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Babica Yaga

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The loneliness becomes unbearable sometimes to the point that I just must get up and go for a walk/do some exercise to clear my mind. How do you cope with this?

I was thinking of getting a cat. Didn't Jewdan Peterson say it's good to pet a cat or something?
 
I was thinking of getting a cat. Didn't Jewdan Peterson say it's good to pet a cat or something?
I tried with my neighbor's cat and it didn't work tbh
The loneliness becomes unbearable sometimes to the point that I just must get up and go for a walk/do some exercise to clear my mind. How do you cope with this?
Just swallow that shit. There's no way to escape the loneliness if you have no social circle IRL. The pain will always be there in your chest, even if you manage to distract yourself for a while and forget about it, the pain will remain dormant right there waiting for the right moment to wake up and smite your soul as a reminder of your one and only purpose in this hell: Suffering.

View: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KpXsfimrkFo
 
Alcohol and cigarettes
 
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Lap pillow
 
I was thinking of getting a cat. Didn't Jewdan Peterson say it's good to pet a cat or something?
Pets are therapeutic, having my cat around makes me feel a lot less lonely than I really am.
 
I usually just beat off to cope ngl
 
I play videogames and jerk off, good copes tbh.
 
Usual copes and distractions. Movies, music, shitty games, masturbating too much.
 
Born alone die alone when your heart stops and the world begins to dim remember it's only you.
 
Born alone die alone when your heart stops and the world begins to dim remember it's only you.
Thx for the peptalk
Usual copes and distractions. Movies, music, shitty games, masturbating too much.
Movies are best cope, too bad there's no wayy ou can unsee a movie to experience it like the first time you watched it...

Pets are therapeutic, having my cat around makes me feel a lot less lonely than I really am.
I always liked cats, bonus that they're lower maintenance than a dog too
 
Vidya, music and jerking off
 
I have accepted I am going to be forever alone long time ago. By the way, I have no time to do anything else but work. Work takes me away a lot of time and there is no time left for me to attend gym, going for a walk or anything else. My job is the only possibile cope for me and luckily it leaves me no tipe to think about women.
 
What helps me is to stop blaming myself for my situation. I know I was simply born into a time in which average to ugly men are confined to loneliness, and thus to suffer from the feelings of loneliness is illogical as they are not self inflicted. It's a stoic way of viewing things. In the past with traditionalism I would have been completely fine and had a wife and kids. In the future, society will likely find some way to optimize itself to accommodate hypergamy and non chad men. We are simply in the intermissionary transition stage that is fueled by uncontrolled freedom caused by contraceptives and dating apps. Immersing oneself into philosophy really helps me.
 
By pumping escorts
 
How can i let go and move on?
My mental breakdowns have only increased in
occurence.
Im 32.. every time i look in the mirror.. some deformed hideous creature is looking back at me...
I have constant inner conflict over my timid, naive, empathic personality... i try to act differently, but its like wearing a mask and is taxing and unnatural.

This makes me rage at being cursed. Why me? What did i do to deserve this?

But then i remind myself that this rage relies upon the false assumption that we exist in a "just world", which is simply not true.
And after that all that's left is despair....
 
Lots of alcohol, books, and video games.
 
Music, gaming, gambling, excercise (very rarely)
 
Reading, watching war documentaries, posting here, video games, YT, programming, shitposting on 4chan, writing, and cooking.
 
Imaginary friends.
 
Sleeping and music is the best for me ngl
 
Born alone die alone when your heart stops and the world begins to dim remember it's only you.
True. But make it fun by dragging them all with you. The devils need a punishment
 
jewtube, hoi4, and anime like every other lonely autist.
 
By hating the foids who put me in this state.
 
studymaxx,sleepmaxx,readmaxx,watching youtubegameplaysmaxx, gamesmaxx
 
moneymaxxing and alcohol, the only two things that are still interesting to me
 
I play GTA and make some friends online, or I go on omegle and chat shit with people, or I watch youtubers who have chill vibes
 
Heavy exercise to the point of exhaustion and alcohol.
 
How'd you feel if most of them said no to you, no matter how much you offered?
I would rope I guess. Have you been consistently denied, even when offering more money?
 
