What are the thing in your life that if you did, your life would improve greatly?

[Deleted member 7448]

I've been spending 100% of my free time on my PC since I was like 10 years old.

I don't even enjoy what I do on the computer any more. I've played so many video games, watched so many movies and tv shows that I don't find any joy in them any more. I just go through the motions, play games I hate more than enjoy while watching a dumb sitcom with 11 seasons for the 13th time.

I feel captive, I feel rooted and unable to escape this hell. I don't enjoy what I'm doing, but nothing else is as good. It's definitely some sort of mental disorder, since I have no energy or motivation to do anything else.

If I could stop wasting my time on video games/tv shows/browsing stupid shit on the internet, my life would definitely be better. But I do not know what else to do, and I have 0 energy and motivation.

 

[Gigacel]

Mine is more or less the same. Wish I spent more time outside despite it being alone. My eyes also wouldn’t be so bad as well

 

[Henry de Montherlant]

Have a 634th shower today.

More seriously, we generally play video games because we hate our life as it is. Video games is just a symptom, not the reason our life is shit. Back in time, people were alienating themselves in books, in movies, etc. The thing is they did it for the simple reason that they wanted to escape from their shitty existence, it was not the reason of their shitty existence.

If I could, I would have been born as a Giga Chad super wealthy piece of shit in the first world (from the happy few 0.000000001% of the world population). It's the only way our lives can serioulsy improve tbh.

 

[Jockcel]

nothing I can do will improve my life

 

[Figthcel]

1 million dollars.

The I would buy a plot of land somewhere and just live there alone.

I need to do something to get that money.

 

[Deleted member 7448]

1 million dollars.

The I would buy a plot of land somewhere and just live there alone.

I need to do something to get that money.

I was going to say that's not realistic. But then again, me not wasting my life away is just as impossible.

 

[TheRealChincel]

I was going to say that's not realistic. But then again, me not wasting my life away is just as impossible.

With all the stuff to watch and games to play, there's always something interesting around the corner. Yeah, it's better to hang with people but I see teens getting out of school and they walk together...looking at their phones. The parks barely have anyone in them, teen clubs are dying, stores are losing money since it's school to home. Adults are leaving work, driving in their cars looking at their phones, no more going to bars, it's a work, home, work existence now.

 

[Figthcel]

I was going to say that's not realistic. But then again, me not wasting my life away is just as impossible.

I was going to say that's not realistic. But then again, me not wasting my life away is just as impossible.

I was in your situation.

Playing online games, watching old tv shows and eating out at the same time.

But I had to start making money. So I started working and also excercising to get better. I had to do it.

I still used to play games and watch shows as pasttime. But slowly Iam giving that up.

It will get you nowhere. If you make money you can control your life - you will still have no women though. And you need excercise to be healthy.

I wanted to achieve things, now I want to escape the society and doing it with money is preferable than going homeless.

In a couple of years it is realistic to save enough money to afford a live in the countryside somewhere. It would be better with a lot of money though.

 

[Deleted member 7448]

I was in your situation.

Playing online games, watching old tv shows and eating out at the same time.

But I had to start making money. So I started working and also excercising to get better. I had to do it.

I still used to play games and watch shows as pasttime. But slowly Iam giving that up.

It will get you nowhere. If you make money you can control your life - you will still have no women though. And you need excercise to be healthy.

I wanted to achieve things, now I want to escape the society and doing it with money is preferable than going homeless.

In a couple of years it is realistic to save enough money to afford a live in the countryside somewhere. It would be better with a lot of money though.

That's what I want to do too, Unfortunately, in my shit country people only make an average of 200$ a month, so saving up is out of the question.

 

[diogenes]

I was in your situation.

Playing online games, watching old tv shows and eating out at the same time.

But I had to start making money. So I started working and also excercising to get better. I had to do it.

I still used to play games and watch shows as pasttime. But slowly Iam giving that up.

