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Serious What are your issues other than looks?

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I know most of us are here due to looks, but what are your flaws other than looks? Mine are

social anxiety, being extremely introverted, lack of attention span and inability to have a sense of belonging to groups or communities.
 
autism
low iq
scaredy-cat
poor
no friend
no first kiss
virgin
 
Height and possible Aspergers. Also too high inhib and unable to relate to normies bc I have obscure interests
 
Borderline autism and shitty attention span or (((ADHD))). Maybe the two are related.
 
Asperger's, ptsd, and zero experience
 
Have severe problems (but also shitty looks):
  • Autism/ADHD (both diagnosed), I take no medication against these problems due to severe side effects
  • unironically a bad personality at that point (I am definetely not a good human being nowadays, I am spiteful, unempathetic, hateful, jealous, easily frustrated, verbally aggressive, prone to fits of extreme anger, moody, have problems with sounds in my proximity and aggressive/suicidal thoughts)
  • lacking friends/social circle (had only one friend but caught him trashtalking behind my back in the worst manner after nearly fifteen years of "friendship" a few weeks ago and afterwards never contacted him again)
  • being seen as creepy (my main interests are criminology, taxidermy, zoology, toxicology, botany and the history of Nazism/Fascism)
  • a defeatist attitude and unwilligness to take criticism at a personal level (professional criticism is however something I have little to no problems with)
  • a problem with speaking (either too slow/too quiet or far too loud/fast, when I know something I am overly enthusiastic to tell people about it, but when I don't know something I am basically completely silent, I am silent in groups of more than three people and hate being interrupted, I am also mentally very slow in a conversation)
  • not being presentable (the only thing I nowadays do except wagecucking is going for walks in the parks/mountains, listening to film music or spending time on forums for incels/animal keepers/etc.)
  • not being able to pursue goals for a longer time (I always want to read books/watch movies/buy something, but always procrastinate until I forget about it)
  • an off body language (I have ruined my back on the computer, I also have a coordination disorder that is easy to spot, because something about my movement is off)
  • daydreaming/power phantasies instead of working on realistic goals
  • a sexual deviance
  • everything of that is as unfixable as my looks (5'7 feet skinnyfat with severe acne scars and an inverted chin)
 
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My Joints (every single one clicks if I wanted them to and makes it hard to walk). My Jaw and Teeth (makes me slur my words due to my top teeth growing and shifting position but my bottom teeth not, have a huge overbite). OCD (always washing my hands after walking downstairs). Don't like socialising.
 
Money and life in general
 
money and high status job, spergy issues
 
Social anxiety for sure. I have a very hard time opening up and being friendly with people. Generally it takes a decently outgoing person to approach me often to get me to open up. And when I finally do it's generally just with one person. I have never been someone to be energetic with a group. 1 on 1 I can be fun it seems.

Introversion. I've been told I'm one of the most introverted people anyone can meet. So beyond the people that literally can't leave their house or even interact with a cashier, I'm the next level down. I can hold a job and all that, but whenever I'm given a chance to withdraw I do.

I feel like once I'm "on" I can't turn off my attempts to chat with people. It's generally jestermaxxing from a lifetime of obsessing over stand-up. I like to make jokes, but I can't change beyond that. So I tend to not be able to escalate into flirting or even talk about anything serious. It can be too much at times.

Obviously like many here my interest are always gonna align against what normies and foids don't deem acceptable. Yes nerd culture has gone mainstream, but only on the surface level.

I don't have "game". I'm not saying looks aren't the be all end all, but I just don't have that manly bravado that foids seek in their quest to be dominated.
 
mind is shit. low iq and other mental problems.
 
i mean i have some level of social anxiety and autism, but these are overrated over logistics.

say you hang out with some people once, with enough exposure that the anxiety subsides, guess what, you are likely to never end up hanging out again to "capitalize" on that normal interaction, even if you exchanged contact information though you probably didn't if turbo-aspie.
social fracturing ensures groups fall apart, and only those with looks or status are kept in the loop, meaning they always get invited to the new hangout and stay in touch, while the mediocre to submediocre are left behind going "duh? where'd everybody go?"

t. multiple times attempter at being normal and not autistic
 
Pretty much the same
 
poor ,bad health , not 6ft
 
My brain literaly doesnt work anymore. All I do is a neverending cycle of smoke, play GTA, listen to Alex Jones rant, eat my mums usually not very tantalising food, sleep terribly, repeat.
 
poverty, height, absolute sperg
 
Social anxiety. I fucking hate this shit. It's ruined my life. Even more so than me being a 5'3" ugly manlet.
I have no problems talking to people online or over the phone, but in person my mind decides to go to sleep. It makes my in person interactions awkward as fuck.
 
5ft9
not deep voice
poor
blonde red hair
little muscle
sensitive due to years of bullying and being shit on
 
Negative experiences.
 
- i don’t know how to communicate to people due to social isolation. i am irreverent and cold when i have to interact with others. Today, i was in a social situation so i turned my back to them and didn’t talk until they went away.

- no self control with junk food. i eat way too much sugar.
 
My voice is a total shit. I really suck with accents/pronunciations, and when I hear myself on recording I sound like a teenage kid even though I'm my late 20's. For that reason I never got into online gaming because I'm embarrassed to speak on mic. This also led to having extreme anxiety talking on the phone or to do any form of public speaking, it's so bad that I wish I was born mute so I could be legit "disabled" and have excuse not to ever talk.

And yeah, this problem with speech makes it difficult for me to interact in groups, so I'm fucked when it comes to social anxiety.

