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[Whitepill] What is the type of person you aspire to be?

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I've been thinking about this recently. As incels. The type of men we can aspire to be or the male role models we look up to are severely limited as most successful men are sexhaver pieces of shit.

So who or which type of men, do you aspire to be?
What qualities or traits.

Do you intend to live until you die of old age or are you going to end it prematurely.

What is the best and most happy life an incel can realistically achieve in his life?


Personally I think that, my best bet is hopefully becoming whitepilled to the extent that my incel status barely or doesn't bother me anymore (very difficult)
Maybe find a career that I enjoy and has a stable income.
Ideally become very rich
and just finding a healthy long term cope/hoppy that will keep me satisfied until the end of my days.

I don't think a wide social network of friends is something realistic as I'm not a social person and people look down on people like me.
The career part is also going to be tricky, since again people look down on incels and short men.
And so naturally becoming wealthy is also a pipe dream.

I do have a passion for learning so I want to be reading about different topics all the time; books, podcasts, the news, academic papers etc.
I like to be updated on stuff like that.
I think that's a realistic goal.

I don't really have anyone I can look up to right now.
 
I haven't aspired to be much of anyone
 
becoming wealthy
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I want to be attractive.
 
I’ll reply to this tomorrow, it’s nearly 3AM in England, tag me if I forget. This is a really interesting and thought provoking thread that I’d like to dignify with a response that I didn’t half-arse while half asleep.
 
Ideally not caring about my plight. But a second best would be someone who has enough disposable income to cope with life
 
I would like to be evil.
 
Chad fucking holes 24/7
 
I’ll reply to this tomorrow, it’s nearly 3AM in England, tag me if I forget. This is a really interesting and thought provoking thread that I’d like to dignify with a response that I didn’t half-arse while half asleep.
@LoweredDually
 
What kinds of topics have you been learning about recently?

I also aspire to come to terms with my inceldom and not obsessed as much about how it's not fair and how I wish I was respected and chosen by a foid.

So just someone living a peaceful life, out in solitude and quiet places.
 
I aspire to be the kind of man who does whatever he wants. I just want to live my life my way, without anyone or society telling me what im SUPPOSED to do. I wish i was more confrontational and with time i’m accomplishing that. As time passes on, i lose more and more patience and i have started calling people out on their bullshit irl.

I don’t look up to any men as i find it kinda cucked tbh. I don’t like the idea of seeing other men as better than me. I can acknowledge they’re better than me at certain areas but i won’t put them on a pedestal and try to idolise them.
 
What kinds of topics have you been learning about recently?

I also aspire to come to terms with my inceldom and not obsessed as much about how it's not fair and how I wish I was respected and chosen by a foid.

So just someone living a peaceful life, out in solitude and quiet places.
A little about politics.

Right now however I'm in a bit of a rut though all those things I want to be reading and educating myself on is something I aspire to do.
I don't
actually do it yet. I'm a bit depressed right now.

I'm still enrolled in school for economics so if I get my motivation/discipline back I could get more into that flow.

I would read about political, economics, finance, psychology, technology, philosophy, business those are the things that interest me te most I thinlk
 
I don’t look up to any men as i find it kinda cucked tbh. I don’t like the idea of seeing other men as better than me. I can acknowledge they’re better than me at certain areas but i won’t put them on a pedestal and try to idolise them.
It doesn't have to be cucked to have a role model. You don't need to idolise them either.

In my opinion, role models are usually people with a similar life trajectory/similar upbringing. but older in age and the path they chose to get where they are now is something you'd want to take too. So you can think or ask them about how they got to that point.

It can also be as simple as wishing to emulate a trait or characteristic.


Imagine you're playing an MMORPG for the first time, is it cucked to look for inspiration from the higher level characters/players to decide what type of game experience you want to have? What type of class to select (ranger, warrior, paladin etc.), if I'm more interested in PVP, PVE, roleplay etc.
 
A little about politics.

Right now however I'm in a bit of a rut though all those things I want to be reading and educating myself on is something I aspire to do.
I don't
actually do it yet. I'm a bit depressed right now.

I'm still enrolled in school for economics so if I get my motivation/discipline back I could get more into that flow.

