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Experiment What kind of girl (attractiveness) are you open to dating?

What kind of girl (attractiveness) are you open to dating?

  • I would take anything (landwhale, 2/10 uggos etc)

    Votes: 11 17.2%
  • I won't date ultra uggos and landwhales

    Votes: 21 32.8%
  • Girls my looksmatch and above

    Votes: 25 39.1%
  • Only stacies, I have standards

    Votes: 7 10.9%

  • Total voters
    64
To me, its not about looks, its about NOT being a feminist and about being a traditional, christian housewife. She can be almost anything on the looks scale if she meets those two requirements. Finding that is harder than finding a woman who is attracted to me.
 
I want stacies but since it will never happen I would take my looksmatch
 
No landwhales. Ugly, I don't care.
 
Only Stacies tbh, preferably younger
 
I'm willing to fuck anything as longs as it resembles a human being I just don't care anymore man
 
Prime virgin stacy only.
 
my dream is to bang a skinny girl with abs.
 
as long as she doesn't have a gross deformity i'm game. morbid obesity being a gross deformity, but I don't mind chubby girls at all.
 
Only Stacies tbh, preferably younger

Tenor 2
 
My brain is programmed to like stacies in order to maximize the genetic output of my children
 
Where’s the my “looksmatch and BELOW”?
 
  • I won't date ultra uggos and landwhales
    Votes: 4 (22.2%)
  • Girls my looksmatch and above
    Votes: 3 (16.7%)
  • Only stacies, I have standards
    Votes: 6 (33.3%)


Fakecels galore
Where’s the my “looksmatch and BELOW”?
 
Woah, a lotta guys with high standards here!

I guess if they want long-term relationships, they have to aim for someone that doesn't make them want to barf. But they aren't going to get anyone over 3/10 into a LTR....
 
Looksmatch and virgin or nothing.
 
  • I won't date ultra uggos and landwhales
    Votes: 4 (22.2%)
  • Girls my looksmatch and above
    Votes: 3 (16.7%)
  • Only stacies, I have standards
    Votes: 6 (33.3%)


Fakecels galore
Woah, a lotta guys with high standards here!

I guess if they want long-term relationships, they have to aim for someone that doesn't make them want to barf. But they aren't going to get anyone over 3/10 into a LTR....
Where’s the my “looksmatch and BELOW”?


The questions are kind of loaded and not detailed enough. A girl can be skinny and have an ugly face, a girl can be fat and have a pretty face.
 
It is perfectly acceptable to require your looksmatch as a minimum. As incels, we are all sub-5, so that’s not a high bar. I draw the line at morbidly obese, medically deformed, and abo.
 
Any girl who puts effort into her appearance (isn't a landwhale) and never had casual sex. So basically it's over for me.
 
Red Flags LTR Checklist

If a girl breaches one of these red flags, then she is unfit for marriage. Be ruthless, don't rationalize or become desperate. MGTOW is preferable to a shitty marriage.

alcohol / tobacco / drug addiction (or use, ever (excluding alcohol, light drinker preferred)

marijuana usage (ever)

binge shopping / debt / declining credit cards (ever)

talking to ex’s all the time / friend zoning lots of random guys to keep as orbiters

Tattoos / abnormal piercings / short hair (like a boy’s) /neon-colored hair

being blatantly manipulative

high-doses of entitlement or grandiosity

high-doses of self entitlement

criminal record that isn’t minor crimes

narcissistic or bipolar disorder

STDs or terminal illnesses

trivial things enrage her / drama queen

brain incapacity to distinguish between intentional and unintentional actions

likes to go out all the time without you, not with friends but to get attention/validation from strangers

doesn’t care if you orgasm, only cares for her own

depressive, problem-creator, gas-lighter
impulsiveness

passive-aggressiveness or avoiding conflict to the point where they lie and hide things from you

neglectful / abusive parents

childhood abuse

seeing a psychiatrist

having only male friends / having a lack of female friends

using powerful words in the wrong context (exaggerated) ‘molest’, ‘oppress’, ‘torture’, ‘rape’, ‘genocide’, ‘abuse’, ‘illegal’

doesn’t do you any sexual favors/desires except for the position she wants

inability to hold down a job or laziness
control freak / health freak / highly OCD (gets pissed that you left a glass somewhere or you didn’t clean something small and trivial)

