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What is worse is that people don't seem to even understand us and our end goal...

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http://www.yourtango.com/233213/10-heartbreaking-truths-about-loneliness-single-people-dont-say

First time I've seen this talked about. It hits the right notes.

Being incel inherently isn't the only thing that I'm mad about. Its about how people blame us for our problems. A lot of people on this sub are just downright ugly (INB5 platitudes about ugly people also being in happy relationships) and/or have a spectrum of mental disorders. Some are hit really really hard and have both.

Normies don't understand that what[size=small][size=small] incels want is to feel valued on the sexual marketplace. To feel like they are worthy and desirable as sexual creatures. Sex is not the end goal, it is just a symptom of being valuable and desirable as a sexual creature.[/size][/size]

[size=small][size=small]I haven't escortceled yet, but I might. It might be pleasurable physically for the time being, but it will still be incomplete.[/size][/size]

[size=small][size=small]I feel like romantic relationships are the goldilocks zone of relationships. Friendships can give you comfort minus physical touch and intimacy. Escorts can give you intimacy but they won't care for you. An SO will care for you when you need it and help you out and root for you when you need it almost like a friend.[/size][/size]

[size=small][size=small]Normies don't just get that. They are too egoistic, self-centered to hear other people out who are hurting and realize the reality of things.[/size][/size]
 
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People say try your hardest, we have and it failed. Therefore their only excuse now is to say that it's something wrong with our personality when really it's our shitty bones.
 
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jagged0 said:
People say try your hardest, we have and it failed. Therefore their only excuse now is to say that it's something wrong with our personality when really it's our shitty bones.

Personality does matter once you pass the looks test. But we often don't pass the looks test in the first place.

I mean I've seen it. Chads/semi-chads on /r/amiugly who are like 22 and virgin who don't talk to women at all. One guy there was getting like 300 tinder matches even after picking and choosing but he just couldn't carry on the conversation.

One guy on /r/ForeverAlone was FA/Incel till like 27 until he downloaded Tinder and boasted about how he slept with like 5 women until meeting his current gf and is about to propose to her and how "you guys should try Tinder."

They just don't understand. (good looking people)

That can be fixed by dating coaches. Or at least he can be taught how to fake it.

Can I fake growing a more forwards growing maxilla/mandible, better nose, growing many inches of height to be 6ft, etc? Fuck no.

There are some FA's/Incels who have asked out like 20-30 women in their life and not even one of them are down to go on a date just to get coffee with them but there are banks who can give them $700,000 house loans and let them test drive $150,000 cars not worrying about a thing.

Maybe there are normies who have had problems picking up women due to personality and changed. But they were good looking to begin with.
 
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What is your end goal?
 
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Battlefield3cel said:
What is your end goal?

I wish I could be in actual fulfilling relationships with no catch like how good looking men and women do.

Not to mention, overall better societal treatment.
 
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truecel23 said:
I wish I could be in actual fulfilling relationships 

this

on so many levels
 
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Ultimately, the Black Pill is about accepting that it's over and moving on with our lives, however empty they may be. Many of us will simply LDAR.
 

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