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What is stopping you from accepting reality?

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The biggest hurdle with inceldom is not absence of sex, it's the inability to come to terms with this reality.

At first it may seem like accepting this reality is accepting defeat, like capitulating. But even if it's so, why torture yourself unnecessarily?

No matter how much you suffer, it will still be the same. Your life won't improve, foids and chads lives won't become worse.

What is truly keeping you chained to your misery?
 
That's the entire point of the blackpill. Living in denial has no benefits for me personally anymore.
 
There are 2 ways, either accept defeat and end it. Or accept defeat and just keep coping with daily life feeling miserable. I chose the latter.
 
I don't think any of us here is 100% blackpilled. To be completely blackpilled as an incel means to be dead when you think about it
 
My only "bluepill" is my belief in God's promise that he has a plan for me. Other than that I completely have zero faith I'll never get with a foid. I don't even cry or ruminate about it anymore I just accept it as a fact of life for me. I'm a midget Filipino guy there is no saving me. Only God can provide a miracle but I don't care if he doesn't. I've come to grips with reality and I've become emotionally numbed in the process to romance. It disgusts me now.
 
I accepted it doesn't mean I like it

Also I am SEAmaxxing so I didnt accept that part yet I will see if JBW is a meme or not
 
Look, I know it's over for me, I knew for a long time. I have those random moments, those random sparks of illogical hope, random whims where I imagine I'll get a cute gf—I know this is a fantasy obviously—but for a short moment, my spirits lift, and with it my mood, but then crashes all the more as reality hits my wings and I go down in a death spiral.
 
I've been grossly misunderstood.

Though the blackpill means to face reality for what it is, it doesn't mean you should engage with it in such a self destructive manner.

Coming to terms with the truth of it does not mean you have to emotionally suffer about i and torment yourself.

My only "bluepill" is my belief in God's promise that he has a plan for me. Other than that I completely have zero faith I'll never get with a foid. I don't even cry or ruminate about it anymore I just accept it as a fact of life for me. I'm a midget Filipino guy there is no saving me. Only God can provide a miracle but I don't care if he doesn't. I've come to grips with reality and I've become emotionally numbed in the process to romance. It disgusts me now.
If God has a plan for you and you are walking that path you wouldn't be miserable. It's literally in your face that you are astray.

Being content or accepting the situation you are in is not bluepill or whitepill or cope. It's simply deciding to not torment yourself further.

It's a self fulfilling prophecy - the more you think that foids are the center of the universe and the sole purpose of living -> the more miserable you become -> the more you think about the thing that makes you miserable (foids being the center of the universe)

Why is it that when hope is discussed, the only thing you think of is sex and women? Why not be hopeful for getting a new car, or reading a manga, or waiting for a game to come out etc.? Start taking steroids and become a 6 feet wide giant?

I find it somewhat ironic. For a community of people that are hated by women, you sure do give them the satisfaction of worshipping them as the sole reason of living no?
 
foids and chads lives won't become worse.
Objection: when the Marxist-Rodgerist project is fully implemented, inceldom will be compulsory even for Chad because all foids will be in a coma locked inside breeding facilities.
 
I don't think any of us here is 100% blackpilled. To be completely blackpilled as an incel means to be dead when you think about it
This. Unless you rope you are in denial.
 
I don't think any of us here is 100% blackpilled. To be completely blackpilled as an incel means to be dead when you think about it
"We are already dead" --- incelTV

Meditate. When you understand this, you become truly blackpilled.
 
Objection: when the Marxist-Rodgerist project is fully implemented, inceldom will be compulsory even for Chad because all foids will be in a coma locked inside breeding facilities.
What I meant is that nothing will change as a result of pure seething and self destruction.

You speak of this as if it is already in motion. How can, say me, see this in action in the world?
 
"We are already dead" --- incelTV

Meditate. When you understand this, you become truly blackpilled.
Dead or imprisoned? Not much sense into us being alive if we are dead.

Being imprisoned with the indigenous earth population (mainly the low-IQ normies and NPCs) is quite a distinct possibility, no?
 
Dead or imprisoned? Not much sense into us being alive if we are dead.

Being imprisoned with the indigenous earth population (mainly the low-IQ normies and NPCs) is quite a distinct possibility, no?
We are the dead.
 
care to explain? I can follow you
Follow the Tao instead:
Tao Te Ching – Verse 1
The tao that can be told
is not the eternal Tao
The name that can be named
is not the eternal Name.