highly emotional

engages in gossip

oddly skilled at sex

dudes seem to recognize her everywhere and are all friendly & shit

doesn’t care when you try to bareback her

says she likes dancing but can’t do any ACTUAL dances aside from grinding like a degenerate

commitment issues

never views problems as her fault

her promises are flexible

her explanations don’t add up

doesn’t show appreciation

lack of humility

speaks ill of exes

doesn’t know how to cook

listens to rap or emulates black pop culture

nonreligious

remembers offenses and uses it as ammunition

constantly bored and always wants something new

big difference between how she treats you in public vs in private

alpha widowed

rape claims in the past

at any point admits to destroying an ex's belongings

bad/nonexistent relationship with father

has ever taken part in an anti-Trump protest

lying to others, especially during phone calls

frequent clubbing, getting wasted

plastic surgery

makeup

cheating / non faithful in the past

single mom

divorcee

has ever used Tinder / online dating

fucked her within the first few months (6 month grace period)

you haven't met her family after 2 months

any type of sex worker

slutty friends, high amount of male friends or surrounds herself with gay bffs

she was in a sorority

she gives an amazing blowjob like a pro

her mother is a whale

she physically strikes you in any manner that is not playful

doesn't want to be seen with you

high partner count

frequently shows up late or blows you off

makes a scene in public

she’s ever had a one night stand, even if ‘it was just one drunken night in college'

victim mentality

black or green nail polish

house/bedroom isn’t clean

disowned by her family

her ex-boyfriends are always hanging around

she came out of a long term abusive relationship with some asshole

giving ultimatums ‘if you loved me, you would <insert ultimatum>’. I respond with ‘if you loved me, you wouldn’t be giving me ultimatums. We’re done. Bye.’

She is mean to random people

She boasts that she can’t “get along” with other girls, or claims that other girls ‘hate’ her

She constantly talks shit about her best friends

She has no friends

She posts about how she “hates guys”

feminism or extreme far-left views

overly protective of her phone

you met her at work

she asks “how much do you make”

she takes pride in ‘being one of the guys’

traveled solo around the world after college

irresponsibility / avoiding duties

She is younger than 18 years old

She is older than 25 years old

She is older than you

She isn’t a virgin

She isn’t very beautiful

She must be feminine

The idea of being a traditional stay-at-home mother must appeal to her no matter how unrealistic

She must be highly religious, she must opt out of certain acts solely because God commanded her to. There are millions of girls in America who “believe in God” but do drugs, lie, cheat and have countless sexual partners.

Make sure she is authentic about wanting a family and to be a good wife and mother.

I don’t see the point in getting married if you’re not going to pop two children out of her soon afterwards. Unless she just wants sex. No rush until she wants children.


Green Flags/bonuses
Responsible. Financially, doing chores, alcohol responsible behavior,

Empathetic

Stable intact family

Highly religious

Facebook pictures are of her and female friends and family

previous partner count of 1 or 2.

Educated, strong conservative family, has a career

Any type of volunteer work

Virgin, especially if she is waiting until marriage

When you first go over to her house she introduces you to all of her roommates

No canceled dates, if she can’t go then she lets you know ahead of time and gives a counter offer

home cooked food not takeout

too young to have ridden the CC

Hard-work ethics

Sports/gym routines

Goes out of her way to do you favors in the bedroom

Slightly moderate/conservative. Likes tradition and traditional male-female roles.

Generous

Self-discipline, controls her behaviors

Clingyness to you

Happy/positive/optimistic attitude

Doesn’t get easily mad or irritated

Can talk rationally like a mature adult without getting mad at anything

When you challenge her, she acknowledges your views and/or changes her mind about an issue frequently when challenged

Does things that are done because she is anxious or fearful that you might get angry/irritated with her. So she does it out of respect for you.

