If a girl breaches one of these red flags, then she is unfit for marriage. Be ruthless, don't rationalize or become desperate. MGTOW is preferable to a shitty marriage.
alcohol / tobacco / drug addiction (or use, ever (excluding alcohol, light drinker preferred)
marijuana usage (ever)
binge shopping / debt / declining credit cards (ever)
talking to ex’s all the time / friend zoning lots of random guys to keep as orbiters
Tattoos / abnormal-piercings / short-hair (like a boy’s) /colored-neon-hair
being blatantly manipulative
high-doses of entitlement or grandiosity
high-doses of self entitlement
criminal record that isn’t minor crimes
narcissistic or bipolar disorder
STDs or terminal illnesses
trivial things enrage her / drama queen
brain incapacity to distinguish between intentional and unintentional actions
likes to go out all the time without you, not with friends but to get attention/validation from strangers
doesn’t care if you orgasm, only cares for her own
depressive, problem-creator, gas-lighter
impulsiveness
passive-aggressiveness or avoiding conflict to the point where they lie and hide things from you
neglectful / abusive parents
childhood abuse
seeing a psychiatrist
having only guys friends / having a lack of female friends
using powerful words in the wrong context (exaggerated) ‘molest’, ‘oppress’, ‘torture’, ‘rape’, ‘genocide’, ‘abuse’, ‘illegal’
doesn’t do you any sexual favors/desires except for the position she wants
inability to hold down a job or laziness
control freak / health freak / highly OCD (gets pissed that you left a glass somewhere or you didn’t clean something small and trivial)
highly emotional
she engages in gossip
she never views problems as her fault
her promises are flexible
her explanations don’t add up
she doesn’t show appreciation
she isn’t humble
she speaks ill of exes
she doesn’t know how to cook
nonreligious
she remembers offenses and uses it as ammunition
constantly bored and always wants something new
big difference between how she treats you in public vs in private
alpha widowed
rape claims in the past
at any point admits to destroying an ex's belongings
bad/nonexistent relationship with father
has ever taken part in an anti-Trump protest
lying to others, especially during phone calls
frequent clubbing, getting wasted
plastic surgery
makeup
cheating / non faithful in the past
single mom
divorcee
has ever used tinder / online dating
fucked her within the first few months (6 month grace period)
you haven't met her family after 2 months
any type of sex worker
slutty friends, high amount of male friends or surrounds herself with gay bffs
she was in a sorority
self described feminist
she gives an amazing blowjob like a pro
her mother is a whale
she physically strikes you in any manner that is not playful
high partner count
she’s ever had a one night stand, even if ‘it was just one drunken night in college'
victim mentality
black, or green nail polish
house/bedroom isn’t clean
her family have disowned her
her ex boyfriends are always hanging around
she came out of a long term abusive relationship with some asshole
giving ultimatums ‘if you loved me, you would <insert ultimatum>’. I respond with ‘if you loved me, you wouldn’t be giving me ultimatums. We’re done. Bye.’
She is mean to random people
She boasts that she can’t “get along” with other girls, or claims that other girls ‘hate’ her
She constantly talks shit about her best friends
She has no friends
She posts how she “hates guys”
feminism or extreme left-wing views
overly protective of her phone
you met her at work
she asks “how much do you make”
she takes pride in ‘being one of the guys’
traveled solo around the world after college
irresponsibility / avoiding duties
She is younger than 18 years old
She is older than 25 years old
She is older than you
She isn’t a virgin
She isn’t very beautiful
She must be feminine
The idea of being a traditional stay-at-home mother must appeal to her no matter how unrealistic
She must be highly religious, she must opt out of certain acts solely because God commanded her to
There are millions of girls in Europe who “believe in God” but do drugs, lie, cheat and have countless sexual partners.
Make sure she is authentic about wanting a family and to be a good wife and mother
I don’t see the point in getting married if you’re not going to pop two children out of her soon afterwards. Unless she just wants sex. No rush until she wants children.
Green Flags bonuses
Responsible. Financially, doing chores, alcohol responsible behavior
Empathetic
Stable intact family
Highly religious
Facebook pictures are of her and female friends and family
previous partner count of 1 or 2.
Educated, strong conservative family, has a career
Any type of volunteer work
Virgin, especially if she is waiting until marriage
When you first go over to her house she introduces you to all of her roommates
No canceled dates, if she can’t go then she lets you know ahead of time and gives a counter offer
home cooked food not takeout
too young to have ridden the CC
Hard-work ethics
Sports/gym routines
Goes out of her way to do you favors in the bedroom
Slightly moderate/conservative. Likes tradition and traditional male-female roles.
Generous
Self-discipline, controls her behaviors
Clingyness to you
Happy/positive/optimistic attitude
Doesn’t get easily mad or irritated
Can talk rationally like a mature adult without getting mad at anything
Accepts your ideas and is submissive to your suggestions and proposals
When you challenge her, she acknowledges your views and/or changes her mind about an issue frequently when challenged
Does things that are done because she is anxious or fearful that you might get angry/irritated with her. So her does it out of respect for you
Nuturing/kind behavior to others, even animals
Enjoys it when you make decisions for her
Hobbies, interests, reading non-fiction (indicates intelligence)
Cool hobbies: Ice skating, horse riding, knitting, sewing, cooking, decorating for christmas, playing with kids, painting, violin, piano, musical instruments, books, jane austin’s works, animals
