Discussion What excuses have foids made to not date you?

[Logic55]

Here are some that I can remember off the top of my head....
1) "You are like a friend to me"
2) "you are like my brother" "you are my little bro"
3) "I love you plutonically"
4) "you are like a teacher to me, I don't want to lose your wisdom:
5) "sorry, I'm not ready to date right now" (but if you are a chad, she will change her mind)
6) "you are a nice guy"
7) "you are not my type"
8) "I don't feel the chemistry"
9) " I thought you want to be my best friend"
What other dumbass reasons have girls gave you for not wanting to date you depsite your good personality????

 

[Pancakecel]

No excuses, just straight up No. Or, the usual "I have a boyfriend", "Im a lesbian" etc. A few times they didnt even say anything, just glared at me and started walking away quickly

 

[blackpillednigga]

they dont make an excuse

 

[Luzifer]

Canceling the date at Friday 9pm: Uhmm sorry i need to go too the dentist

 

[greggymex7]

None they just block me

 

[Luzifer]

No excuses, just straight up No. Or, the usual "I have a boyfriend", "Im a lesbian" etc. A few times they didnt even say anything, just glared at me and started walking away quickly

i get very angry when i get dumped nowadays thats why i only go to hookers, my aggression leads me too stupid things sometimes espacially when drunk

 

[Logic55]

Canceling the date at Friday 9pm: Uhmm sorry i need to go too the dentist

If you were chad, she would cancel her dentist appointment to go on a date with you

 

[Pancakecel]

i get very angry when i get dumped nowadays thats why i only go to hookers, my aggression leads me too stupid things sometimes espacially when drunk

What do you mean dumped, not possible if you've never even had a relationship in the first place

 

[Luzifer]

What do you mean dumped, not possible if you've never even had a relationship in the first place

dumped in the way off rejection off foids its the same term dude

 

[Pancakecel]

dumped in the way off rejection off foids its the same term dude

I see.

 

[ElTruecel]

Here are some that I can remember off the top of my head....
1) "You are like a friend to me"
2) "you are like my brother" "you are my little bro"
3) "I love you plutonically"
4) "you are like a teacher to me, I don't want to lose your wisdom:
5) "sorry, I'm not ready to date right now" (but if you are a chad, she will change her mind)
6) "you are a nice guy"
7) "you are not my type"
8) "I don't feel the chemistry"
9) " I thought you want to be my best friend"

Wait so you have a history of being close friends with this many foids? ?

 

[Logic55]

Wait so you have a history of being close friends with this many foids? ?

Yup, all they saw me as a "friend" or a "brother". I no longer have female friends anymore, they are a waste of time

 

[Sandniggercel]

No point in asking them out when you are subhuman

 

[Nosecel_]

1) Sorry my grandpa just died
2) Im busy with school/work
3) Ew no
4) Are you joking?

 

[ElTruecel]

Yup, all they saw me as a "friend" or a "brother". I no longer have female friends anymore, they are a waste of time

You had foid friends and you were that close with them? Lol wtf are you diagnosed non NT or smth?

 

[Luzifer]

i have approached countless off foids in clubs and while going out maxx in night game

the amount off rejections i got was brutal but mostly: I have a boyfriend or just straight ignoring, but the most brutal shit is when you are a manlet and they feel offended when a manlet is approaching a foid like: "HOW DARE YOU THINK YOU HAVE A CHANCE BY ME! acting!

Sometimes i got kicked out off bars by white knights for "disturbing the women"

Top Dumping line in Bars is always: Teeheee " We have a girls night we want too be alone teehee" - My respond: "Why you dont stay at home then if you dont want too be disturbed" - TEEHEEE "We have boyfriends we are not intrested TEEHEE"

 

[Logic55]

No point in asking them out when you are subhuman

Bluepillers/simps/cucks keep repeating the same mistakes

You had foid friends and you were that close with them? Lol wtf are you diagnosed non NT or smth?

This was before I became a blackpiller/incel. I used to be a retarded bluepiller in high school

 

[Friday I'm In Love]

You had foid friends and you were that close with them? Lol wtf are you diagnosed non NT or smth?

can you blame this (failed) normie for trying to ascend? Sex is everywhere and a requirement to belong in society

 

[IncelsNeverCry]

I never got close enough with a foid for them to let me down gently, actually I have never been "friends" or socially engaged with a foid in any capacity in all my life. always just me trying and failing to get poontang and that's about it

 

[ElTruecel]

can you blame this (failed) normie for trying to ascend? Sex is everywhere and a requirement to belong in society

Yea no I understand.

