What does growing up mean?

[Deleted member 7448]

I've been thinking about how I'm still a kid at 26, how I've wasted all my life and how I'm going to continue wasting it laying in bed with my laptop

And so I've been thinking about what adulthood and growing up actually means. People go through these milestones of life and have increasing responsibilities, so I guess that's what they usually mean by growing up.

But, for us guys who are basically society's rejects just because women don't fancy us, is "growing up" even possible? Makes me question the very meaning of the term adult.

 

[TheRealChincel]

Growing up means drinking your Soy and breaking your back either literally in manual labor or being worked to death all day doing the “real” work for the boss. It means putting a minimum on fun and a premium on “contribution” and caring for others via parenthood, taxes, etc.

 

[MarriedAndLookin4Fun]

We are adult children because we never experienced the milestones that normal people experience tbh

 

[Insomniac]

growing up = wagecucking and being a good goy

 

[Deleted member 8206]

Growing up means drinking your Soy and breaking your back either literally in manual labor or being worked to death all day doing the “real” work for the boss. It means putting a minimum on fun and a premium on “contribution” and caring for others via parenthood, taxes, etc.

 

[Napoleon de Nascar]

Taking care after chad's children

 

[BitterCel]

growing up = wagecucking and being a good goy

This, essentially

 

[Joelossus]

It just means having more responsibilities, personally I couldn't give a fuck about growing up ngl.

 

[HostileWaters]

You will never grow up as a subhuman.

They say this boomer shit to subhumans for a reason, to taunt them. You can’t grow up when you’re always treated as a lesser being. No matter how hard you work on yourself or your professional life (Outside of getting surgeries) you will never attain the respect that the genetically fortunate that do the same amount of work as you or even less will, to them you will never have grown up.

So what do you do?

You, like any sensible human being would, throw your arms up in the air and say “Fuck it, there’s no point in putting in work when you get fuck all”. This, of course, doesn’t work for these deluded morons, who then deride you for “giving up”, even though you’ve tried and only given up due to a lack of worthwhile returns. They know this, of course, but this is just the way that these despicable cunts rub salt in the wound.

Remember: As a subhuman, you will never belong with normans. Never trust anything they say, they do and always will view you as trash unworthy of being accepted or proper reward for any work you do. Don’t waste your time, give up.

 

[ReallyRice]

Being a grown up = Having noticeable forward growth of the face

 

[Blacktarpill]

growing up = wagecucking and being a good goy

 

[HostileWaters]

Being a grown up = Having noticeable forward growth of the face

 

[RandomGuy]

All I mostly see are normans having babies and becoming robots on the plantation. You’re not missing out. That phony Disney life is a major ‘ongoing’ burden. I’d rather LDAR.

 

[Deleted member 16455]

growing up = wagecucking and being a good goy

 

[Johny.speiz]

Seriously, I'm in my early 30s and I feel like I have not left my room since I was 15 years old.
It is depressing to note that every step I take forward, I take two steps back.

 

[FlamingCel]

Being a grown up = Having noticeable forward growth of the face

 

[Deleted member 17419]

Growing up is wanting to and being able to manage your own life and it's terms to as high a degree as possible.

 

[Michael15651]

A life of living by society's norms and taking all the shit.

 

[RopeIsMyLove]

"Growing up" is just another slur word directed at one's opponent.

Before the insanity of the modern world,every men, since he was a child, was taught a set of values and moral commands, that he had to uphold in his inevitable passage into adulthood. From a kid, he transitioned into husband and father. It was a man's world, where every member of society need to follow this pre set path and up-hold values in which one was raised.

Now? Adulthood is just a number on paper. Today sex,alchool, and all sorts of degenerate stuff is associated with adult's life,but not limited to (plenty of foids and normies do this before the age of 18).No longer acting in maturity way is desirable.It's actually thought as boring.In modern world everybody ought to have fun and not bother oneself with anything intellectually challenging.

 

[ihaveno1]

growing up will be different for u depending on ur genetics, if ur chad u have all the options in the world of who to fuck or who to start a family with, if u are intelligent u have options of what to pursue a career in, if u have a dedication towards one specific thing u can do that, but if ur a talentless undesirable incel like me then u just cope until u rope

 

[starystulejarz]

growing up = wagecucking and being a good goy

 

[gnomen1]

Growing up is the process of recognizing and accepting your place in the hierarchy.

 

[Ugly_equals_Death]

Its when the agepill hits and depression starts

 

[Valiant Virgin]

I have "grown up" in the sense that I have a job, my own place and am generally self-sufficient and independent.

I haven't been able to "grow up" in the sense of romantic/sexual experience. I'm a 29-year-old man with the experience of your average 13-year-old.

 

[Cybersex is our hope]

We are adult children because we never experienced the milestones that normal people experience tbh

 

[Heroic Crusader]

being more miserable

 

[Deleted member 6329]

Wage cucking while being told by society and feminist that you are shit.

 

[Hikikomori]

Growing up turned me into a maniacal psychopath, NEET/LDAR for the remainder of my life.

 

[Braincel14w]

I never grew up. I think something hormonal happens to guys when they get laid repeatedly that makes them look more mature. Obviously most of us will never experience that so will always look child like.