became dangerous when cornered, right? Our DNA not being passed on is the death of our genetic line. Evolution do not like that. Men rape because it works in getting their DNA to move onto another generation.

I also read that polygamy ended specifically to curtail the random violence perpetrated by men without families.

 

[StaroRavager]

I already went a little crazy yesterday. I’ve been feeling much lower than usual lately

 

[Lubricure]

Yes, I agree. I think the damage is done. Are psyches are warped by our deprivation. I really believe that. I think it's not entirely dissimilar to the effects child molestation has on the victim. Or perhaps missing your parents' love.

I confirm that, the lack of sex has utterly destroyed my ability to cope and feel pleasure. The usual (((media))) have no longer effect, videogames, food, music, I quitted them altogether, they not only stopped working...but they would actually made me feel drained if I used them. As the damage keeps piling up, escortcelling becomes less and less effective in clearing up the mess.

Emotionally speaking, I'm dead inside. While I can set goals and reach them, it's machine like work, I've lost the human dimension of the experience itself. And of course, I'm very angry, more like cold anger.

Oh absolutely. Animals became dangerous when cornered, right? Our DNA not being passed on is the death of our genetic line. Evolution do not like that. Men rape because it works in getting their DNA to move onto another generation.

I also read that polygamy ended specifically to curtail the random violence perpetrated by men without families.

Exactly, polygamy is very inefficient at maintaining society, and I've also read it was eventually abolished also to curb out STDs.

Feminists have to go back to the kitchen and let real monogamy do the heavy lifting. They're creating a damned jungle, yet they're too delusional and evil minded.

 

[Saung-Hui Cho]

I’d think about the fact that while I have no prior sexual experiences, the foid will have had plenty. That would create the awkward situation of her knowing I have no experience whatsoever. Knowing that she would always have something to compare it to, while I have none.

Let’s say for example she said something innocent like “you’re a good kisser.” If I said “you too,” she would think to herself, how does he know?

 

[Deleted member 8884]

It's over basically. By the time you pass a certain threshold (age 19-22) it's completely over. Even if you somehow had sex, you can't undo what has been done. Or hasn't been, in this case.

 

[Player]

Wasted life is enough by itself. Also I hate social stigma of being a virgin. There is no tolerance in our society for such things.

 

[ihaveno1]

so many that i could write pages upon pages of them, it's at bottom of maslows pyramid for a reason

 

[The End]

It's over basically. By the time you pass a certain threshold (age 19-22) it's completely over. Even if you somehow had sex, you can't undo what has been done. Or hasn't been, in this case.

My experience is telling people you're a virgin is a total no-no. I have a bad case of TMI, so I used to tell people about my lack of sex without prompt. Women hate that. They hate sexless men more than men hate women being complete sluts. It lets them know you are Grade F meat.

Don't tell anyone you're sexually inexperienced. It's another negative, and we have enough written all over our faces.

 

[tulasdanslos]

My experience is telling people you're a virgin is a total no-no. I have a bad case of TMI, so I used to tell people about my lack of sex without prompt. Women hate that. They hate sexless men more than men hate women being complete sluts. It lets them know you are Grade F meat.

Don't tell anyone you're sexually inexperienced. It's another negative, and we have enough written all over our faces.

I never understood this. How are you supposed to fool them if they had doubts about it in the first place? I mean they know you're a grown ass man and still ask, do you not think they made up their mind already?
Makes me think you guys are fakecels, nobody ever asked me this, ugly short ethnic was all the info they needed to gather so as to have an idea of my situation.

 

[Deleted member 17599]

 

[The End]

I never understood this. How are you supposed to fool them if they had doubts about it in the first place? I mean they know you're a grown ass man and still ask, do you not think they made up their mind already?
Makes me think you guys are fakecels, nobody ever asked me this, ugly short ethnic was all the info they needed to gather so as to have an idea of my situation.

Just say nothing. "It's not your business." or "I've had a couple of girlfriends..." Keep everything vague, and only bring it up if asked.

Me? I volunteered the information out of absolutely nothing. This is how I talked to women:

"Oh hi, would you like to go on a date? What would you like to do? I don't really have any experience in dating (I'm a virgin!), so any direction by you would be helpful. "

Yes, I was that stupid. That's exactly how I used to talk to women. At 28 years old.

 

[ElliotRodgerGod]

suicide

 

[TheRealChincel]

A lack of motivation, lowers your confidence, makes you more on edge, etc.

 

[TheProphetMuscle]

I’m slowly losing my mind

 

[Yungguy]

It's caused me to hate foids and be completely unable to speak to them and it's turned me into a nilhlist.

 

[Ellsworth]

I don’t understand how it is ethical for schools to promote abstinence. Sure you avoid possible std or unintended pregnancy. But as we all know, being a virgin past the age of no return is highly detrimental to a mans mental health. Incels are usually lonely isolate people, which studies have show is very bad for physical health.

 

[Vorbei]

It's a kind of background radiation always letting you know that you have no value as a man in the eyes of society, and it informs everything you do.

 

[Cleftcel]

I’m slowly losing my mind

same, I worry what decades more of this torture will do to me tbh

 

[Deleted member 14577]

According to this, when mice spend a prolonged period away from their colony their brains alter which causes: "increased aggressiveness towards unfamiliar mice, persistent fear, and hypersensitivity to threatening stimuli". From what I've noticed on myself, similar happens to humans (well, me at least), isolation made me perceive other people as nothing more than threats which leads me to a constant state of anxiety and anger. In the long term, I only see it drawing me closer to a breaking point.

 

[zangano1]

Death

 

[tanfeo]

Similar feelings here.
It's a constant torture to wake up and see the world going about it's business while I'm floating in some bubble.
No interaction with people other than work, no social life, no friends and not any foid that considers me for anything more then just disgusting looks.

As a result, I've been growing rather fat lately. I've started talking to myself just to have someone as a conversation partner.
I don't like to go out much, just as others hace stated it feels uncomfortable and I perceive people as a threat most of the time.
The looks, knowing that you're an outcast, makes life a hell.

I've thought a lot of the breaking point and it what form it will manifest. I don't know when.
Everyday I'm amazed that I'm still alive, everyday is just more of the shit and who knows how much more I can take.