Serious What is more important to you? Sex or Love/Romantic relationship?

[Carotel]

I was wondering this for a while. I see a lot of incels that want sex, but don't care for a relationship. I also see a lot of incels who would pref. to be in a relatioship with a woman, loving and being loved.

For me, I have to say I would go for the relationship. Sex is something I can go to a brothel for, since it's legal in Germany.

Also, this isn't a thread about wether love is real, or wether foid will cheat or not. So for the sake of this thread, let's say that love is real.


Oh yeah in the poll the "?" after love/relationship was a mistake, sry

 

[vodkacel]

I can fulfill sexual frustration with porn. Love is what I am missing , someone who cares and wants to spend time with me.

 

[2340922]

i hhope we all agree

 

[what is happening]

Relationship with younger girl who won't leave me.

I'd rather have loyalty than love
'Cause love really don't mean jack (Straight up)
See love is just a feeling
You can love somebody and still stab them in the back (Oh God)
It don't take much to love
You can love somebody just by being attached (21)
See loyalty is a action
You can love or hate me and still have my back (Facts)

 

[grondilu]

Honestly, I'm not sure I know how to answer this question. I only have sex with hookers, but it's not like I can have sex with any hooker. I guess I could, but I wouldn't enjoy it. I only truly enjoy it when it's with a hooker I'm genuinely attracted to, and to me attraction is the beginning of love.

I know that sounds bluepilled, but it's not like I know what love is anyway, so from my point of view sexual desire is the closest thing to love, and it's not just sex.

In other words, I don't think you can separate both concepts.

 

[78980n]

I can fulfill sexual frustration with porn. Love is what I am missing , someone who cares and wants to spend time with me.

Your sexual frustration is still there but under the title of "Love". The origin of your longing for love is found in sexual frustration, because every act and thing you do with a woman is somewhere down the line a pathway to sex and you only want to do it because you are attracted to them, you want to fuck them. That's what I think tbh. But I would still enjoy spending time with a girl (who's not a bitch) and cuddling with her or whatever but the only reason I would enjoy it is because my lizard brain wants to put it inside her.

 

[Deleted member 21514]

Sex tbh. Being loved by a whore is impossible for me because i will never be a chad

 

[Sweedee]

Love is what I am missing , someone who cares and wants to spend time with me.

 

[AlexanderTheGreat11]

Love doesn't exist

 

[bignose]

sex definitely, love does not exist , love is atracttion , and the atraction is part of sex

 

[Deleted member 19971]

I can fulfill sexual frustration with porn. Love is what I am missing , someone who cares and wants to spend time with me.

High IQ.

 

[grondilu]

Your sexual frustration is still there but under the title of "Love". The origin of your longing for love is found in sexual frustration, because every act and thing you do with a woman is somewhere down the line a pathway to sex and you only want to do it because you are attracted to them, you want to fuck them. That's what I think tbh

Great hypothesis.

I've always been puzzled by guys here saying "I just want to be loved", but your explanation seems credible.

Like now I'd like to ask those guys : ok, imagine an attractive female agreed to be your gf, but under the condition that you won't touch her and she won't touch you. (like in the TV series "legion", btw.)

Would you be satisfied with that ? I mean, I guess it'd be better than nothing, but it would be too frustrating in the end IMHO.

 

[FinnCel]

At least I want to be loved

 

[Inceljoe]

Love FOR SURE. Sex I can get a release any time with porn and my hand.

 

[happiless]

I would prefer to be in a loving relationship to casual sex, but what I would prefer most of all is to have a sex slave who can provide companionship, in a society in which it's acceptable. I'd treat her very well

 

[RemoveNormalfags]

Love obviously

 

[ihaveno1]

Relationship with younger girl who won't leave me.

 

[GiveMeRamus]

sex definitely, love does not exist , love is atracttion , and the atraction is part of sex

Cope and too blackpilled if you think love doesnt exist. you are (kinda of) right because love NEEDS physicall Attraction to be a thing. if physicall attraction is there, AND the foid you liked has a decent personality ( subjectiv), if for example she is evil and you like her,
that doest mean her personality doesnt matter, it means you like evil. I agree on that if you are a 0/10 only your mom will love you

 

[bignose]

Cope and too blackpilled if you think love doesnt exist. you are (kinda of) right because love NEEDS physicall Attraction to be a thing. if physicall attraction is there, AND the foid you liked has a decent personality ( subjectiv), if for example she is evil and you like her,
that doest mean her personality doesnt matter, it means you like evil. I agree on that if you are a 0/10 only your mom will love you

of course I totally blackpilled, women dont love anyone , women dont even love chads ,they only feel sexual attraction for them

 

[inceldaygamer_]

I was wondering this for a while. I see a lot of incels that want sex, but don't care for a relationship. I also see a lot of incels who would pref. to be in a relatioship with a woman, loving and being loved.

For me, I have to say I would go for the relationship. Sex is something I can go to a brothel for, since it's legal in Germany.

Also, this isn't a thread about wether love is real, or wether foid will cheat or not. So for the sake of this thread, let's say that love is real.


Oh yeah in the poll the "?" after love/relationship was a mistake, sry

Because I am high T, I've gotta say, sex first, then I can get to know her.

I think it's important to get it out of you're system, so that you can then focus on getting to know each other.

 

[Tempus Edax Rerum]

I would prefer to be in a loving relationship to casual sex, but what I would prefer most of all is to have a sex slave who can provide companionship, in a society in which it's acceptable. I'd treat her very well

Kind master I am ready for you.