The unnamable is the eternally real.
Naming is the origin
of all particular things.Free from desire, you realize the mystery.
Caught in desire, you see only the manifestations.

Yet mystery and manifestations
arise from the same source.
This source is called darkness.

Darkness within darkness.
The gateway to all understanding.

What I, a nobody, can do is merely point you in the direction, but you must meditate and come to conclusions on your own.

This is what I see:

What's life? Breeding.
What can't 'cels do? Breed.
Ergo, we're dead. We're genetically extinct. We're the last of our lineages. We are leaves in the tree of life.

"You can't end your life because there is no life to end" ---- Saint Hamudi (ﷺ)
 
Why is it that when hope is discussed, the only thing you think of is sex and women? Why not be hopeful for getting a new car, or reading a manga, or waiting for a game to come out etc.? Start taking steroids and become a 6 feet wide giant?

I find it somewhat ironic. For a community of people that are hated by women, you sure do give them the satisfaction of worshipping them as the sole reason of living no?
It's in the name dumbass, I'm involuntarily celibate so I'm on incels.is. These are all just material things and I have them already. However none of them can replace the warm embrace and love of a woman lol tf. Being sexless and womanless is literally the main reason this site exists. How is not wanting to be alone for the rest of my life foid worship? Greycels these days smh.
 
It's in the name dumbass, I'm involuntarily celibate so I'm on incels.is. These are all just material things and I have them already. However none of them can replace the warm embrace and love of a woman lol tf. Being sexless and womanless is literally the main reason this site exists. How is not wanting to be alone for the rest of my life foid worship? Greycels these days smh.
 
The biggest hurdle with inceldom is not absence of sex, it's the inability to come to terms with this reality.

At first it may seem like accepting this reality is accepting defeat, like capitulating. But even if it's so, why torture yourself unnecessarily?

No matter how much you suffer, it will still be the same. Your life won't improve, foids and chads lives won't become worse.

What is truly keeping you chained to your misery?
I am afraid to accept it because i secretly dont want to give up. I want to prove to myself i can overcome the worst trail of my life
 
True acceptance is breaking laws (in GTA). You can have plenty of natural fun as sub 5 :feelsdevil:
 
love of a woman
JFL @ writing "Love of a woman" in seriousness.

Love of a woman is like horn of a unicorn, scales of a dragon, eye of a basilisk, unobtanium --- it's a fantasy.

Foids are Chad-seeking robots. They only stop chasing Chad to refuel and snatch some resources from betabuxxers before resuming their Chad-chasing journey. Foids have no feelings, lest of all "love".
 
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Simple, nature. It's not in our nature as men to accept such circumstances. It's better to be ignorant.
 
It's in the name dumbass, I'm involuntarily celibate so I'm on incels.is. These are all just material things and I have them already. However none of them can replace the warm embrace and love of a woman lol tf. Being sexless and womanless is literally the main reason this site exists. How is not wanting to be alone for the rest of my life foid worship? Greycels these days smh.
Yet you don't answer my question, you just prove that it should be asked.

Why would this be a reason to wallow in self misery? I perfectly understand why we are all here on this website and what this community represents. Just because the community at it's present is made up of mostly given up people, doesn't mean that a community of incels has to be self destructive
 
The biggest hurdle with inceldom is not absence of sex, it's the inability to come to terms with this reality.

At first it may seem like accepting this reality is accepting defeat, like capitulating. But even if it's so, why torture yourself unnecessarily?

No matter how much you suffer, it will still be the same. Your life won't improve, foids and chads lives won't become worse.

What is truly keeping you chained to your misery?
schizophrenia
 
Love of a woman is like horn of a unicorn, scales of a dragon, eye of a basilisk, unobtanium --- it's a fantasy.

Foids are Chad-seeking robots. They only stop chasing Chad to refuel and snatch some resources from betabuxxers before resuming their Chad-chasing journey. Foids have no feelings, lest of all "love".
This is pretty much in the core of my question.

Have you even seen someone that is loved by a foid, @Evangelioncel ? Movies, fresh couples, and especially anime skew your perception of what women are. And if you are so incel-ed that you can't even have friendships with women, i understand why it would seem like a woman would fix all your problems.