Nuturing/kind behavior to others, even animals

Enjoys it when you make decisions for her

Hobbies, interests, reading non-fiction (indicates intelligence)
Cool hobbies: Ice skating, horse riding, knitting, sewing, cooking, decorating for christmas, playing with kids, painting, violin, piano, musical instruments, books, Jane Austin’s works, animals
 
Red Flags LTR Checklist

If a girl breaches one of these red flags, then she is unfit for marriage. Be ruthless, don't rationalize or become desperate. MGTOW is preferable to a shitty marriage.

alcohol / tobacco / drug addiction (or use, ever (excluding alcohol, light drinker preferred)

marijuana usage (ever)

binge shopping / debt / declining credit cards (ever)

talking to ex’s all the time / friend zoning lots of random guys to keep as orbiters

Tattoos / abnormal piercings / short hair (like a boy’s) /neon-colored hair

being blatantly manipulative

high-doses of entitlement or grandiosity

high-doses of self entitlement

criminal record that isn’t minor crimes

narcissistic or bipolar disorder

STDs or terminal illnesses

trivial things enrage her / drama queen

brain incapacity to distinguish between intentional and unintentional actions

likes to go out all the time without you, not with friends but to get attention/validation from strangers

doesn’t care if you orgasm, only cares for her own

depressive, problem-creator, gas-lighter
impulsiveness

passive-aggressiveness or avoiding conflict to the point where they lie and hide things from you

neglectful / abusive parents

childhood abuse

seeing a psychiatrist

having only male friends / having a lack of female friends

using powerful words in the wrong context (exaggerated) ‘molest’, ‘oppress’, ‘torture’, ‘rape’, ‘genocide’, ‘abuse’, ‘illegal’

doesn’t do you any sexual favors/desires except for the position she wants

inability to hold down a job or laziness
control freak / health freak / highly OCD (gets pissed that you left a glass somewhere or you didn’t clean something small and trivial)

highly emotional

engages in gossip

oddly skilled at sex

dudes seem to recognize her everywhere and are all friendly & shit

doesn’t care when you try to bareback her

says she likes dancing but can’t do any ACTUAL dances aside from grinding like a degenerate

commitment issues

never views problems as her fault

her promises are flexible

her explanations don’t add up

doesn’t show appreciation

lack of humility

speaks ill of exes

doesn’t know how to cook

listens to rap or emulates black pop culture

nonreligious

remembers offenses and uses it as ammunition

constantly bored and always wants something new

big difference between how she treats you in public vs in private

alpha widowed

rape claims in the past

at any point admits to destroying an ex's belongings

bad/nonexistent relationship with father

has ever taken part in an anti-Trump protest

lying to others, especially during phone calls

frequent clubbing, getting wasted

plastic surgery

makeup

cheating / non faithful in the past

single mom

divorcee

has ever used Tinder / online dating

fucked her within the first few months (6 month grace period)

you haven't met her family after 2 months

any type of sex worker

slutty friends, high amount of male friends or surrounds herself with gay bffs

she was in a sorority

she gives an amazing blowjob like a pro

her mother is a whale

she physically strikes you in any manner that is not playful

doesn't want to be seen with you

high partner count

frequently shows up late or blows you off

makes a scene in public

she’s ever had a one night stand, even if ‘it was just one drunken night in college'

victim mentality

black or green nail polish

house/bedroom isn’t clean

disowned by her family

her ex-boyfriends are always hanging around

she came out of a long term abusive relationship with some asshole

giving ultimatums ‘if you loved me, you would <insert ultimatum>’. I respond with ‘if you loved me, you wouldn’t be giving me ultimatums. We’re done. Bye.’

She is mean to random people

She boasts that she can’t “get along” with other girls, or claims that other girls ‘hate’ her

She constantly talks shit about her best friends

She has no friends

She posts about how she “hates guys”

feminism or extreme far-left views

overly protective of her phone

you met her at work

she asks “how much do you make”

she takes pride in ‘being one of the guys’

traveled solo around the world after college

irresponsibility / avoiding duties

She is younger than 18 years old

She is older than 25 years old

She is older than you

She isn’t a virgin

She isn’t very beautiful

She must be feminine

The idea of being a traditional stay-at-home mother must appeal to her no matter how unrealistic

She must be highly religious, she must opt out of certain acts solely because God commanded her to. There are millions of girls in America who “believe in God” but do drugs, lie, cheat and have countless sexual partners.

Make sure she is authentic about wanting a family and to be a good wife and mother.

I don’t see the point in getting married if you’re not going to pop two children out of her soon afterwards. Unless she just wants sex. No rush until she wants children.


