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what hurts you the most?

What hurts the most?

  • lack of intimacy/sex

    Votes: 19 22.6%
  • social stigma

    Votes: 7 8.3%
  • feeling of powerlessness and inferiority

    Votes: 33 39.3%
  • loneliness

    Votes: 18 21.4%
  • something else

    Votes: 7 8.3%

  • Total voters
    84
Dunarote

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What hurts the most about your inceldom? For me it is definitely the feeling of powerlessness and inferiority. I feel like a level 1 character while other men who have sex are level 100+..
 
Social stigma.
I can't even go to a gaming store without being looked at like some modern day quasimodo ffs.
 
Inferiority:
Mainly just jealous of chad bones. Sure I'm lonely, but if I looked like chad I wouldn't even want some disgusting hole.
 
Powerlessness and loneliness equally
 
Definitely inferiority. I feel very weak compared to everyone else.
 
to know i will never be happy, and never have a gf that like me
 
Either the feeling of meaninglessness or the knowledge that I am fundamentally broken as a human being (if I even qualify as one)
 
Lack of foid on my cock.
 
Tfw no amazon gf.
Lack of gf
 
The plethora of mental illness that ensues from decades of yearning to feel normal.
 
Loneliness mostly, combined with a lack of intimacy which just feels like more loneliness.
 
Not having sex what hurts me more bro.
 
I'd say the first option.
 
I voted for powerlessness and inferiority, but I think in my case it's more hopelessness. Hope is the best cope.
 
Rejection: family, society and spiritually.
 
First. It feels so foreign to me, since i never had sex.
 
Voted "something else'. And this something else is lack of beautiful, healthy able-body. Everything else like sex, social approve, popularity, and many other good things are coming with it.
 
Global rejection.

It's fucked up that I'm stuck on this shitty earth and there's no easy way out.
I'm a social reject for parameters outside of my control.
 
I just want to be like others,
why make me more inferior because of my looks?
 
Heavy inferiority complex.
 
I don't really mind not having a qt gf as much as I mind the fact I haven't had any rl friends since high school. I see other people hanging around and having fun together while I do everything solo, with no one to share experiences with.
 
My deteriorating mental health & my social anxiety getting much worse. I hate battling my own mind
 
What hurts the most about your inceldom? For me it is definitely the feeling of powerlessness and inferiority. I feel like a level 1 character while other men who have sex are level 100+..
The feeling of not being in control of my own life. You get dealt shitty genes and you're done. It's over for you, you will never get the love you dreamt of, you will never deeply connect with someone, you will never spend your summer with the girl you love, kiss her for the first time and take her virginity. You will rot in your damp room and browse 4chan and play video games whilst the more genetically gifted play around and do everything you could only dream of. It's true suffering.
 
I would say the inferiority. I can't even take my dog on a walk outside without being reminded of my subhumanity.
 
just feeling powerless that no matter what i do or no matter how much i looksmax im still never good enough for anyone
 
See myself in a mirror
 
Not having interaction.
 
When I'm at home, (which is 4 days out of the week since my job has shit hours)everyone hates me. Then when I'm at work its more of the same since I'm the only one with my job title, pretty much I feel like I have a target on top of my head at all times. I can't catch a break man why me?
 
Social stigma. Curries happen to be the socially stigmatized group and everyone here knows it. Foids prob all see me as a FOB pajeet and actively ignore me
 
Powerlessness, as an ugly manlet I wish I was atleast and ogrecel so that I can intimidate
 
loneliness easily.

Being loved and supported in life is one of the greatest feelings in the world. Nothing can replace this feeling. Not money, not status, none of that.
 
Imagine playing The Elder Scrolls: Oblivion, except your only gear is a loincloth and a soggy noodle, all the NPCs' stats are too high for you to gain any XP, and you're stuck with the first result you get clicking the "randomize" button on the character creation screen. Now imagine you can't play any other character, or even any other game, and you're forced to play it from the time you wake up to the time you fall asleep.

That is life as an incel.
 
not being chad is what hurts me most
 
The feeling that my life is pointless. Plus the mental illness I've developed over the years of being pointless.
 
Loneliness. I can overcome powerlessness and inferiority by hitting the Gym. But I can't train loneliess.
 
What hurts the most about your inceldom? For me it is definitely the feeling of powerlessness and inferiority. I feel like a level 1 character while other men who have sex are level 100+..
Everything about equally great except social stigma that I feel almost none. There is almost no social stigma against inceldom here, they want men to be lonely beta losers, I feel no pressure about not having a gf. My parents bug me about the drivers license all the time but they have never really asked why I don't have a gf.
 
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The thought of being a weak old man who's never had a gf, no one respects and who's remaining family doesn't really want to see, all alone everyday in a one bedroom flat with no one to see, nothing to do and the outside world is just a companionless void full of anxiety.
 
First one hands down. I either don't care or don't apply to the others, I just wanted romance and sex with desirable (IMO) females.
 
who hurt you sweaty :soy::soy:
 
Being a nobody and having only a few people knowing of my existence, I crave friends more than sex, but I'm too socially awkward to get either ITS OVER
 
I just want to fuck but I don’t get to fuck
 
loneliness
I don't even care about sex all that much tbh
I know I sound like a faggot but I just want to be loved
 
It hurts me that this rotten degenerate modern Western society exists. I worry more about the suffering of other men these days, I feel like the worst is behind me and there are others who have it worse. Even if I would live some ideal life, it wouldn't have much joy if evil is all around me.
 

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