It will get you nowhere. If you make money you can control your life - you will still have no women though. And you need excercise to be healthy.

I wanted to achieve things, now I want to escape the society and doing it with money is preferable than going homeless.

In a couple of years it is realistic to save enough money to afford a live in the countryside somewhere. It would be better with a lot of money though.

How do you make money? I'm just hoping to make it through normie central (college) to finally be able to get a decent job.

That's what I want to do too, Unfortunately, in my shit country people only make an average of 200$ a month, so saving up is out of the question.

Where are you from?

 

[uglylifematters]

looksmax and try to develop my body more when i was younger. I feel like i would have looked better if i had done those things.

maybe im coping

 

[maynarde]

I've been spending 100% of my free time on my PC since I was like 10 years old.

I don't even enjoy what I do on the computer any more. I've played so many video games, watched so many movies and tv shows that I don't find any joy in them any more. I just go through the motions, play games I hate more than enjoy while watching a dumb sitcom with 11 seasons for the 13th time.

I feel captive, I feel rooted and unable to escape this hell. I don't enjoy what I'm doing, but nothing else is as good. It's definitely some sort of mental disorder, since I have no energy or motivation to do anything else.

If I could stop wasting my time on video games/tv shows/browsing stupid shit on the internet, my life would definitely be better. But I do not know what else to do, and I have 0 energy and motivation.

Geez

Get outside

Adventure sport

Climbing club

Anything

 

[Russocel]

All incels lives would improve if were each given an individual reparation payment

10 million USD for pain and suffering

1 million USD for all surgeries which will be required

 

[ICanOnlyFapToBDSM]

busting balls deep in a 16 year old tranny

 

[Figthcel]

That's what I want to do too, Unfortunately, in my shit country people only make an average of 200$ a month, so saving up is out of the question.

On the other hand everything must be cheaper in your country. The price of a wooden house and a piece of land, or a piece of land only lol and live inside a car and build a wooden house yourself. Grow some stuff outside the house and do some shopping once a week if you have any money.

Preferably to have your own wood.

How do you make money? I'm just hoping to make it through normie central (college) to finally be able to get a decent job.

Well I did what you are doing. I have a degree and a job. Plus doing extra work online using my expertise. I can afford a mortgage and stuff. But I am not happy living in a city and having a job with normies so I am considering alternatives.

Finish the studies and if you think money can make your life better, take advantage of opportunities, focus on making money and always save some.

Normies waste a lot of money on dinners and vacations. I dont - neither of those makes me happy. And it is a short term cope anyway.

 

[Deleted member 7448]

Geez

Get outside

Adventure sport

Climbing club

Anything

Sounds kinda pointless, that's why I don't do anything outside. Those things just are so boring to me.

 

[diogenes]

Well I did what you are doing. I have a degree and a job. Plus doing extra work online using my expertise. I can afford a mortgage and stuff. But I am not happy living in a city and having a job with normies so I am considering alternatives.

I also consider the countryside after I make enough money to be able to afford property, tools, animals, and so on. Although I don't know where would a good place to settle be.

 

[Figthcel]

I also consider the countryside after I make enough money to be able to afford property, tools, animals, and so on. Although I don't know where would a good place to settle be.

Me neither yet.

And it is actually the most important question. Because if were serious about it, we should spend the rest of our lives there.

The worst thing would be wasting your money and resources on property where you will not be happy in a while.

Also I dont know how much self reliant I want to be yet. To be within a driving distance of a city? To do shopping ? Or live even without money ? Without electricity?

If you have wood you can be without electricity. Maybe some solar power to charge some stuff. But if you have no money, eventually everything will break.

The logical step would be to actually try it out, to move to such a place for a couple of weeks and see how are you doing. Try it a couple of times.

I should probably do some serious hiking to see how I am doing in nature first. And maybe visit those places where I could potentially live.

Also for me, as Iam over 30, I should do it before I start losing strength. So I think I have like 5 years. That is a reasonable amount of time to get ready, to settle things and make sure I really want to do this.

