Firsty, a woman looks at a man's appearance. If he is subhuman, she instantly stops imagining even the possibility of being with him. If he looks average, it depends on his neurotypicality
By a good personality, women really mean how normal you are. It's a well-known fact that women are much better at non-verbal communication than men. That is, a woman sends non-verbal signals to a man and checks how neurotypical he is in this way. If the man does not pick up these signals, she classifies him as a person with a bad personality, a little better - as a normal person, and very well - as a person with an interesting personality.
If a man looks very good, the vast majority of women no longer pay attention to his neurotypicality at all. This explains why so many women shout that they are dating someone because of his personality, because they really believe it. It also explains the fact that there are a large number of people who have found relationships with ASD, ADHD and other non NTs
By a good personality, women really mean how normal you are. It's a well-known fact that women are much better at non-verbal communication than men. That is, a woman sends non-verbal signals to a man and checks how neurotypical he is in this way. If the man does not pick up these signals, she classifies him as a person with a bad personality, a little better - as a normal person, and very well - as a person with an interesting personality.
If a man looks very good, the vast majority of women no longer pay attention to his neurotypicality at all. This explains why so many women shout that they are dating someone because of his personality, because they really believe it. It also explains the fact that there are a large number of people who have found relationships with ASD, ADHD and other non NTs
