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Serious What Have You Tried To Make Yourself Not An Incel?

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Did you try anything at all?
 
Tried gymmaxxing. Tried fashionmaxxing. Tried working on my speaking skills. Tried literally lowering my standards to the point I'd accept anyone not actually obese. Tried pretending to be rich.


Its over
 
Tried gymmaxxing. Tried fashionmaxxing. Tried working on my speaking skills. Tried literally lowering my standards to the point I'd accept anyone not actually obese. Tried pretending to be rich.


Its over
:feelscry: :feelsrope:
 
Ha! Try something? Don't you know I have an enormous sense of entitlement and Stacies are supposed to give me sex (that I am owed) for absolutely no work on my part!
 
from 14 to 25 I pretended to be kind, outgoing, self confident and positive towards women without results.
I don't give a fuck anymore
 
Being a female online.
 
Tried gymmaxxing. Tried fashionmaxxing. Tried working on my speaking skills. Tried literally lowering my standards to the point I'd accept anyone not actually obese. Tried pretending to be rich.


Its over
^ yep.

Its funny how much we all have in common .


Looking back i feel like a clown.

A Chad doesn't need to try anything in fact he can even be weak in all those areas.

A Stacey will come by and help him with fashion, speaking ect. They will help Chads in all weak areas.



I would like to add i been on my "Purpose" for last 10 years & actually became successful these last 2 years. Did women flock ? nope
 
Gymmaxxing, fashionmaxxing, socialmaxxing, confidencemaxxing. I exposed the best version of myself for hundreds of women but have failed to get even one to love me.
 
Around 6 years of working on my rekt skin, 80% improved so far.
 
Only Gymmaxing. I've always knew appearance was 80% of the battle, but once i've realized just how shitty my frame/genetics were it took a lot of motivation away....

I'm thinking of trying another aproach soon, but i don't feel confident enough for now.
 
"Improved my personality"
"Just was myself"
"Became cuntfident"
Got a haircut, showered and nopillow
Went to the gym and tried to fix my acne
I got clothes which fitted me well
I got glasses which complimented my face and shit
Tried to initiate conversations and "get to know" and "befriend" females

Guess what, it didn't make a single difference. I was still rotting in loneliness while the attractive successful guys continued to fuck lots of girls without even trying. Normie advice and redpill advice is COMPLETELY useless if you are not at least 5/10
 
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Take a shower and get a hair cut.
 
What's the point of trying if you deeply know it's over.
 
There's no point trying, Chads can have a shitty haircut, Chads can have acne, Chads can not shower for a week but they still get approached. If you don't have the bone structure don't even bother.
 
I've done crazy, desperate and cucked shit.

Looks: I've had a HT, lipo'd my double chin, soon to get a nose job here too. Gymcelled and keto'd of course, I managed a v-taper and a flat stomach. I also still mew, for what little it's worth. Oh and since I'm a palecel I used melanotan, got my first tan in my life.

After I realized lookmaxxing with incel genes wasn't the panacea I'd hoped for, I became autismly focused on my social skills, picking apart every little thing I, and others, said. I listened to podcasts and talk radio to see how NTs interacted. I never PUAed, but I mainly listened to comedians like Patrice O'neal, to see how he handled social situations. Overall I tried desperately to become NT, more empathetic and relaxed in situations and improve my communications skills. To make up time, for my lack of dating experience, I tried to fast track learning about dating by paying women for dates at 28 (yes, I sugar daddied, and fuck you, it was not my end game).

In the end, it was a wild ride, but all for nothing. At 31, I'm actually more mentalcel than I was to start in someways. One reason being is because I HAVE tried everything now and while I might have improved myself a lot, I now know it will never be enough, and I'll always be alone.

I don't think incels know how great a cope hope is, but when you've done everything, and you can no longer cope with hope, and it's brutal.
 
Lost 70 pounds, forced myself to go out and talk to people, messaged over 2,000 women online, changed my qualification of date to 'female', lifted weights and ran everyday, bought new clothes, honed my social skills, studied female behavior, lied my head off, drove across state borders, started playing guitar and singing, spent hours around women I hated, worked with my therapist, gone into debt, lost whatever bit of self-respect I had left, gave up my life's previous vocation, and oh yeah - went to a fucking Ted Cruz rally.

I can't remember everything I've done. I've been at this a looooong time. The one thing I've learned is that it's not enough; it's never enough.
 
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Did you try anything at all?
My family annoyed me with the bluepilled advice that i should go out more to bars, clubs and discos to meet people. Like the bluepilled idiot i was back then i tried it. Pure suicide and ragefuel. After a while of trying i became blackpilled.
 
Yes.

I pretended to be NT for years and am really good at it (I had a decent social circle). I also stayed fit and took care of my appearance.