I would rope I guess. Have you been consistently denied, even when offering more money?
Fuck. Time to die - I was rejected by escort.

About copes: music, psychiatrist meds making my head a sponge, posting with incels, hatred towards women and gymmaxxing
 
japanese cartoons, sleep
 
Kratom, video games, coffee, psych meds, cooming, eating, sleeping
 
My loneliness sometimes cripples me to the point I genuinely get stomach ache, must be the anxiety or something. It the worst feeling, we are truly social animals
 
i inject weed, asmr, and league of legends daily
 
The loneliness becomes unbearable sometimes to the point that I just must get up and go for a walk/do some exercise to clear my mind. How do you cope with this?

I was thinking of getting a cat. Didn't Jewdan Peterson say it's good to pet a cat or something?
Video games , obscure anime and manga, music (preferably metal and classical), and older or vintage movies.
 
My copes against it:
  • music (listen to film/marching music for hours a day)
  • hiking/sight seeing/animal watching/photography
  • talking to my parents/people on Discord
  • postmaxxing/studymaxxing
  • masturbating
  • escapism into fiction/phantasies
  • scrolling the Internet for fanart/pictures of animals/plants, lurking in groups/forums of that topic
  • watching TV
  • looking at stuff on Google maps and thinking how it would be there or looking at books I want to buy (both won't happen, I mostly extrapolate from the few things I know)
  • doing this until I fall asleep
 
Videogames, incels,co, youtube and 4chan.
 
My copes against it:
  • music (listen to film/marching music for hours a day)
  • hiking/sight seeing/animal watching/photography
  • talking to my parents/people on Discord
  • postmaxxing/studymaxxing
  • masturbating
  • escapism into fiction/phantasies
  • scrolling the Internet for fanart/pictures of animals/plants, lurking in groups/forums of that topic
  • watching TV
  • looking at stuff on Google maps and thinking how it would be there or looking at books I want to buy (both won't happen, I mostly extrapolate from the few things I know)
  • doing this until I fall asleep
Same here. But I mostly consume old media, not the new cuck feminist shit that comes out these days.
 
Same here. But I mostly consume old media, not the new cuck feminist shit that comes out these days.
Yes tbh. Also some stuff from my childhood which I liked back then. Modern stuff makes me sick.
 
Yes tbh. Also some stuff from my childhood which I liked back then. Modern stuff makes me sick.
Stay away from new video games especially. Modern-age gaming is filled with feminist and lefitst narratives and themes. Look at modern Blizzard or TLOU2 for example.
 
Videogames, eating, legos, Bionicles, and a shitloada masturbating
 
Stay away from new video games especially. Modern-age gaming is filled with feminist and lefitst narratives and themes. Look at modern Blizzard or TLOU2 for example.
Perfectly accurate with the description of the modern developments.

I don't play video games in general anymore, I am tired of it, all the fast clicking and running and only toxic/hyperaggressive simps online who worship females when they literally cannot even properly move/walk while males get flamed for the most minor mistakes. And no constructive thoughts anymore. Starting a new game is suicidefuel in general and something that I don't deem worth the trouble.

Everything sub-Pro gets flamed when it's male while even the most pathetic female specimen gets praised (video games became viable for normalfags and therefore everything there is organised like offline, everything below the absolute best in males gets flamed while everything female -no matter how low-gets praised, "average"/"mediocre" is used as an insult for men nowadays in every aspect of life, while the lowest female scum gets applauded for existing).

WoW isn't enjoyable anymore for me, only liked it as a child/teenager, WoD was quitted by me halfway through and the rest after a few weeks.

Am too lazy for them and enjoy passive entertainment nowadays. Being active in my spare time is something I would never consider, it's even a fight to go out although I sometimes enjoy hiking/walking still.
 
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I would rope I guess. Have you been consistently denied, even when offering more money?
Dude, I've traveled all the way to Thailand and gotten rejected. Thailand's the escort capital of the world... I stopped trying in North America. I used to have a fantasy of being with an ESCORT just once before I died. I knew it would pale next to having a real relationship, but it was something to hope for. I appreciate you being honest: "I would rope I guess."
 

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