Now add the bad looks (including height), and you have a total package to be an incel. Lucky me. Thanks genetic lottery.
 
Schizoid personality disorder.
 
My voice is a total shit. I really suck with accents/pronunciations, and when I hear myself on recording I sound like a teenage kid even though I'm my late 20's. For that reason I never got into online gaming because I'm embarrassed to speak on mic. This also led to having extreme anxiety talking on the phone or to do any form of public speaking, it's so bad that I wish I was born mute so I could be legit "disabled" and have excuse not to ever talk.

And yeah, this problem with speech makes it difficult for me to interact in groups, so I'm fucked when it comes to social anxiety.

Now add the bad looks (including height), and you have a total package to be an incel. Lucky me. Thanks genetic lottery.
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Autism, peasant, introverted, social anxiety, lack of practice interacting with others, no friends, recessed chin, no jawline, porn ED-ish.
 
Whats that
A personality "disorder" where socializing doesn't interest you and the emotional expectations of normies kind of annoys you even though you have empathy. Pretty much the exact opposite of a normie, an introverted non-attention seeker who prefers a solitary life rather than chasing pleasure based on socializing. But it's taken to an extreme because you become a complete loner and life feels like it just passes you by.
 
A personality "disorder" where socializing doesn't interest you and the emotional expectations of normies kind of annoys you even though you have empathy. Pretty much the exact opposite of a normie, an introverted non-attention seeker who prefers a solitary life rather than chasing pleasure based on socializing. But it's taken to an extreme because you become a complete loner and life feels like it just passes you by.
You described the average poster here JFL
 
You described the average poster here JFL
For real, but the difference I think is that schizoids don't really hate themselves/their life but also don't find pleasure in anything either. Whereas the average poster on here still wants to change their condition. I have come to peace with myself but I still enjoy talking with people who have similar struggles.
 
I'm here because of my looks and nothing else, tbh.
 
TurboAutist
Low IQ especially performal IQ technical retard with nonverbal learning disorder
Dangerous footshooting low inhib lvl (not too far from ChrisChan lvls)
Erectile Dysfunction
Maniccel
Chronic depression
Perma transient psychosis
Schizoid pd
6 years hospitalized
Zero ability to relate to and with anyone
Bad vibes
All Interests are only in negative/dark subjects (bought 3 books on los zetas ; datura/deliriants ; occult but only the parts about hell and demons interest me ; counterinsurgency and assymetric warfare ; severe diseases and disorders; torture and cruelty etc).. too autistic to talk about normal subjects so foids start sitting in near fetal position nodding along out of fear but too sperg to pick up on social cues. Ive ended up showing the worst gore imaginable to normie foids because I couldnt understand that that was not socially accepted or pleasant. )
No ability to hold a conversation or comfort talk or banter (verbal shitposting in good faith)
Dont feel social shit or dynamics if Im in them
Narcissistic cunt (getting a bit better though )
My personality and character is very ugly even though I know its a meme here it doesnt help cause like dogs and cats barking at a sketchy guy foids are more sensitive vibes . They like badboys and felons ofc but not incel auti weird socially unadjusted vibes (Chads have the right vibes since birth no matter the circumstance).

Even though clinically insane Im still boring, uninteresting, unpleasant and unamusing. Unlike for instance the CIAs worst nightmare Terry A Davis.

Basically all that was wrong with St. AM is wrong with me to (wrong meaning why foids wont grant you access to her cunni and anni)

Screenshot 20210131 123822 Dropbox



View: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=5-Ur71ZnNVk
 
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TurboAutist
Low IQ especially performal IQ technical retard with nonverbal learning disorder
Dangerous footshooting low inhib lvl (not too far from ChrisChan lvls)
Erectile Dysfunction
Maniccel
Chronic depression
Perma transient psychosis
Schizoid pd
6 years hospitalized
Zero ability to relate to and with anyone
Bad vibes
All Interests are only in negative/dark subjects (bought 3 books on los zetas ; datura/deliriants ; occult but only the parts about hell and demons interest me ; counterinsurgency and assymetric warfare ; severe diseases and disorders; torture and cruelty etc).. too autistic to talk about normal subjects so foids start sitting in near fetal position nodding along out of fear but too sperg to pick up on social cues. Ive ended up showing the worst gore imaginable to normie foids because I couldnt understand that that was not socially accepted or pleasant. )
No ability to hold a conversation or comfort talk or banter (verbal shitposting in good faith)
Dont feel social shit or dynamics if Im in them
Narcissistic cunt (getting a bit better though )
My personality and character is very ugly even though I know its a meme here it doesnt help cause like dogs and cats barking at a sketchy guy foids are more sensitive vibes . They like badboys and felons ofc but not incel auti weird socially unadjusted vibes (Chads have the right vibes since birth no matter the circumstance).

Even though clinically insane Im still boring, uninteresting, unpleasant and unamusing. Unlike for instance the CIAs worst nightmare Terry A Davis.

Basically all that was wrong with St. AM is wrong with me to (wrong meaning why foids wont grant you access to her cunni and anni)

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View: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=5-Ur71ZnNVk

That is quite introspective ngl.
 
Awkward as fuck and not knowing how to touch women (including escorts)
 
Theres no such thing tbh. Did you have to formally learn how to walk or talk?
When you are a child and begin walk and talk everyday you obviously learn and improve.
Same thing with being around and touching women.
 
When you are a child and begin walk and talk everyday you obviously learn and improve.
Same thing with being around and touching women.
Touching escorts, you can only learn that by actually going to escorts.
 

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