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Discussion What do you guys think about self harm

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Me personally I find it dumb that people would harm themselves while going through something but I understand that they are hurting but why would you just wanna keep hurting your self instead of finding help and improving yourself
 
I don't really get it. I think it's stupid.
 
masochism probably
 
Foid behaviour
 
Instead of hurting yourself you should hurt the people who hurt you.
 
Me personally I find it dumb that people would harm themselves while going through something but I understand that they are hurting but why would you just wanna keep hurting your self instead of finding help and improving yourself
What makes it worse sometimes they don’t even try to look for help even if they have the help they need or they have the chance to do some new with there life they always want to go back
 
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The adrenaline spikes are helpful.
 
I was thinking about making a post like this for the past few days.
why would you just wanna keep hurting your self instead of finding help and improving yourself
The self destruction aspect is part of the appeal.
 
never harm yourself for something you had no control over
 
Foid behaviour
It's exclusively only done by women. We didn't even have a term for cutting until recently, and psychiatrists are only just now coming up with it, and it's not a very good term yet because the category of self-harm is purposefully overly inclusive to avoid being exclusively female, including a lot of what would be more appropriately called "retarded" so they get include more guys.
 
14 year old Emily type of activity
 
I want to hurt sexhavers
 
I never got why people hurt themselves and likely never will.
 
I don't really get it. I think it's stupid.
Same, I've always been scared of injuring myself, how the fuck do people actually find enjoyment in it?
 
It provides relief and I don’t blame men who do it. I don’t think it makes you a “fag” or any less masculine. Plenty of guys cut themselves, but are just too afraid to admit it.
 
Stupid, your better off smoking or drinking.
 
I once messaged with a teenage foid (15) whose anorexic and hated her body, we had a conversation for a while and she told me she took photos of her harming herself.
I don't know, i think it's retarded. In her case it's probably a way to seek attention.
 
When I've done it in the past it was usually to try and build up to actually cutting an artery
 
It provides relief and I don’t blame men who do it. I don’t think it makes you a “fag” or any less masculine. Plenty of guys cut themselves, but are just too afraid to admit it.
I think we need to be more open about the fact that men probably make up the large majority that do this rather than shaming them for it. Male suicide rates are through the roof yet there's idiots in here calling it retarded; no wonder men are more likely to kill themselves.
 
When I've done it in the past it was usually to try and build up to actually cutting an artery
What made you stop or helped you to leave that habit alone if you don’t mind me askinf
 
One of the most retarded things ever
 
Instead of self harm, go ER! ( in fucking Roblox only! ).
 
It's exclusively only done by women. We didn't even have a term for cutting until recently, and psychiatrists are only just now coming up with it, and it's not a very good term yet because the category of self-harm is purposefully overly inclusive to avoid being exclusively female, including a lot of what would be more appropriately called "retarded" so they get include more guys.
I knew a guy who did it many times to get attention from girls he was friends in the goth scene. it worked for him he got the goth gf.
 
It provides relief and I don’t blame men who do it. I don’t think it makes you a “fag” or any less masculine. Plenty of guys cut themselves, but are just too afraid to admit it.
Of course you would say that.
 
Jerking off is better anyways
 
stupid unless you are fully roping
 
It's retarded, and foids usually do it to garner attention from simps on shitcord or soycial media. I'd rather just shoot myself in the head
 
Better aiming that pain outwards, towards the cunts who wronged you.
 
What made you stop or helped you to leave that habit alone if you don’t mind me askinf
I'm not entirely sure, perhaps I was sick of constantly chickening out and not reaching my end goal, trying to hide the evidence is tiring, especially in summer but ultimately I think I've simply just began to out grow it. I'm going to die at some point anyways so I've just been exercising my free will to do whatever I want in the meantime.

I'm sure it'll be something I struggle with again but I've noticed I've slowly started to replace my attempts with other shit; cold showers fully clothed shocks me enough to pull me out of a bad headspace, venting even if it's just to the void but mainly I've gotten used to the same shit that negatively impacts me and I have all the time in the world to sit here and think about my situation from every angle, usually coming to the same conclusion that my problems are so tiny in the grand scheme of things, they wont matter as long as I don't let them impact me.
 

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