Do yourself a favor, speak to anyone that has been married for more than 5 years. It's impossible to find a happy man in a marriage, but every woman in a marriage is happy. What does that tell you? Sole exception to this rule a re super patriarch-based marriages, where both parties are happy.

Why would you think that becoming someones emotional and financial slave will make your life better? Make it make sense
 
I managed to embrace it.

Brocels as soon as you hit 30 you will know
 
I am afraid to accept it because i secretly dont want to give up. I want to prove to myself i can overcome the worst trail of my life
But is the other trail better? As I mentioned in the previous comment, one should explore from were this idea that a woman is a good addition to your life comes from?

Is it due to being smothered by your mothered as a child, or due to her absence? Do you often watch anime and other forms of media that paint a picture of women as we men want them to be? Or even more, why as an adult you would need someone's undying romantic love in order to feel like your life is no a good trail?

Truth of the matter is that even if one would have ascended, it would not solve the actual udnerlying problems. Your mind is only tricking you into thinking that a foid will solve something in your life because it's the most unattainable thing for you (us). But if you spend the time to look at how miserable people in relationships and marriages are once the honeymoon phase is over - would you still feel the same?

Can you realy say that you are losing out on something in life if those that get it, makes them miserable?
 
I managed to embrace it.

Brocels as soon as you hit 30 you will know
I managed so too, but I was far from 30.

What do you think about being 30 makes the difference?
 
What do you think about being 30 makes the difference?
theres no need to think about ascending.

30 years old and missing out on teenage love? You think any 30 year old foid wants to help you pop your cherry?

Just cope
 
Follow the Tao instead:



What I, a nobody, can do is merely point you in the direction, but you must meditate and come to conclusions on your own.

This is what I see:

What's life? Breeding.
What can't 'cels do? Breed.
Ergo, we're dead. We're genetically extinct. We're the last of our lineages. We are leaves in the tree of life.

"You can't end your life because there is no life to end" ---- Saint Hamudi (ﷺ)
I see your point.

While the outlook on life you pointed out is scientifically correct, why should one adopt that outlook specifically?

As long as one doesn't impede the quality of life of others [too much], lfie can have many other meanings. Being "dead" in the sense that you said it can be more liberating than imprisoning - depending on your POV.

For example, havingthe ability to reproduce would put you under stress not to OD, not to die from cigarettes, etc. etc. - basically to not kill your chance of reproducing. But we are here in a situation where that is taken from you from the get go.

So here, for example, what exactly is stopping you from making some money, going to a party city like Ibiza if you're from Europe, and lose yourself? Would be a far better way of being "dead" than just wallowing in self pity, no?
 
The biggest hurdle with inceldom is not absence of sex, it's the inability to come to terms with this reality.
ok GrAY

incels generally actually suffer more from lack of sex, which is a more direct physical desire than some abstract shit abt 'coming to terms with this reality'

maybe a mere GrAY should not puff themselves up and presume to speak for all incels everywhere
 
JFL @ writing "Love of a woman" in seriousness.

Love of a woman is like horn of a unicorn, scales of a dragon, eye of a basilisk, unobtanium --- it's a fantasy.

Foids are Chad-seeking robots. They only stop chasing Chad to refuel and snatch some resources from betabuxxers before resuming their Chad-chasing journey. Foids have no feelings, lest of all "love".
 
ok GrAY

incels generally actually suffer more from lack of sex, which is a more direct physical desire than some abstract shit abt 'coming to terms with this reality'

maybe a mere GrAY should not puff themselves up and presume to speak for all incels everywhere
I deduced my conclusion based on what everyone is saying on this forum.

What is "incels generally actually suffer more from lack of sex, which is a more direct physical desire than some abstract shit abt 'coming to terms with this reality'" this sentence supposed to denote anyway? That sex is only the physical representation of what some incels are so self-hating about? If so, yes, but that abstract shit is a mere fantasy of what foids are.

Reading comprehension much?
 
Spending too much time on the internet seems to be the biggest problem.

Better off going for a walk and enjoy knowing that most sex havers are cheating on each other or will eventually because most people are addicted to porn. The world is getting worse and I can't wait to see it all come crashing down.
 
JFL @ writing "Love of a woman" in seriousness.

Love of a woman is like horn of a unicorn, scales of a dragon, eye of a basilisk, unobtanium --- it's a fantasy.

