Discussion What is something non-sexual that you want from a girl?

[sinclair_silence]

As the word incel implies, the primary grievance is of course a lack of sexual activity. However as I am sure many of you will agree, there is so much more that goes into the title "incel"—whether it be something like cuddling or just the knowledge that a female loves you, we lack so much beyond the act of sex itself...

So what's your non-sexual thing that you want from a girl / to do with a girl? I'll start: for me, I would like nothing more than a girl to scratch my back

 

[PersonalityChad]

Consensual Handholding

 

[sinclair_silence]

Consensual Handholding

As opposed to... non-consensual handholding?
Just trying to imagine what that would look like

 

[Lonelyus]

Her pussy if its extremely clean, NO roastbeef and NO STDs and never ridden before!

 

[Eminemshalfbrother]

Tell me to stop drinking cause they’re concerned

 

[sinclair_silence]

Her pussy if its extremely clean, NO roastbeef and NO STDs and never ridden before!

non-sexual, try again mate

 

[PersonaPimp]

I just want handholding... and someone to talk to

 

[F̶e̶d̶-̶L̶i̶n̶k̶]

Hug

 

[sinclair_silence]

Hug

Ya many will relate to that

 

[WeirdoDesperado]

Cuddling a lot and other forms of physical intimacy, having a good time together, reading the Bible, praying, going on drive, swimming, exploring places like abandoned buildings. In general I want a warm and affectionate woman alongside me who cheers me up, comforts and gives energy to perform better in life.

 

[XMR]

Shares my beliefs, is tall (5'9"+).

 

[chokeonnyregret]

Her pussy if its extremely clean, NO roastbeef and NO STDs and never ridden before!

Isn’t roast beef what happens when they whore around? I’ve heard tiktok foids saying that’s just how some pussies are but that sounds like typical bluepill excuse

 

[oofy]

Cuddles

 

[sinclair_silence]

Cuddling a lot and other forms of physical intimacy, having a good time together, reading the Bible, praying, going on drive, swimming, exploring places like abandoned buildings. In general I want a warm and affectionate woman alongside me who cheers me up, comforts and gives energy to perform better in life.

That sounds really nice. But how can a deeply religious person like yourself be on a site like this? Seems a little incongruous honestly (if it matters, I, myself was raised Christian but am not practicing much these days)

 

[sinclair_silence]

Isn’t roast beef what happens when they whore around? I’ve heard tiktok foids saying that’s just how some pussies are but that sounds like typical bluepill excuse

Shut up and take this filthy topic elsewhere

 

[sinclair_silence]

Cuddles

 

[sinclair_silence]

Shares my beliefs, is tall (5'9"+).

Why do you like tall girls? I think smol is kinda cuter

 

[sinclair_silence]

Tell me to stop drinking cause they’re concerned

Creative!

 

[RealSchizo]

I want to play with her hair the most

 

[sinclair_silence]

I want to play with her hair the most

aw

 

[RealSchizo]

aw

It never began I will never experience this

 

[WeirdoDesperado]

That sounds really nice. But how can a deeply religious person like yourself be on a site like this? Seems a little incongruous honestly (if it matters, I myself was raised Christian but am not practicing much these days)

It is tough for me to lead a truly healthy life as an incel with other problems like being a dropout poorcel NEET. It all made me a bitter person with low energy. I'm really a weak and struggling person so I'm not a great example what a Christian person is supposed to be like. I hope that God's will will come true in our lives. Aknowledging how satanic the world and it's elite is, made me found the Lord Jesus Christ, the Saviour.

 

[sinclair_silence]

It never began I will never experience this

Real, as a khhv at 20 and will turn 21 this year—makes me think of that clothing store Forever21, idolizing that age as the peak of youth, when it's anything but for me

 

[sinclair_silence]

It is tough for me to lead a truly healthy life as an incel with other problems like being a dropout poorcel NEET. It all made me a bitter person with low energy. I'm really a weak and struggling person so I'm not a great example what a Christian person is supposed to be like. I hope that God's will will come true in my life. Aknowledging how satanic the world and it's elite is, made me found the Lord Jesus Christ, the Saviour.

Amen, thanks for sharing

 

[WeirdoDesperado]

Amen, thanks for sharing

Amen

 

[MuddyBuddy]

There's no greater suicide fuel than watching a young attractive girl on the train rest her head on her bf shoulder .