I would read about political, economics, finance, psychology, technology, philosophy, business those are the things that interest me te most I thinlk
Those topics are interesting, I'm sorry you're depressed (me too, you're not alone) it's hard studying and also finding time for other things. Take care of yourself brocel
 
Those topics are interesting, I'm sorry you're depressed (me too, you're not alone) it's hard studying and also finding time for other things. Take care of yourself brocel
thx u2
 
Oskar Dirlewanger
 
I want to be the best version of myself.

I want to get a BS in Computer Science so that I can become a Software Engineer.

I also want to max out my physique.

I also want to ascend beyond my inceldom, so I'm going to do everything I can to hopefully ascend.
 
My role models have always been successful and dedicated (and maybe self-made to an extent) artists like Kentaro Miura, Makoto Shinkai, Kim Jung Gi, Riuichi Sakamoto, and many american and european comic artists, indie game devs like the team that made Hollow Knight, and also those youtubers who have art channels and earn a living from them like Samdoesarts or that dude who paints cars and shoes, I think he was called Marko.
 
It doesn't have to be cucked to have a role model. You don't need to idolise them either.
i’m not saying it’s cucked, im saying that I find it cucked. It’s just my point of view, i wouldn’t think a man is cucked for doing it.
In my opinion, role models are usually people with a similar life trajectory/similar upbringing. but older in age and the path they chose to get where they are now is something you'd want to take too. So you can think or ask them about how they got to that point.
It can also be as simple as wishing to emulate a trait or characteristic.
i can understand that but to me having a role model is like wanting to become that person themselves. Basically trying to copy their whole image. It’s just a difference in perspective and our respective definitions of “role model”.
Imagine you're playing an MMORPG for the first time, is it cucked to look for inspiration from the higher level characters/players to decide what type of game experience you want to have? What type of class to select (ranger, warrior, paladin etc.), if I'm more interested in PVP, PVE, roleplay etc.
yea i would consider it cucked. I don’t understand the point of playing an MMORPG, games with lots of customisation and classes, and just copying what the other dudes are doing. Just make a build that you want and like. It doesn’t have to be the best. You can find what experience you want by playing the game. I’m a big advocate for trying stuff yourself and deciding then rather than listening to others opinions. Exception being for when buying something. But i can understand doing that for real life. It’s best to advise someone before jumping into something like a college major.
 
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I can’t change my genes so I don’t aspire to be shit.
 
Does it matter, it will never come to fruition.
 
I want to be low inhib , no more social anxiety, better communication skills and social skills.
 
Jeffrey Epstein
 
Rich west European Chad
 
I desire to be quite powerful, It is the only way you make your mark on this world and it is the only way for you to find purpose beyond pro-creation.
 
I desire to be quite powerful, It is the only way you make your mark on this world and it is the only way for you to find purpose beyond pro-creation.
I aspire to eliminate unfair disadvantages that humans are born with, whether that be a lack of limbs, a mental disability or just bad looks no man or even woman should have to suffer an unfair "spawn".
 
Someone who follows his ideals to death with no place to surrender or negotiation.

And the means to actually achieve that.
 
I've been thinking about this recently. As incels. The type of men we can aspire to be or the male role models we look up to are severely limited as most successful men are sexhaver pieces of shit.

So who or which type of men, do you aspire to be?
What qualities or traits.

Do you intend to live until you die of old age or are you going to end it prematurely.

What is the best and most happy life an incel can realistically achieve in his life?


Personally I think that, my best bet is hopefully becoming whitepilled to the extent that my incel status barely or doesn't bother me anymore (very difficult)
Maybe find a career that I enjoy and has a stable income.
Ideally become very rich
and just finding a healthy long term cope/hoppy that will keep me satisfied until the end of my days.

I don't think a wide social network of friends is something realistic as I'm not a social person and people look down on people like me.
The career part is also going to be tricky, since again people look down on incels and short men.
And so naturally becoming wealthy is also a pipe dream.

I do have a passion for learning so I want to be reading about different topics all the time; books, podcasts, the news, academic papers etc.
I like to be updated on stuff like that.
I think that's a realistic goal.

I don't really have anyone I can look up to right now.
Epstein
 
Charlie Kirk. Good looking + intelligent
 
An honest burger stand owner...
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Someone that has no problems aspiring. (Breathing)
 

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