However not one woman was interested despite how many I asked out. My looks were never good enough.

All my former friends are now married and still do couple stuff together while I rot alone.
 
Tried gymmaxxing. Tried fashionmaxxing. Tried working on my speaking skills. Tried literally lowering my standards to the point I'd accept anyone not actually obese. Tried pretending to be rich.
All these
 
Studied lots of useless shit about haircut for head shape, how to pose for selfies, how to first kiss a girl (LMAO), etc. Growed a beard, went to the gym (i decided i will visit gym on permanent basis), tried clothesmaxxing, changed haircuts. I still have to try much more, even surgeries or visiting SEA, but money is the problem.
 
Lost hell of weight by starving myself (gained it all back recently), working out, had nice clothes (don't fit them anymore), Tried learning PUA (sucked at it, couldn't remember any of the advice) Grew dreads (girls actually paid more attention to me but didnt want to fuck), lots of mental work (affirmations and shit).
 
I’ve taken a shower with COLD AND HOT WATER tbh
 
Ha! Try something? Don't you know I have an enormous sense of entitlement and Stacies are supposed to give me sex (that I am owed) for absolutely no work on my part!

Fuck off inceltears.
 
Tried the red pill, it was just a bunch of crap. When you are like me women don't shit test you they are actually rejecting you.
Once I knew about the blackpill i realized that it was over for the very beginning.
 
Watched tons of movies with female protagonists and took eight cold showers a day, now I'm Chad :chad:
 
Currently Looksmaxxing, and Japanmaxxing. Also job hunting. First two are working out pretty decently, still haven't gotten a Job tho.
 
Did you try anything at all?
tried to status/moneymaxx out of creative projects but it failed (for now)
tried to get a better job and almost succeeded, difficult process (3-4 steps before you even see a live person)
fixed and whitened my fucked up teeth even though it required 15-16 visits with hellish pain
lost weight until i became fit but not muscular, constantly try to control diet for body/mental performance
got better clothes and a messenger bag instead of carrying shit in my bulging pockets like a retard
tried to low-inhib max by walking everywhere during lunch and eating at tables with strangers in a crowded food court
worked on some impressive freelance projects, that nobody in real life can relate to anyway
went to a large party
hovered around cute self-resembling 6/10 like a retard and asked her female coworker if she was single
admitted my recent troubles to my parents and my hipster chadlite friend
go outside all the time even though it's pointless
 
Well I am a curry so it doesn't matter what I do it was over long before I was even conceived. Also I tried alot of things turns out I can change alot of things about me but unfortunately ethnicity cannot be changed.
 
gymmaxx, fashionmaxx, studymaxx, moneymaxx, read books on the topic, shower & haircut, extremesportsmaxx, 8-10 different datingsites/apps, orbiting, irl approaching.

Cucktears gtfih
 
I've done crazy, desperate and cucked shit.

Looks: I've had a HT, lipo'd my double chin, soon to get a nose job here too. Gymcelled and keto'd of course, I managed a v-taper and a flat stomach. I also still mew, for what little it's worth. Oh and since I'm a palecel I used melanotan, got my first tan in my life.

After I realized lookmaxxing with incel genes wasn't the panacea I'd hoped for, I became autismly focused on my social skills, picking apart every little thing I, and others, said. I listened to podcasts and talk radio to see how NTs interacted. I never PUAed, but I mainly listened to comedians like Patrice O'neal, to see how he handled social situations. Overall I tried desperately to become NT, more empathetic and relaxed in situations and improve my communications skills. To make up time, for my lack of dating experience, I tried to fast track learning about dating by paying women for dates at 28 (yes, I sugar daddied, and fuck you, it was not my end game).

In the end, it was a wild ride, but all for nothing. At 31, I'm actually more mentalcel than I was to start in someways. One reason being is because I HAVE tried everything now and while I might have improved myself a lot, I now know it will never be enough, and I'll always be alone.

I don't think incels know how great a cope hope is, but when you've done everything, and you can no longer cope with hope, and it's brutal.
You're a fucking cuck to be a sugar daddy. Also u havent tried everything as you havent moved away from the west. If you are white and have a bachelors degree you're just a volcel
Currently Looksmaxxing, and Japanmaxxing. Also job hunting. First two are working out pretty decently, still haven't gotten a Job tho.
Japanmaxxing? its as bad as the west lmaoo
 
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Gymmaxing, studymaxing, moneymaxing, betabuxing, looksmaxing, whiteknighting, personalitymaxing, paid for PUA lessons, approachmaxing, thugmaxing (doesn’t work if not black), begged my sister to help me out with girls (called me pathetic and creepy). Now I’m just rotmaxing and coping
 
Just stop being an incel, bro.
 

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