But I can imagine doing it all within 1 year.

 

[blackcel]

Stop being a lazy fuck and exercise one hour a day.

Problem is that I just gave up a while ago and have no motivation to even spend an hour on self improvement.

 

[diogenes]

Me neither yet.

And it is actually the most important question. Because if were serious about it, we should spend the rest of our lives there.

The worst thing would be wasting your money and resources on property where you will not be happy in a while.

Also I dont know how much self reliant I want to be yet. To be within a driving distance of a city? To do shopping ? Or live even without money ? Without electricity?

If you have wood you can be without electricity. Maybe some solar power to charge some stuff. But if you have no money, eventually everything will break.

The logical step would be to actually try it out, to move to such a place for a couple of weeks and see how are you doing. Try it a couple of times.

I should probably do some serious hiking to see how I am doing in nature first. And maybe visit those places where I could potentially live.

Also for me, as Iam over 30, I should do it before I start losing strength. So I think I have like 5 years. That is a reasonable amount of time to get ready, to settle things and make sure I really want to do this.

But I can imagine doing it all within 1 year.

30 is young my friend. What matters is being fit. You can work manual stuff up to 80-years-old if you are fit enough although at 80 you need to start reducing the hard manual labor for easier tasks.

 

[squirrelsonfire2]

Stay in school and not smoking

 

[Limerencel]

Overcome my fear of femoids

 

[EyesAreSoCold]

Nothing right now, maybe try to approach and be around people more to get rid of my social anxiety. But if I could go back in time I would eat more food in my teens so I wouldn't become so short.

 

[TheNEET]

nothing
it was hopeless since the day 1

 

[赤い太陽]

Hello there. This is the exact problem I had when I first joined this forum. I too had zero motivation, and no idea what to do with my life.

I decided recently to learn an instrument, which I've put on the back burner for now. Right now, I want to learn Human Nature (i.e. Evolutionary Psychology, Sociobiology, etc). It's a tedious read, but it's something I'm passionate about.

I play chess twice a week with a friend, but I lose every time.

I think the problem you're facing is that the dopamine rush that playing video games brings is gone, and so the only other option is to up the ante, in order to "feel something". I'm an addict myself, and addictive behaviors cause you to lose the drive for life, because your brain's pleasure center is overworked due to artificial means.

Case in point, the human brain isn't wired for that much pleasure. We're still running on "caveman hardware"; hunting for food or getting a harvest during harvest season is how we used to get pleasure. Now, in our modern society, satisfaction is instant.

The brain needs time to rewire. After being away from the artificial stimuli, your brain can do a hard reset and go back to normal, but it takes months.

Some symptoms from over stimulation depends on the addiction. Hypofrontality, which diminishes willpower, is a common trait among gambling and porn addicts. People on harder drugs may experience withdrawal symptoms, but I don't think you have to worry about that.

Novelty seeking behavior is a big risk to avoid. The brain will immediately try to find some type of replacement that has the same over stimulation effect.

Once you rewire, you may be able to feel motivation.

Sources:

https://www.sciencedirect.com/topics/medicine-and-dentistry/hypofrontality

https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/0166432895002030


https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/320637.php

 

[Anger]

Nothing, i'm hopeless at this point i was cursed to die as a virgin.

 

[PeruvianGuy]

Browsing this site on a daily basis

Good thing that I gymcel, eat healthy, study/practice music on my own.
It's just not parte of my personality to LDAR

 

[VisVoi]

Being born with different parents.

 

[rabitter]

Moving to another country. I'd still be an incel but I really want to move to Canada for the nature.

 

[赤い太陽]

Browsing this site on a daily basis

Good thing that I gymcel, eat healthy, study/practice music on my own.
It's just not parte of my personality to LDAR

Agreed. 100%.

 

[Intellau_Celistic]

Obtaining an A.S would do wonders for my current mental state.