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Joelossus

Joelossus

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Personally i have very ambivalent feelings torwards all of this. On one hand being the consciousness of the most intelligent life form on this planet feels like a blessing. With all it's ups and downs, it's easy to get the impression that we are the pinnacle of existnece. We are capable of understanding and creating art. We are able to obvserve the greatness, but also all of the misery that our existence inflicts on other beings who are less fortunite.

You noticed, i just refered to the human expirience as the most fortunate one. But is it really? We learned that every form of pleasure requires to first expirience it's unpleasent counterpart. To feel pleasure it's required of us to first go through the long stretches of discontentment. The stuggles of not being able to fulfill our desires. I often wonder whether or not there is some alien life form out there who managed to overcome the bounderies of the cage that we find ourselfes in. Is there even a place for inherent pleasure to exist within this universe? As far as i can tell there is not.

Pleasure is a priviledge, while suffering is a requirement. As human beings we are able to observe this huge injustice. But we can't escape it. We always find ourselves wondering what kind of meaning our existence actually has. It's easy to imagine suffering without pleasure, but pleasure without suffering is nothing but an illision. The reason why we have this inherent drive to search for meaning is because we are incapale of accepting that all of our suffering will be futile.

Some existentialists will come with the argument that one needs to imagine sisyphos being happy. Being happy to forever push up a stupid rock up a cliff. But what if someone fails to see the beauty in this futile task? Is it a process that this person needs to learn? Will said person benefit form obtaining this kind of mindset? Or would he be better of, if he'd just kill himself?

To make something clear i'm not trying to mask this little rant as me trying to come of as superior to any normie who has been fortunate enough to never ask himself this question. But rather as a testament of how much i suck at being a human.
 
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Joelossus
 
"To live is to suffer, to survive is to find some meaning in the suffering" - F N
 
Thoughts are cope
 
This universe is hell and the human experience is not worth it unless you are a bluepilled chad that never goes through severe suffering or a leader that is fortunate enough to taste victory throughout most of his life and gets to die quickly and without pain like Attila.
 
This question has been bothering me for the last few weeks. Kind of wants to make me relapse into a depression. I just wish for a peaceful death.
I need to start reading again the works of Emil Cioran and others.
 
Why do even able to understand, that something is bad or good about our existense?
 
Why are we here, just to suffer?

Those are my thoughts. I ponder it often.
 
That's a very reasonable and interesting questioning I've also done before and often do so I can relate. Kinda agree with you on this dichotomy of life we have, sometimes it seems like a huge priviledge but also a source of misery which we can't escape but through death, which is also miserable in a way as we can't control it, we simply vanish without answers or reasons.

Existence seems like a prison without walls where we only have to choose either cope with this limitation or wether accept it and don't expect to find any meaning to it.

Some existentialists will come with the argument that one needs to imagine sisyphos being happy. Being happy to forever push up a stupid rock up a cliff. But what if someone fails to see the beauty in this futile suffering? Is it a process that this person needs to learn? Will said person benefit form obtaining this mindset? Or would he be better of, if he'd just kill himself?

To make something clear i'm not trying to mask this little rant as me trying to come of as superior to any normie who has been fortunate enough to never ask himself this question. But rather as a testament of how much i suck at being a human.

I don't know, maybe we can't at all. I feel like everything else people try to do in order to deal with this is somehow cope. I feel you on this last sentence as well, but I'd say that being human as a whole sucks, it's such a pity that we're so privileged yet so miserable at the same time.

Also sorry bro I kinda got you idea but my mind is a little bit dispersed by now so I can't really contribute to this discussion the way I wanted.
 
What make you think we even exist?
We just a bunch of invisible atoms and eventually become tiny invisible atoms again back into the ground.

Take the nonexistencepill.
 
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Your thinking's not that far off the bat, don't worry, you're not a "psychopath".

Also, as complicated as your thoughts may seem, the solution is definitely something as simple as getting a girlfriend and physical affection/attention. Your mind likes to overcomplicate itself to boost your ego, but it can never change what it really wants.
 
This universe is hell and the human experience is not worth it unless you are a bluepilled chad that never goes through severe suffering or a leader that is fortunate enough to taste victory throughout most of his life and gets to die quickly and without pain like Attila.
Tbh, i often find myself thinking similar thoughts.
This question has been bothering me for the last few weeks. Kind of wants to make me relapse into a depression. I just wish for a peaceful death.
I need to start reading again the works of Emil Cioran and others.
I'm not familiar with his writings tbh. Is he a fellow pessimist?
 
Why do even able to understand, that something is bad or good about our existense?
Idk
Why are we here, just to suffer?

Those are my thoughts. I ponder it often.
Probably. At least I struggle to find another expalanaion
That's a very reasonable and interesting questioning I've also done before and often do so I can relate. Kinda agree with you on this dichotomy of life we have, sometimes it seems like a huge priviledge but also a source of misery which we can't escape but through death, which is also miserable in a way as we can't control it, we simply vanish without answers or reasons.

Existence seems like a prison without walls where we only have to choose either cope with this limitation or wether accept it and don't expect to find any meaning to it.



I don't know, maybe we can't at all. I feel like everything else people try to do in order to deal with this is somehow cope. I feel you on this last sentence as well, but I'd say that being human as a whole sucks, it's such a pity that we're so privileged yet so miserable at the same time.

Also sorry bro I kinda got you idea but my mind is a little bit dispersed by now so I can't really contribute to this discussion the way I wanted.
Human existence is pretty much defied by cope, ngl. Every activity that we engage into is cope. People on this forum kinda act like coping is this inherent evil thing, one needs to free himself from. But realistically all we do is cope. And this includes normies, foids, and chad as well. Like you already said death seems to be the only thing that can liberate us from participating in this nightmare. But at the end of the day, being here is our whole identety. It is all we have. The question is just how we're gonna deal with it.
What make you think we even exist?
We just a bunch of invisible atoms and eventually become tiny invisible atoms again back into the ground.

Take the nonexistencepill.
That's unironically a good question. All of this might be just a dream. And once we wake up from it we will only remember facetes of something that once has been our identety.
Your thinking's not that far off the bat, don't worry, you're not a "psychopath".

Also, as complicated as your thoughts may seem, the solution is definitely something as simple as getting a girlfriend and physical affection/attention. Your mind likes to overcomplicate itself to boost your ego, but it can never change what it really wants.
As much as i hate to admit it, you're probably right. I wouldn't have spend so much time thinking about this if i had a gf.
Honestly? Much ado about nothing.
Pretty much this ngl
 
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watch true detective season 1 then read the philosophy behind the character cohle
 
We are extremely unlucky to have evolved to be sentient enough to hate our lives and realise we have problems
 

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