What am I doing with my life?

[Uglychad]

I realized 3.5 years ago that if I wanted to make any major difference to my looks i need 2 things:
1. Rhino
2. Double jaw surgery

It took me over a year to get a rhino planned, then it was botched. So now I'm worse than when I started. I will get a revision.

I literally think every single day about getting bimax, I consulted 5+ surgeons in several countries, the entire process is ready to happen, but I cant bring myself to do it. I worry so much about the potential risks, nerve paralysis, numbness, looking worse post-op, etc, not to mention just the sheer brutality of the surgery itself, so I am just stagnating as I have done for years now. 

Every time I go to book the surgery, I imagine myself lying on the bed in the waiting room, ready to be taken into the O.R. - I get overcome with dread and fear and then cancel it and stagnate more. 

Because with jaw surgery its a once in a lifetime decision, it will affect how people look at you for the rest of your life, and if it goes wrong you may never recover. Its the biggest decision of my life. 

Any bimaxcels here? Anyone relate??

 

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why was ur rhino botched? did u go to some third world country?

 

[Uglychad]

why was ur rhino botched? did u go to some third world country?

No. EU. 

Surgeon was a sociopath. Even with great credentials he botched me. You can't trust any of them.

 

[PM_ME_STRIPPERS]

No. EU. 

Surgeon was a sociopath. Even with great credentials he botched me. You can't trust any of them.

did u look at his reviews and shit? do u feel like u rushed into it too much and didnt research him enough or like u said was he just a sociopathic piece of shit?

 

[Uglychad]

did u look at his reviews and shit? do u feel like u rushed into it too much and didnt research him enough or like u said was he just a sociopathic piece of shit?

He had a great reputation, truly. Very well known, speaks at conferences all over the world. Many of them do and still have terrible results.
Surgery is extremely hit and miss. More than most people here understand.

 

[PM_ME_STRIPPERS]

He had a great reputation, truly. Very well known, speaks at conferences all over the world. Many of them do and still have terrible results.
Surgery is extremely hit and miss. More than most people here understand.

yeah ur right with the hit and miss thing, theres always risks and i dont think some incels here really sit down and think about it. heck even i can say i dont think about the risks much, but its just because i really want plastic surgery done some time in the next few years to improve my shitty life.

At least the plastic surgeon ive looked at/ also talked to once has really really good reviews and a shitload of great before and after pics.

 

[Uglychad]

yeah ur right with the hit and miss thing, theres always risks and i dont think some incels here really sit down and think about it. heck even i can say i dont think about the risks much, but its just because i really want plastic surgery done some time in the next few years to improve my shitty life.

At least the plastic surgeon ive looked at/ also talked to once has really really good reviews and a shitload of great before and after pics.

That's good. The thing with many surgeons who are 'old school' (like mine) is that you wont find many results or feedback about them online. This is very disconcerting and I would advise incels to avoid these guys. 

I'm not saying some of them don't have good results, but if you get botched you will never forgive yourself, so best to go with someone who has his work 'on display' as much as possible. Also ask them many questions in consultation and find out how often they do the surgery. Also avoid the really old guys - they use older techniques.

Go with the person who is the most transparent - who shows you everything and doesn't hide anything. If a surgeon shows you OLD results in a consult (where the pics look 10+ years old) do NOT trust them.