Discussion What excuses have foids made to not date you?

[Logic55]

She told me that she was sexually abused and didn’t feel comfortable

she wouldn't have said that if you were a chad.

 

[Gokubro]

You were not born chad.

 

[prajeet88]

1) Short
2) Short
3) Not my type (cause short)
4) Short
5) Short

 

[Jotasso]

I agree actually. This board has a tendency to purity spiral and that can only harm our movement long term. We need as many men as possible to have any kind of policy impact long term and the goal right now I think should be blackpilling as many guys as possible and resisting the urge to splinter. MGTOWs/TRP/Incels etc should be more like different denominations in that we need to be on the same side or nothing can ever change. At the very least those groups are way more like us than anyone in the mainstream and at least partially acknowledge blackpill reality.

Over time in recent years if you’ve followed the data more and more young men are being pushed into the incel camp. If the surveyed and speed dating/online dating stats are to be believed basically ~80% of young men harshly struggle with women and most of that block who do “succeed” one day are effectively betabux providers who’s wives don’t even want to have sex with them and who “settled” for them after getting older and being unable to land Chad Lingschlong.

Does a 1/10 have it worse than a 4/10? Very obviously yes — one will have people visibly avoid them and you can see the reaction on their face while the other may be able to have a semblance of a normal life minus love and popularity (minus promotion too at this point honestly). But at the same time since women rate men with a harsh cutoff if you don’t pass you’re probably gonna struggle extremely hard for a crumb of pussy best case scenario while below that it’s probable you’ll be a virgin forever now barring hookers at least. Or take that 5/10 normie that jestermaxxed his balls off and got married to a post wall hag and now gets a crumb of pussy every 3 months then gets divorce raped and has his house and kids taken away. I’m not saying that “as bad” by any means as the 1/10 or even 4/10 but it’s still bad and I’m open to talking with those guys if they’re on the same page.

Take Gerbert Johnson for example — he’s clearly a Chad light and I bet can get laid but at the same time he’s only helped spread the blackpill so I hold no resentment for him. Human psychology being what it is it might just be an unfortunate truth that people don’t care or listen if it’s not a Chad leader talking.

I really like this perspective, especially the idea of actually helping others movements similars even if they're mainstream. I feel like we're competing to see who has the worst and it also excludes a lot of guys who are genuinely unable to get anything besides hatred and not only it hurt each other but also prevent us from progressing

 

[CantEscapeYourFate]

They don't give me excuses, they just say "I can't" or "We're better as friends".

 

[cvh1991]

I really like this perspective, especially the idea of actually helping others movements similars even if they're mainstream. I feel like we're competing to see who has the worst and it also excludes a lot of guys who are genuinely unable to get anything besides hatred and not only it hurt each other but also prevent us from progressing

Thanks, I do really sympathize with guys who have had it really bad being dismissed or being compared wrongly with someone who’s life hasn’t even been remotely as hard. But I also want to eventually win and succeed in improving society and its treatment of young men somewhat. Doing that is impossible if we do what far left does which is constantly purity spiral on ourselves. Nobody is denying that some guys have it way worse than others, obviously they do and I acknowledge that. But at the end of the day if guy X has a really shitty life and guy Y has an even shittier astronomically horrific life neither of those guys is winnin here.

 

[Jotasso]

Thanks, I do really sympathize with guys who have had it really bad being dismissed or being compared wrongly with someone who’s life hasn’t even been remotely as hard. But I also want to eventually win and succeed in improving society and its treatment of young men somewhat. Doing that is impossible if we do what far left does which is constantly purity spiral on ourselves. Nobody is denying that some guys have it way worse than others, obviously they do and I acknowledge that. But at the end of the day if guy X has a really shitty life and guy Y has an even shittier astronomically horrific life neither of those guys is winnin here.

Their thoughts of excluding guys who have had “better” despite still being socially humiliated just makes me angry because we should at least make a place here free from the same kind of hate that normies hold towards us. I honestly dunno if I'm able to study policies as I'd like so I'd at least help but despite that I still wanna make something on a future to make our lives less crappy

 

[Antifem Lord]

They are honest and straightforward with their disinterest in me

 

[Coldone666]

You are a nice guy, I'm sure there's is a girl out there for you.
You aren't my type.
Your like a brother to me
I have a boyfriend.

Or they just ghost me and never talk to me again.

 

[Immolator]

I don't know any foids irl/have talked to any

 

[Logic55]

You are a nice guy, I'm sure there's is a girl out there for you.

Foids have told me this before.

 

[Coldone666]

Foids have told me this before.

Well it's better then getting screamed at or laughed at or them running away lol.

 

[tacotown2142]

one time i told a girl i liked her and she she said nothing, started tearing up like i'd offended her, and briskly walked away.

 

[RuudVanNistelrooy]

"I am currently taking a break from dating".
"Our horoscopes don't align",
"You need a slave not a partner",

 

[Loner94]

Never even got that stage they were very quick to exhibit many hostile body & combative body language to yet me know where i stand in the hierarchy which is at the bottom.

 

[Nig nog pilled]

Here are some that I can remember off the top of my head....
1) "You are like a friend to me"
2) "you are like my brother" "you are my little bro"
3) "I love you plutonically"
4) "you are like a teacher to me, I don't want to lose your wisdom:
5) "sorry, I'm not ready to date right now" (but if you are a chad, she will change her mind)
6) "you are a nice guy"
7) "you are not my type"
8) "I don't feel the chemistry"
9) " I thought you want to be my best friend"
What other dumbass reasons have girls gave you for not wanting to date you depsite your good personality????

after the fire, i had no choice but to not even bother

 

[LeFrenchCel]

"I changed my mind I don't want to go"
"I'm not interested in you and never was"
*ghosting*

 

[Balding Subhuman]

A girl told to my face that I'm ugly. So no excuses. At least she didn't lie to me

 

[Subhuman Trucel]

The usual "I have a boyfriend"

 

[trollingthunder]

Never botherd asking one out.

 

[WAFFLEMASTER205]

Here are some that I can remember off the top of my head....
1) "You are like a friend to me"
2) "you are like my brother" "you are my little bro"
3) "I love you plutonically"
4) "you are like a teacher to me, I don't want to lose your wisdom:
5) "sorry, I'm not ready to date right now" (but if you are a chad, she will change her mind)
6) "you are a nice guy"
7) "you are not my type"
8) "I don't feel the chemistry"
9) " I thought you want to be my best friend"
What other dumbass reasons have girls gave you for not wanting to date you depsite your good personality????

everytime us incels, ask grils out they either, reject us or they accuse us of rape, or stalking its always the quiet kid, hes usually a incel.

 

[WAFFLEMASTER205]

Never botherd asking one out.

why not you ugly.

 

[WAFFLEMASTER205]

i agree

 

[WAFFLEMASTER205]

She told me that she was sexually abused and didn’t feel comfortable while I tried doing small talk to hER

more like, she wants to be lol