This was before I became a blackpiller/incel. I used to be a retarded bluepiller in high school

Ah. So you are NT huh, well tbf it is HS I can’t fault you for it a lot of jester maxxers and lucky dudes get close with foids.

 

[PolskiKartofel]

Ghosting doesn't need excuses, I'm just disappearing

 

[shortcel0x]

asked a girl on bumble once on a date, on a sunday, she said she cant bec she has to work, all day apparently.

 

[Logic55]

asked a girl on bumble once on a date, on a sunday, she said she cant bec she has to work, all day apparently.

Are you going to ask her again?

 

[ClinicallyDeformed]

None, i never asked out a girl in my entire shit life. I've known how ugly i was for a while, i'd never give these whores the satisfaction of rejecting me.

On a side note, my life is in such a fucking pathetic state, that the downsyndrome girl next door asked me to be her friend, never began, never will.

 

[shortcel0x]

Are you going to ask her again?

no, that was like months ago, its always the same excuse with "they have to work"

 

[Wolnir]

I got told that I am too forward.

 

[Logic55]

I got told that I am too forward.

That is such a stupid reason to reject someone

 

[Wolnir]

That is such a stupid reason to reject someone

It's what happens when a sub5 tries to act confident

 

[Logic55]

It's what happens when a sub5 tries to act confident

Women blame us for being rejected, but in reality, women are the problem, not us

 

[Lone-Star]

Just a reminder that if you've ever heard a foid tell you "You're like a friend to me" you're a fakecel.

 

[Logic55]

Just a reminder that if you've ever heard a foid tell you "You're like a friend to me" you're a fakecel.

If she doesn't give you love or sex, you are still an incel

 

[asdfghjqbbbb]

"you are creepy"

that was the main excuse

 

[Lone-Star]

If she doesn't give you love or sex, you are still an incel

If you have foid friends, you're a normie who can't get laid, not an incel.

 

[Logic55]

If you have foid friends, you're a normie who can't get laid, not an incel.

That is not an accurate definition or description of an incel

 

[Wumbus]

"Sorry I have a boyfriend"
was the main one i got

 

[Justdone]

“I don’t need you”

“I’ll ruin you”

I don’t approach and those two was said to taunt or flex on me

 

[Lone-Star]

That is not an accurate definition or description of an incel

If you think that incel just means some guy who can't get laid, you have no idea what incel truly means.
Truecels are despised by foids because of their looks and forced into a life of complete social isolation. If you have femoid friends, you can't possibly be an incel, you're just a normie who wasn't able to get let yet.

fucking 2023fags destroying this forum, gtfo of here, normscum

 

[HeroinNihilism]

they looked at my face

 

[Logic55]

If you think that incel just means some guy who can't get laid, you have no idea what incel truly means.
Truecels are despised by foids because of their looks and forced into a life of complete social isolation. If you have femoid friends, you can't possibly be an incel, you're just a normie who wasn't able to get let yet.

fucking 2023fags destroying this forum, gtfo of here, normscum

Truecels and incels are distinguished by looks, but regardless they both are deprived of love, intimacy and sex, I am an incel by definition.

 

[w1818alone]

They don't want

 

[Lone-Star]

Truecels and incels are distinguished by looks, but regardless they both are deprived of love, intimacy and sex, I am an incel by definition.

You will never know what it truly feels like being incel, get off my forum, normie.

 

[TheCatMan]

"I have a boyfriend"

 

[cvh1991]

Canceling the date at Friday 9pm: Uhmm sorry i need to go too the dentist

Woof yeah I remember when I was young I’d try asking girls out to hang and they would always ghost like this if they didn’t make another excuses on the spot say. If they actually want to go out with someone and genuinely have to reschedule they’ll make an effort to reschedule and suggest another time. Of course they never do if they had no intention of going out with you and if you attempt to reschedule yourself they stop responding. In hindsight the best response if a woman cancels is to say nothing at all, don’t reply, don’t say you understand. Say nothing unless they make another time. I didn’t do that cuz I was retarded but it’s what I should’ve done. Man that was so long ago I used to try bros

 

[turbosperg]

Excuses I've got were mostly the Friend, brothER, boyfriend, and the "not my type".

