what am I supposed to say when I approach?

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Coach 1 says: "Hello. How are you?"

Coach 2 says that's beta and I should go with - "Hello. You are attractive. My name is Mike"

Coach 3 says - that's what a white knight would say and I should neg her by saying - "My grandmother has the same shoes."

Coach 4 says - I shouldn't say anything

what should I say ?

 

[Mahlo]

You are committing the classical male fallacy of misappropriation of casual efficacy. Or in other terms, you believe your words have effect on the outcome of an interaction when it's actually only your FACE

 

[NegroKing]

No one can agree on this. It's such a pain in the ass.

 

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You are committing the classical male fallacy of misappropriation of casual efficacy. Or in other terms, you believe your words have effect on the outcome of an interaction when it's actually only your FACE

casual efficiency = dope af term tbh

 

[SubhumanTrash]

ts how you look

 

[Deleted member 3291]

Weather nic

 

[theoldnick]

Coach 1 says: "Hello. How are you?"

Coach 2 says that's beta and I should go with - "Hello. You are attractive. My name is Mike"

Coach 3 says - that's what a white knight would say and I should neg her by saying - "My grandmother has the same shoes."

Coach 4 says - I shouldn't say anything

what should I say ?

I will share mine:

"hello,
i was walking there and i saw you,
i just thought you were cute so I would say hi"

 

[VincentVanCope]

You should sit outside a coffee shop with your triple vanilla latte and wait for them to approach you.

 

[Deleted member 60]

cold approaches are rarely appropriate. But it depends on context/setting.

 

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I will share mine:

"hello,
i was walking there and i saw you,
i just thought you were cute so I would say hi"

and she just looks at her phone and walks away

 

[uninstall]

cold approaches are rarely appropriate. But it depends on context/setting.

true

it's brutal

 

[VincentVanCope]

Doesn't matter what you say, JUST HAVE CUHNFIDENCE BRO.

 

[Gone Coping]

be over 6ft and good looking, otherwise don't cold approach unless you want suicide fuel

 

[Deleted member 60]

true

it's brutal

IMO, you need to find an excuse to talk to her without making your intentions obvious. It sounds beta, but you might try asking a question that fits the setting. From there she will either make an effort to keep the conversation going or not.

 

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IMO, you need to find an excuse to talk to her without making your intentions obvious. It sounds beta, but you might try asking a question that fits the setting. From there she will either make an effort to keep the conversation going or not.

once a girl was sitting on a bench and writing something

i asked what are u writing

she said some bullshit with half open mouth took her bag and left

 

[Allday]

You should sit outside a coffee shop with your triple vanilla latte and wait for them to approach you.

 

[Allday]

once a girl was sitting on a bench and writing something

i asked what are u writing

she said some bullshit with half open mouth took her bag and left

Tell me this isn’t true. Holy shit.

 

[_incelinside]

DBA theory
(Don't Be Autistic)

 

[uninstall]

Tell me this isn’t true. Holy shit.

it is

it happened in the mall

i asked her what are u writing she said some marketing bullshit

I sat next to her and 1 minute later she took her shit and left to the bathroom or somewhere

 

[The End]

You are committing the classical male fallacy of misappropriation of casual efficacy. Or in other terms, you believe your words have effect on the outcome of an interaction when it's actually only your FACE

I believe this!

One time I came up to a girl and said, "Hi!" Then she looked at me in disgust with her friend aping her expression. I waited for something to pop into my mind to say, since I was sure I'd think of something after the initial introduction. But... nothing came. So after about 10 seconds of staring at each other I said, "Well, bye!" And we never met again. haha

 

[Sadist]

let me bust them cheeks

 

[Shower_Taker]

Most of those lines sound terrible, but it won’t make much of a difference. First impressions are all about looks and how well you fit in, not about an overthought way of saying hello.

 

[VST]

You don't approach.

 

[Reddit_is_for_cucks]

Coach 4 might be onto something

 

[FeminismsCancer]

Chad: ching chong chang, wanna bang?
Non-chad: hi
Incel: *girl already walking away*

 

[GeneticDysfunction]

Fucking retard its all about the face, but chad doesnt have to approach.

 

[patheticmanletcel]

It doesnt make any difference

 

[catfishman23]

well i dont condone approaching or pua.
Its better to start off by saying,
How are you doing. SO how is your day going.
If you are in a supermarket and see a girl you like you can say
Hi how is it going, what is your name btw.
if she answers
then talk about the shit she is buying or what is she doing around there shopping
then next you can go into a variety of things like talk about your favorite food you love and talk about other things to say..
the possibility's are pretty endless. If you know how to socialize right and not be aspie or nervous.

 

[Profligate]

Nice tits.



It doesn't matter what you say if she gives you signs that she's interested.

 

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Nice tits.



It doesn't matter what you say if she gives you signs that she's interested.

no sign for me

 

[Profligate]

no sign for me

then you're just wasting your time

 

[Robtical]

Grab her ass and look her in the eye without saying anything. She'll nut in her pants from the pure display of alphaness.

 

[Enigmatic93]

You don't approach.

 

[blackcel]

it never fucking matters what you say. Women decide they like you before you even open your mouth.