I go to restaurants, coffee places, pool halls, mini golfing, nothing too expensive or crazy.
Thanks, I appreciate it. Pre internet was a terrible time for me. I managed to get a couple things to work but having to court and flirt with a girl or ask her out was such a huge pain in the ass. And if these people were in your social group it would be embarrassing to be rejected by every girl, it's fucked. At least online if they actually talk to you you know they are somewhat interested or open to the possibility of dating. Most foids will just ignore you if they don't like you. IRL you could waste so much time on a dumb foid who keeps chatting with you because of your good personality. So you don't know if she likes you at all. Fucking horrendous.