 

[sinclair_silence]

There's no greater suicide fuel than watching a young attractive girl on the train rest her head on her bf shoulder .

For me it's when the girl studies with her bf (I'm in uni currently)

 

[darkdungeon]

A slow dance

 

[XMR]

Why do you like tall girls? I think smol is kinda cuter

More elite. With good proportions they look better imo. Plus better genes for your male descendents.

 

[runforrest]

laughing over a joke

 

[1nsomniak]

Her time to be honest. For conversations and stuff

 

[nicholas04]

As opposed to... non-consensual handholding?
Just trying to imagine what that would look like

Grabbing a girls hand when she doesn’t want you to

 

[Johnny_Connecticut]

There's no greater suicide fuel than watching a young attractive girl on the train rest her head on her bf shoulder .

Ouch. Know the feel.

Having a girl actually excited to spend time with you, you can see it in their eyes.

 

[Bianor]

non-consensual handholding

 

[sinclair_silence]

More elite. With good proportions they look better imo. Plus better genes for your male descendents.

I see. But the thought of raising kids scares me, also I'm far too autistic to be a parent and I know I would traumatize the shit out of my kids somehow

 

[sinclair_silence]

laughing over a joke

Honestly I'm not a fan of humor but to each his own. I would rather have an emotionally-unstable girl who cries on my shoulder and listens to autistic music like breakcore with me

 

[sinclair_silence]

Consensual greetings: Where I live it's customary to greet your neighbors for some retarded reason and of course, foids just have to glare at me with disgust and pass me without a word(over for confidencemaxxers). Men and women past their menopause greet me normally though. Why can't young women treat me with basic respect, truly evil creatures.

Yes! In many ways it's humiliating and strange to receive compliments from older women and but not younger.

For example, an old dental hygienist once said to my mother that she enjoyed talking to me at appointments and I was so good at holding a conversation. When my mother told me this, I was enraged. It makes my blood boil just recalling it.

 

[Max Doltman]

hugs, laughing together, being able to be in silence together and it feel okay

 

[sinclair_silence]

hugs, laughing together, being able to be in silence together and it feel okay

Nice, especially the silence part. It could be fun to just sit with a girl in silence and autistically stare around the room and at each other.

 

[sinclair_silence]

Napping together and cuddles

"bae i'm so tiwed wiw u taek nap with me "
What I wouldn't give to hear such words as these...

 

[sinclair_silence]

Yeah, I guess the change of hormones make them look past sex for once. Another theory I have is that you may remind them of their children. I have a teacher whose son is disabled and she treats me quite nicely.

To be honest, I throw around the autism buzzword online a lot in order to be edgy. I feel like a lot of supposedly autistic people do something similar (could be wrong though). Because if I truly were autistic, wouldn't I be unable to converse? Maybe I am just high-functioning then because it is a spectrum...

 

[Friezacel]

Headpatting, chin crawling

 

[Max Doltman]

wrestle

 

[sinclair_silence]

The line between "shyness" and autism is blurry indeed. Think it's that way for a lot of other mental disorders too. If you are too stupid then you get affirmative action for being retarded but if you are not stupid enough, you get hit with the normie "IMPROVE, TRY HARDER".

Good point. In some ways I think autism can make you a better speaker so much so that you rise above normie slang in eloquence.

Another example from my life: I was once told by a TA at my uni that I speak like a Victorian with a monocle. I guess I really nailed that dark academia aesthetic!

 

[starystulejarz]

i want this every night (after i cum inside her)

 

[sinclair_silence]

wrestle

wait I have actually thought of this before! it sounds so cute for some reason, can't quite describe it

 

[sinclair_silence]

View attachment 1032834i want this every night (after i cum inside her)

could have stopped before the parentheses part but ok!

 

[Max Doltman]

to say i always wanted just you

 

[Ellsworth]

Easy answer for me that I’ve stated on here a hundred times. I just want a girl to go do fun things with. Travel, go to movies or concerts with. Go to somewhere local like the beach, camping or to a cool small local town.

These are all things I either can’t do by myself because it’s too lonely, I can do with a friend but it’s just not the same, or can’t do with a friend cuz friends are few and they don’t like doing certain things. Honestly I want this more than sex. If I just wanted sex there are hookers for that.

 

[Blackpill Monk]

Consensual Handholding