But most rejections I got were never even given excuses. Foids simply make a puke face, laugh, or ignore me, or give me the silent treatment or send her simps to attack me.

My worst rejections were those in which the foid strung me along until they've found an opportunity to publicly ridicule and humiliate me in front of others.

I will always remembER the looks of enjoyment and excitement foids have when they implement a plot they devised to inflict maximum social damage to a shy non-NT guy for the crime of expressing his romantic interest in them.

Once a foid convinced a cousin thrice my size to brutally beat me to a bloody pulp in front of the whole school, the only reason I still have my teeth is because another cousin convinced him to let it slide.

 

[cvh1991]

"I have a boyfriend"

^

Even when you know that they don’t in fact have a bf Just say no bitch we already know what you mean. It’s more irritating to be fed an obvious lie but it all comes round to women being non confrontational in a direct way and wanting to convince others it’s not their fault or responsibility. After the first dozen rejections most men can handle it and already know what the likely outcome is going to be so why lie? Fear? Reputation? Trying to retain “friendship”/orbiters for simp favors?

 

[cvh1991]

Excuses I've got were mostly the Friend, brothER, boyfriend, and the "not my type".

But most rejections I got were never even given excuses. Foids simply make a puke face, laugh, or ignore me, or give me the silent treatment or send her simps to attack me.

My worst rejections were those in which the foid strung me along until they've found an opportunity to publicly ridicule and humiliate me in front of others.

Silent treatment was pretty common looking back. They basically just start avoiding you. Which I guess is fine, most men only orbit because of sexual or romantic interest anyway let’s be real (though a lot of young idealistic men I personally think are dishonest even with themselves on this — it’s incredible how much we lie to ourselves tbh). Men that actually share your hobbies typically make for better friends than women do so there’s another motivation I would say “usually” when you see a girl surrounded by guys.

 

[cvh1991]

Truecels and incels are distinguished by looks, but regardless they both are deprived of love, intimacy and sex, I am an incel by definition.

I agree actually. This board has a tendency to purity spiral and that can only harm our movement long term. We need as many men as possible to have any kind of policy impact long term and the goal right now I think should be blackpilling as many guys as possible and resisting the urge to splinter. MGTOWs/TRP/Incels etc should be more like different denominations in that we need to be on the same side or nothing can ever change. At the very least those groups are way more like us than anyone in the mainstream and at least partially acknowledge blackpill reality.

Over time in recent years if you’ve followed the data more and more young men are being pushed into the incel camp. If the surveyed and speed dating/online dating stats are to be believed basically ~80% of young men harshly struggle with women and most of that block who do “succeed” one day are effectively betabux providers who’s wives don’t even want to have sex with them and who “settled” for them after getting older and being unable to land Chad Lingschlong.

Does a 1/10 have it worse than a 4/10? Very obviously yes — one will have people visibly avoid them and you can see the reaction on their face while the other may be able to have a semblance of a normal life minus love and popularity (minus promotion too at this point honestly). But at the same time since women rate men with a harsh cutoff if you don’t pass you’re probably gonna struggle extremely hard for a crumb of pussy best case scenario while below that it’s probable you’ll be a virgin forever now barring hookers at least. Or take that 5/10 normie that jestermaxxed his balls off and got married to a post wall hag and now gets a crumb of pussy every 3 months then gets divorce raped and has his house and kids taken away. I’m not saying that “as bad” by any means as the 1/10 or even 4/10 but it’s still bad and I’m open to talking with those guys if they’re on the same page.

Take Gerbert Johnson for example — he’s clearly a Chad light and I bet can get laid but at the same time he’s only helped spread the blackpill so I hold no resentment for him. Human psychology being what it is it might just be an unfortunate truth that people don’t care or listen if it’s not a Chad leader talking.

 

[Feeshtu]

I’ve heard a lot of different excuses over the years.

One foid did the worst rejection. She just said she would think about it.
A month later I asked her out again and she got angry saying that she had said she would think about it.
Like shit, she had been “thinking about it” for a whole month.
Bitch should have just said no instead of stringing me along.

 

[Skoga]

I don't know any foids irl/have talked to any

 

[DarthBurritoBastard]

She told me that she was sexually abused and didn’t feel comfortable while I tried doing small talk to hER