Green Flags/bonuses
Responsible. Financially, doing chores, alcohol responsible behavior,

Empathetic

Stable intact family

Highly religious

Facebook pictures are of her and female friends and family

previous partner count of 1 or 2.

Educated, strong conservative family, has a career

Any type of volunteer work

Virgin, especially if she is waiting until marriage

When you first go over to her house she introduces you to all of her roommates

No canceled dates, if she can’t go then she lets you know ahead of time and gives a counter offer

home cooked food not takeout

too young to have ridden the CC

Hard-work ethics

Sports/gym routines

Goes out of her way to do you favors in the bedroom

Slightly moderate/conservative. Likes tradition and traditional male-female roles.

Generous

Self-discipline, controls her behaviors

Clingyness to you

Happy/positive/optimistic attitude

Doesn’t get easily mad or irritated

Can talk rationally like a mature adult without getting mad at anything

When you challenge her, she acknowledges your views and/or changes her mind about an issue frequently when challenged

Does things that are done because she is anxious or fearful that you might get angry/irritated with her. So she does it out of respect for you.

Nuturing/kind behavior to others, even animals

Enjoys it when you make decisions for her

Hobbies, interests, reading non-fiction (indicates intelligence)
Cool hobbies: Ice skating, horse riding, knitting, sewing, cooking, decorating for christmas, playing with kids, painting, violin, piano, musical instruments, books, Jane Austin’s works, animals
:lul::lul:
 
4/10 if white or Latino, 3/10 if asian

No landwhales
 
Bro, why you doing all these polls? Are you a CIAnigger getting data on us?:feelswhere::feelsmega:
 
Red Flags LTR Checklist

If a girl breaches one of these red flags, then she is unfit for marriage. Be ruthless, don't rationalize or become desperate. MGTOW is preferable to a shitty marriage.

alcohol / tobacco / drug addiction (or use, ever (excluding alcohol, light drinker preferred)

marijuana usage (ever)

binge shopping / debt / declining credit cards (ever)

talking to ex’s all the time / friend zoning lots of random guys to keep as orbiters

Tattoos / abnormal piercings / short hair (like a boy’s) /neon-colored hair

being blatantly manipulative

high-doses of entitlement or grandiosity

high-doses of self entitlement

criminal record that isn’t minor crimes

narcissistic or bipolar disorder

STDs or terminal illnesses

trivial things enrage her / drama queen

brain incapacity to distinguish between intentional and unintentional actions

likes to go out all the time without you, not with friends but to get attention/validation from strangers

doesn’t care if you orgasm, only cares for her own

depressive, problem-creator, gas-lighter
impulsiveness

passive-aggressiveness or avoiding conflict to the point where they lie and hide things from you

neglectful / abusive parents

childhood abuse

seeing a psychiatrist

having only male friends / having a lack of female friends

using powerful words in the wrong context (exaggerated) ‘molest’, ‘oppress’, ‘torture’, ‘rape’, ‘genocide’, ‘abuse’, ‘illegal’

doesn’t do you any sexual favors/desires except for the position she wants

inability to hold down a job or laziness
control freak / health freak / highly OCD (gets pissed that you left a glass somewhere or you didn’t clean something small and trivial)

highly emotional

engages in gossip

oddly skilled at sex

dudes seem to recognize her everywhere and are all friendly & shit

doesn’t care when you try to bareback her

says she likes dancing but can’t do any ACTUAL dances aside from grinding like a degenerate

commitment issues

never views problems as her fault

her promises are flexible

her explanations don’t add up

doesn’t show appreciation

lack of humility

speaks ill of exes

doesn’t know how to cook

listens to rap or emulates black pop culture

nonreligious

remembers offenses and uses it as ammunition

constantly bored and always wants something new

big difference between how she treats you in public vs in private

alpha widowed

rape claims in the past

at any point admits to destroying an ex's belongings

bad/nonexistent relationship with father

has ever taken part in an anti-Trump protest

lying to others, especially during phone calls

frequent clubbing, getting wasted

plastic surgery

makeup

cheating / non faithful in the past

single mom

divorcee

has ever used Tinder / online dating

fucked her within the first few months (6 month grace period)

