Lifeisbullshit95
Another day, another mental breakdown.
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Throughout the extensive course of human existence, the concept of friendship often emerges as a cornerstone of social interaction. It's a notion ingrained in societal norms, celebrated in literature, and revered in countless anecdotes of camaraderie. Yet, amidst this prevalent narrative, there are dissenting voices, those who question the intrinsic value of friendship and its place in the intricate web of human relationships.
I firmly align myself with this contrarian perspective, steadfast in my belief that friends are a futile investment of time and energy. It is not born out of misanthropy or disdain for companionship, but rather a pragmatic understanding of human nature and the dynamics that govern our interactions.
To assert that friends are for weak individuals seeking validation may sound harsh, yet it holds a kernel of truth. In our quest for affirmation and acceptance, we often seek solace in the company of others, relying on external validation to bolster our sense of self-worth. However, this reliance on external validation is inherently flawed, for true validation can only stem from within.
At our core, humans are driven by self-interest, a primal instinct ingrained in our DNA through millennia of evolution. Cooperation may be a survival strategy, but it does not necessarily translate into genuine camaraderie or social bonding. Rather, it is a calculated exchange of favors, a transactional relationship devoid of genuine emotional connection.
The fleeting nature of friendships further underscores their insignificance in the grand scheme of existence. All too often, relationships crumble at the slightest hint of adversity, revealing the superficiality that underpins many human interactions. It's a sobering realization, one that forces us to confront the ephemeral nature of our social connections.
The notion that every relationship ends when one party "Gets the Bitch" speaks volumes about the transient nature of human interactions. It lays bare the underlying motivations that drive our actions, highlighting the primal urge to propagate our genes as the ultimate driving force behind our social behavior.
Humans are inherently self-centered, driving much of their social behavior towards personal gain. This instinct for survival shapes our interactions(Just smile bro), reinforced by societal norms and economic systems. Even altruistic acts often serve personal needs for validation or satisfaction. Technology further amplifies self-promotion.
At the fundamental essence of our being lies an essence that is inherently self-centered rather than inherently social, suggesting that the prevailing notion encapsulated in the phrase "humans are social" is not an innate truth but rather a cultural construct—a meme, if you will—emerged from societal conventions and collective perceptions.
In the light of these revelations, you can deduce and understand the true nature of friendships.
I firmly align myself with this contrarian perspective, steadfast in my belief that friends are a futile investment of time and energy. It is not born out of misanthropy or disdain for companionship, but rather a pragmatic understanding of human nature and the dynamics that govern our interactions.
To assert that friends are for weak individuals seeking validation may sound harsh, yet it holds a kernel of truth. In our quest for affirmation and acceptance, we often seek solace in the company of others, relying on external validation to bolster our sense of self-worth. However, this reliance on external validation is inherently flawed, for true validation can only stem from within.
At our core, humans are driven by self-interest, a primal instinct ingrained in our DNA through millennia of evolution. Cooperation may be a survival strategy, but it does not necessarily translate into genuine camaraderie or social bonding. Rather, it is a calculated exchange of favors, a transactional relationship devoid of genuine emotional connection.
The fleeting nature of friendships further underscores their insignificance in the grand scheme of existence. All too often, relationships crumble at the slightest hint of adversity, revealing the superficiality that underpins many human interactions. It's a sobering realization, one that forces us to confront the ephemeral nature of our social connections.
The notion that every relationship ends when one party "Gets the Bitch" speaks volumes about the transient nature of human interactions. It lays bare the underlying motivations that drive our actions, highlighting the primal urge to propagate our genes as the ultimate driving force behind our social behavior.
Humans are inherently self-centered, driving much of their social behavior towards personal gain. This instinct for survival shapes our interactions(Just smile bro), reinforced by societal norms and economic systems. Even altruistic acts often serve personal needs for validation or satisfaction. Technology further amplifies self-promotion.
At the fundamental essence of our being lies an essence that is inherently self-centered rather than inherently social, suggesting that the prevailing notion encapsulated in the phrase "humans are social" is not an innate truth but rather a cultural construct—a meme, if you will—emerged from societal conventions and collective perceptions.
In the light of these revelations, you can deduce and understand the true nature of friendships.