 

[reallyunfuckable]

Love/Romantic relationship does not fucking exist. Girls will always get turned off by guys in love with them. They love Chads who don't give a fuck about them and just use them for sex. So, as much as i would love to have a love/romantic relationship over just simple sex, it is impossible for me so, because the other person will never feel the same. So i choose sex.

 

[Mainländer]

It's very tough to choose tbh.

Romance is something I long for constantly, as opposed to sex which goes up and down (if I'm like one week without cumming and in the presence of an attractive woman, I'll want it more than anything, but if I just came for the third time on the day, I'll get uninterested in it for a while).

Sex without romance might be shallow, but romance without sex is worse, because it's pretty cucked unless the female is a kissless virgin, which is something only possible if she's really young nowadays. Imagine having a sexless cute little romantic relationship with a girl who already gargled several Chad's cum and took dicks violently in all her holes, JFL. That would feel like shit.

The desire for sex is partially fulfilled through masturbation, the desire for romance doesn't have surrogates as efficient as it.

I can't decide tbh.

 

[Feces]

Not voting because as a human being in this so called modern society I am entitled to both.

 

[Michinomiya Hirohit]

Love/Romantic relationship for sure but that doesnt exist for ugly fucks like us

 

[deafcel]

Stop these retarded questions

 

[Deleted member 21908]

love and a relationship.
most can get sex by paying for it. but being alone without anyone to share your life with or care about you is too brutal

 

[WawelDragon1683]

I want a relationship more.

 

[GiveMeRamus]

of course I totally blackpilled, women dont love anyone , women dont even love chads ,they only feel sexual attraction for them

Strongly disagree on this one. foids do love their chad boyfriend and you know it

 

[bignose]

Strongly disagree on this one. foids do love their chad boyfriend and you know it

foids are not loyal, foids replace her boyfriend when they want, theres is no "love" in that relationship, you are a blue pilled guy

 

[Hail The Bloatlord]

I gave up on relationships, now I just want sex

 

[speedtypingincel]

Strongly disagree on this one. foids do love their chad boyfriend and you know it

So you admit the "love" comes from physical attraction?

 

[Inincelcel]

I just crave female validation

 

[Carotel]

Strongly disagree on this one. foids do love their chad boyfriend and you know it

And I agree with what you said. Foids love their chad boyfriends, we don't get love, but I saw how foids loved their chad BFs in High School. Its suicidefuel so its easier to say that Love isnt real.

So you admit the "love" comes from physical attraction?

I think physical attraction is something that will lead to you loving someone eventually, it plays a huge part

 

[tiredofthisshit]

retarded question it's both the same need

 

[Reddit_is_for_cucks]

I was wondering this for a while. I see a lot of incels that want sex, but don't care for a relationship. I also see a lot of incels who would pref. to be in a relatioship with a woman, loving and being loved.

For me, I have to say I would go for the relationship. Sex is something I can go to a brothel for, since it's legal in Germany.

Also, this isn't a thread about wether love is real, or wether foid will cheat or not. So for the sake of this thread, let's say that love is real.


Oh yeah in the poll the "?" after love/relationship was a mistake, sry

You can’t have 1 without the other

 

[Carotel]

You can’t have 1 without the other

I think with Sex you can have sex without feelings, but with relationship it's true, but I made this thread more to see people's preferences you know?

 

[Vermilioncore]

Love of course.

 

[EyesAreSoCold]

I would go with love. Just common non-sexual interactions with a crush was much more enjoyable to me than having sex with a hooker. Being validated by someone you love must be the feeling in the world and if there is anything that makes life bearable it must be that.

Inb4 muh it doesn't exist you're just hallucinating, then you're arguing that I must be schizophrenic or something because that's what I feel. Maybe I'm low T but that is my reality nonetheless. I know sex is the endgame of love, but sex without love just doesn't cut it. I think they depend on each other, sex is what completes love, there is no (romantic)love without sex.

I have a theory that if you did not experience any love(or whatever you'd like to call it) during your adolescence you will obsessed with it for the rest of your life. In my case I reached puberty early and had to go through all those teenage years without as much as a single IOI, that might have damaged my brain and given me an unnatural obsession of wanting to feel "loved". I could always masturbate so that might have helped emulate and partly satisfy sex, but there is no replacement for that need of feeling desired by someone. When I was younger I was much hornier and maybe then would have answered sex.

 

[HappilySingle]

Love. Sex is cope.

 

[Billowel]

it doesn't matter what our answer is.it's over

 

[Ropemaxx]

Love is real, for stacy and chad
any other love is the girl dreaming of chad

 

[Haywire]

chad gets both we get tha rope

 

[Robtical]

Relationship with younger girl who won't leave me.

The second best option is unlimited sex with 20+ year old rosties.

 

[King_of_morons]

Sex sex sex that’s all I care about. Relationships are just a means for raising a family to me and I’m too autistic to raise one anyway.

 

[thebuddhacel]

I can't decide tbh.

 

[rightfulcel]

I can fulfill sexual frustration with porn. Love is what I am missing , someone who cares and wants to spend time with me.

 

[Capable_Onion]

Having a relationship is good and all, but it doesn't really mean anything if you're a virgin still.

 

[gymletethnicel]

In either case.
Chad only.

 

[ldar_ricecel]

Both are very important. Though I voted romance because if sex were more important, I would’ve escortceled by now.