SuicideFuel What is the reason I was bullied and ostracized everywhere everytime?

[mentally lost cel 1]

It’s pretty sad that I was always bullied by everyone, student teachers and ostracized every time


what is the exact reasons for this shit? Do I look very weak? Or am I a not evil person like most people?

@Lebensmüder @Meus @MarquisDeSade

 

[mentally lost cel 1]

Ugly + Non NT

That’s it?

 

[JoeBruhcel]

I was bullied at school and in my house too by my "family" JFL, even when I fought for myself against my bullied my single "mother" would beat the shit out of me for it

 

[SparkLight]

If you have High inhibition that could be a reason plus normie lookism

 

[MarquisDeSade]

It’s pretty sad that I was always bullied by everyone, student teachers and ostracized every time


what is the exact reasons for this shit? Do I look very weak? Or am I a not evil person like most people?

@Lebensmüder @Meus @MarquisDeSade

We live in an over-socialized world and since we're under socialized we look like easy targets in what is otherwise thoroughly an evil wicked world out there. There is nothing inherently moral, ethical, or good about humanity, as a species, we're apex predators where our entire culture can be summed up as competitive predation where human beings tend to prey upon one another constantly when we're not making whole entire other species on the planet go extinct. Just the nature of the beast I'm afraid to say, but don't let this get you down, learn from all of this, and try to become a stronger individual person where nobody preys upon or takes advantage of you ever again. Don't get mad, or even sad, get even.

 

[Incelius Savage]

I was bullied at school and in my house too by my "family" JFL, even when I fought for myself against my bullied my single "mother" would beat the shit out of me for it

Strict mothers like that are the worst

 

[JoeBruhcel]

Strict mothers like that are the worst

I wouldn't call them mothers, demons is a better term for them

 

[N-Digger]

Humans need someone to shit on. It's not that you were a particularly hideous or non-nt person, it's just that they pick the easiest target. If you went somewhere else I'm sure they pick another incel to attack. Back when I was in school some guys used to give me shit. Not bullying really, nothing physical, but just insulting me and fucking with my stuff. It was harmless enough that I could ignore it and not be affected by it but eventually it got too annoying and I had enough. All it took was a single punch and no-one ever approached me ever again. I didn't even have to fight. People who say violence isn't the answer have no idea.

 

[Lebensmüder]

Some reasons for bullying in school:

Non-NT/Looks (most common, includes of course shit like ethnicity/disability too)
Women don't like someone which automatically makes men want to impress them by bullying the unliked ones
Too much social/financial disparities (belonging to a different class than the average)
Too much intelligence disparities (if the IQ doesn't lie within the mean IQ of the class+/-10)
Too much grade differences (too good or too bad)
Lack of physical success (particularly in PE which is teacher sanctioned bullying)
Extraordinary interests or opinions
Shitty parents (sometimes parents have already a bad reputation which will reflect the behavior towards their children)
Clothes/style
Speech impediments

 

[Deleted member 34301]

High inhib + Non NT

 

[Subhuman Niceguy]

You are ugly. That is the simple answer.

 

[Evkakiy]

Some reasons for bullying in school:

Non-NT/Looks (most common, includes of course shit like ethnicity/disability too)
Women don't like someone which automatically makes men want to impress them by bullying the unliked ones
Too much social/financial disparities (belonging to a different class than the average)
Too much intelligence disparities (if the IQ doesn't lie within the mean IQ of the class+/-10)
Too much grade differences (too good or too bad)
Lack of physical success (particularly in PE which is teacher sanctioned bullying)
Extraordinary interests or opinions
Shitty parents (sometimes parents have already a bad reputation which will reflect the behavior towards their children)
Clothes/style
Speech impediments

Every line I read, flashbacks flew out, thanks for the virtual reality.

 

[mentally lost cel 1]

I was bullied at school and in my house too by my "family" JFL, even when I fought for myself against my bullied my single "mother" would beat the shit out of me for it

Same lol like there was seriously something wrong with my father ,he said fight back and when I did he beat me ,like wtf???

If you have High inhibition that could be a reason plus normie lookism

I was very low inhib pre puberty -15

We live in an over-socialized world and since we're under socialized we look like easy targets in what is otherwise thoroughly an evil wicked world out there. There is nothing inherently moral, ethical, or good about humanity, as a species, we're apex predators where our entire culture can be summed up as competitive predation where human beings tend to prey upon one another constantly when we're not making whole entire other species on the planet go extinct. Just the nature of the beast I'm afraid to say, but don't let this get you down, learn from all of this, and try to become a stronger individual person where nobody preys upon or takes advantage of you ever again. Don't get mad, or even sad, get even.

Let’s get even

I wouldn't call them mothers, demons is a better term for them

lol exactly for my family

Humans need someone to shit on. It's not that you were a particularly hideous or non-nt person, it's just that they pick the easiest target. If you went somewhere else I'm sure they pick another incel to attack. Back when I was in school some guys used to give me shit. Not bullying really, nothing physical, but just insulting me and fucking with my stuff. It was harmless enough that I could ignore it and not be affected by it but eventually it got too annoying and I had enough. All it took was a single punch and no-one ever approached me ever again. I didn't even have to fight. People who say violence isn't the answer have no idea.

Yeah same for me I hospitalized a guy got detention ,he deserved it

 

[Emba]

Because it was easy

All encounters have a risk/reward ratio...

If there's a potential that you will fight back, you will be avoided.

Mainly because in all fights their is a chance of death. All you have to do is fall wrong! Snap! Instant quadriplegic! Or instant death.

Knowing this can prevent fights. (How to win with your eye." Book of Five Rings - Miamoto Mushashi). However, you must be 118% willing to fight, to avoid a fight.

"Peace through superior firepower" is the modern saying.

 

[mentally lost cel 1]

Knowing this can prevent fights. (How to win with your eye." Book of Five Rings - Miamoto Mushashi). However, you must be 118% willing to fight, to avoid a fight.

"Peace through superior firepower" is the modern saying.

Yeah I got that

 

[RejectReality]

Do you suspect you have autistic tendencies? I think the biggest factor for me was because I was definitely not neurotypical and had autistic symptoms. I could say I got bullied because I was currycel but other Indians did not get bullied only I did.

 

[NBAYoungBoy]

neoteny

 

[crestfallencel]

deviation from the norm

 

[Deleted member 17606]

Theres alot of assholes in the world. In the west being “outgoing” and predatory toward people seems to even be rewarded subconsciously in social situations. Usually people will take their first impression of someone and immediately decide how they will treat them. Very few people especially young kids in highschool etc are going to lose out on a chance to one up someone. The people that genuinely keep to themselves are usually the ones seen as lesser by everyone else. Best thing to do is to continue to ignore them as hard as it is.

 

[mentally lost cel 1]

Do you suspect you have autistic tendencies? I think the biggest factor for me was because I was definitely not neurotypical and had autistic symptoms. I could say I got bullied because I was currycel but other Indians did not get bullied only I did.

I went to a lot of shrinks none of them diagnosed me as autistic I’m just too depressed and quiet or shy sometimes

In the west being “outgoing” and predatory toward people seems to even be rewarded

Yeah wtf is this shit? In more traditional places this is shamed a lot

Best thing to do is to continue to ignore them as hard as it is.

Yeah

 

[Ehwhatever]

I wanna say it's because you're ugly but I feel like it might be because you're a manlet or weak looking and/or autistic. If you were just ugly but otherwise normal you probably wouldn't get bullied, honestly. It seems that people target those who seem vulnerable and aren't NT from my experience