you haven't met her family after 2 months

any type of sex worker

slutty friends, high amount of male friends or surrounds herself with gay bffs

she was in a sorority

she gives an amazing blowjob like a pro

her mother is a whale

she physically strikes you in any manner that is not playful

doesn't want to be seen with you

high partner count

frequently shows up late or blows you off

makes a scene in public

she’s ever had a one night stand, even if ‘it was just one drunken night in college'

victim mentality

black or green nail polish

house/bedroom isn’t clean

disowned by her family

her ex-boyfriends are always hanging around

she came out of a long term abusive relationship with some asshole

giving ultimatums ‘if you loved me, you would <insert ultimatum>’. I respond with ‘if you loved me, you wouldn’t be giving me ultimatums. We’re done. Bye.’

She is mean to random people

She boasts that she can’t “get along” with other girls, or claims that other girls ‘hate’ her

She constantly talks shit about her best friends

She has no friends

She posts about how she “hates guys”

feminism or extreme far-left views

overly protective of her phone

you met her at work

she asks “how much do you make”

she takes pride in ‘being one of the guys’

traveled solo around the world after college

irresponsibility / avoiding duties

She is younger than 18 years old

She is older than 25 years old

She is older than you

She isn’t a virgin

She isn’t very beautiful

She must be feminine

The idea of being a traditional stay-at-home mother must appeal to her no matter how unrealistic

She must be highly religious, she must opt out of certain acts solely because God commanded her to. There are millions of girls in America who “believe in God” but do drugs, lie, cheat and have countless sexual partners.

Make sure she is authentic about wanting a family and to be a good wife and mother.

I don’t see the point in getting married if you’re not going to pop two children out of her soon afterwards. Unless she just wants sex. No rush until she wants children.


Green Flags/bonuses
Responsible. Financially, doing chores, alcohol responsible behavior,

Empathetic

Stable intact family

Highly religious

Facebook pictures are of her and female friends and family

previous partner count of 1 or 2.

Educated, strong conservative family, has a career

Any type of volunteer work

Virgin, especially if she is waiting until marriage

When you first go over to her house she introduces you to all of her roommates

No canceled dates, if she can’t go then she lets you know ahead of time and gives a counter offer

home cooked food not takeout

too young to have ridden the CC

Hard-work ethics

Sports/gym routines

Goes out of her way to do you favors in the bedroom

Slightly moderate/conservative. Likes tradition and traditional male-female roles.

Generous

Self-discipline, controls her behaviors

Clingyness to you

Happy/positive/optimistic attitude

Doesn’t get easily mad or irritated

Can talk rationally like a mature adult without getting mad at anything

When you challenge her, she acknowledges your views and/or changes her mind about an issue frequently when challenged

Does things that are done because she is anxious or fearful that you might get angry/irritated with her. So she does it out of respect for you.

Nuturing/kind behavior to others, even animals

Enjoys it when you make decisions for her

Hobbies, interests, reading non-fiction (indicates intelligence)
Cool hobbies: Ice skating, horse riding, knitting, sewing, cooking, decorating for christmas, playing with kids, painting, violin, piano, musical instruments, books, Jane Austin’s works, animals
If a woman actually showed interrest I can't imagine you checking off all the points in this list.
 
Preferably slightly above looksmatch for me. When approaching girls I tend to go for mainly Staceys but am starting to rethink that as it's not realistic.
 
If she likes me I dont care .

The problen is that 2/10 girls have rejected me

:feelsree::feelsree::feelsree::feelsree:
 
To me, its not about looks, its about NOT being a feminist and about being a traditional, christian housewife. She can be almost anything on the looks scale if she meets those two requirements. Finding that is harder than finding a woman who is attracted to me.
This exactly, being a traditionalist and a virgin are my only two standards, I'll take ANYONE that falls under that category
 
I won't date uggos and landwhales, but it doesn't mean i wouldn't fuck them, if offered. Also i would date nearly any non-deformed asian, maybe even 2/10.
 
I have no interest anymore.
 
If I as an incel can get my ass in shape, she can at the very least not look like a hippo... no landwales, period, not even "fat handles". Just the idea that someone would do that to their own body disgusts me.
 
The questions are kind of loaded and not detailed enough. A girl can be skinny and have an ugly face, a girl can be fat and have a pretty face.
The general gist is still present though, it's an overall rating...
 

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