Foids are Chad-seeking robots. They only stop chasing Chad to refuel and snatch some resources from betabuxxers before resuming their Chad-chasing journey. Foids have no feelings, lest of all "love".
 
If God has a plan for you and you are walking that path you wouldn't be miserable. It's literally in your face that you are astray.
Nonsense god isn't a happiness machine, in religions like christianity the suffering and persecution of believers is fundamental. the jesus of the new testament states that those who are hated and persecuted in his name are blessed, and those who are loved by the world are cursed

as kiekegaard aptly said,

"There is an almost mad self-contradiction in Christianity's requirement. It sets a task and exclaims: In the same degree as you succeed in faith, you will come to suffer more and more.

"If you desire, humanly speaking, pleasant and happy days, then never get seriously involved with Christ."
 
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I deduced my conclusion based on what everyone is saying on this forum.
you deduced the conclusion that none of them care abt sex from all the threads complaining abt... not having sex?

bizarre illogic, but typical for a GrAY

What is "incels generally actually suffer more from lack of sex, which is a more direct physical desire than some abstract shit abt 'coming to terms with this reality'" this sentence supposed to denote anyway? That sex is only the physical representation of what some incels are so self-hating about?
This is like saying that some starving africans only want food as a physical representation of what they want

Incels want to satisfy a physical need, which they are denied

That is the material base, and any further ideological concerns are primarily a vague superstructure

Incels want sex bc they have gone through puberty and have a natural sex drive, why is it difficult for you to understand this?
 
Nonsense god isn't a happiness machine, in religions like christianity the suffering and persecution of believers is fundamental. the jesus of the new testament states that those who are hated and persecuted in his name are blessed, and those who are loved are cursed

as kiekegaard aptly said,

"There is an almost mad self-contradiction in Christianity's requirement. It sets a task and exclaims: In the same degree as you succeed in faith, you will come to suffer more and more.

"If you desire, humanly speaking, pleasant and happy days, then never get seriously involved with Christ."


you deduced the conclusion that none of them care abt sex from all the threads complaining abt... not having sex?

bizarre illogic, but typical for a GrAY


This is like saying that some starving africans only want food as a physical representation of what they want

Incels want to satisfy a physical need, which they are denied

That is the material base, and any further ideological concerns are primarily a vague superstructure

Incels want sex bc they have gone through puberty and have a natural sex drive, why is it difficult for you to understand this?
My god, i can't wih your reading comprehension.

But pray tell - why are you so salty? Are the imaginary stars below your pfp the first and only representation of your authority in a given community? Are they the only achievement you've gained? Sure, the part where you are misunderstanding me on purpose plays part in your self-trigger but dang man
 
tfw the NPC programming breaks down
But pray tell - why are you so salty? Are the imaginary stars below your pfp the first and only representation of your authority in a given community? Are they the only achievement you've gained? Sure, the part where you are misunderstanding me on purpose plays part in your self-trigger but dang man
Please answer.
When you see graycels with basic reading comprehension, does it remind you of all the timese you've been mogged/bullied in early life? Do you feel a sense of relief that justice has been served in the world, now that you get the chance to have a drop of "power" and mog/bully someone else for the most remote thing possible?
How do you feel this affects your life, compared to the absence of sex? Which is bound to cause the bigger share of your misery
 
Please answer.
When you see graycels with basic reading comprehension, does it remind you of all the timese you've been mogged/bullied in early life? Do you feel a sense of relief that justice has been served in the world, now that you get the chance to have a drop of "power" and mog/bully someone else for the most remote thing possible?
How do you feel this affects your life, compared to the absence of sex? Which is bound to cause the bigger share of your misery
wtf are you even talking abt freud

no you don't remind me of anything except a retard running his mouth

like many GrAYs

and no I don't think your posts really are as impactful on anyone as their lack of sexual intercourse ta

but it's great that you're so fucking retarded that the concept of people having physical needs and a sex drive after puberty is too complex to understand. not philosophical enough for you eh? why are GrAYs this dense
 
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I've accepted it, I just laugh at life
 
The biggest hurdle with inceldom is not absence of sex, it's the inability to come to terms with this reality.

At first it may seem like accepting this reality is accepting defeat, like capitulating. But even if it's so, why torture yourself unnecessarily?

No matter how much you suffer, it will still be the same. Your life won't improve, foids and chads lives won't become worse.

What is truly keeping you chained to your misery?
Nothing I’ve accepted it
 

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