Serious Westerncels GTFIH

[Cuyen]

I see so many of westerncels are complaining about not having friends and it make me think it's hard to do in the west. is that really hard or you guys just exaggerating? to make friends here,you just need to be exist tbh. youll be friends with people even if you dont want so I wonder how is that in the west

please tell your country first then say if its hard or not

 

[Giegue]

its pretty much impossible to get friends here

 

[Cuyen]

its pretty much impossible to get friends here

which country

 

[Napoleon de Nascar]

Is hard after 30

 

[Darth Cialis]

Maybe you are just NT, I'd like to hear what other Turkcels have to say about it but perhaps you live in different areas.

 

[Deleted member 8206]

U cant get friends if ur sub 7 and autist

 

[Cuyen]

Maybe you are just NT, I'd like to hear what other Turkcels have to say about it but perhaps you live in different areas.

maybe I am. but I know people who are hideously ugly and still have friends,chatting with people
@Blacktarpill he is turkcel too and living in the different region. he has friends as well

 

[lurker45]

From the US, 24 years old, friends sort of easy to make in high school, but absolutely nobody wanted to be my friend in college, even other incel looking guys weren't interested in me. I still have online contact with one of my friends from high school, but it's reasonable to think I'll never make a new friend again.

 

[Deleted member 16809]

UK, impossible after (or even in if you are ugly) high school

 

[thelonewanderer]

The West is very superficial, even the men are. If you're ugly people will assume the worst things about you and try to avoid you as much as possible

 

[Deleted member 16809]

not only is the dating market becoming harder, but also a friend market, in order to make new friends with ease irl you need to be genuinely exceptional (in looks or other things for that matter)

 

[Mainländer]

Is hard after 30

True.

 

[Deleted member 8353]

I don't know how much of the problem is societal, and how much is due to my own issues, but in my experience it's almost impossible to make friends.

 

[Deleted member 8206]

I don't know how much of the problem is societal, and how much is due to my own issues, but in my experience it's almost impossible to make friends.

what have you tried to make friends irl?

 

[GetFucked]

Its incredibly difficult, as you get older your cucked normie friends will desperately wife up single mother landwhales. They can't even see that they're just being used as financial resources. You'll never see them because their gfs don't want them thinking freedom is an option. Even when they do crazy shit like purposely crashing your friends car in a parking lot, god help you if you ever criticize her

 

[Darth Cialis]

maybe I am. but I know people who are hideously ugly and still have friends,chatting with people
@Blacktarpill he is turkcel too and living in the different region. he has friends as well

Ugly people can be NT. Last real friends I had I think it was when I was 16 or something so I don't know.

 

[Deleted member 12355]

Sweden. Difficult, but only because I'm ugly. I doubt my so called aspergers have anything to do with it

 

[Cuyen]

Ugly people can be NT. Last real friends I had I think it was when I was 16 or something so I don't know.

he wasnt NT,I mean he was kinda autisic and shy. never started conversations. but still have many friends he hang out with.collectivism is so strong here specially some parts of country such like east,south,central and the north
I been to some other countries as well (not western countries) and people were more collectivist rather than induvalistic like in the west.

Like,I will not believe if a curry who live in curryland tell me its hard to make friends there,i'd call it bullshit

Ugly people can be NT. Last real friends I had I think it was when I was 16 or something so I don't know.

 

[Deleted member 16455]

Its difficult after college. But even now it’s difficult for me. It’s hard to make friends in general because I’m ugly and may have social anxiety. And it’s near impossible to have a friend that’s a foid

 

[Michael15651]

Its incredibly difficult, as you get older your cucked normie friends will desperately wife up single mother landwhales. They can't even see that they're just being used as financial resources. You'll never see them because their gfs don't want them thinking freedom is an option. Even when they do crazy shit like purposely crashing your friends car in a parking lot, god help you if you ever criticize her

Yeah, there's just no valid reason why.

 

[GetFucked]

Yeah, there's just no valid reason why.

pussy pheromones must be crazy bro. They drop your IQ by a good 30 points. My best friend straight up got smacked in the face by his gf at a party. Dude just laughed it off like a bitch

 

[Deleted member 10124]

UK, impossible after (or even in if you are ugly) high school

Past the age of 30 its nigh impossible. Secondly if you're not good looking than you can go & whistle dixey for all they care.

 

[Deleted member 17724]

If you're not a normalfag who keeps up with retarded trends and goes to parties every weekend, it's near impossible to make friends. It's only easy when you're in school since every class has a few introverted people who tend to group together. But once you become an adult, it's over.
As far as I know, even most of my adult family members don't have real friends. And I see lots of other men around me living a similarly isolated lifestyle. Honestly, only Chad and foids have friends in the west, if you're a <8/10 male then you'll spend every day alone here. I think part of the reason why married men in the west are so cucked is because they don't have anyone else to talk to aside from their wife.

 

[Cuyen]

If you're not a normalfag who keeps up with retarded trends and goes to parties every weekend, it's near impossible to make friends. It's only easy when you're in school since every class has a few introverted people who tend to group together. But once you become an adult, it's over.
As far as I know, even most of my adult family members don't have real friends. And I see lots of other men around me living a similarly isolated lifestyle. Honestly, only Chad and foids have friends in the west, if you're a <8/10 male then you'll spend every day alone here. I think part of the reason why married men in the west are so cucked is because they don't have anyone else to talk to aside from their wife.

which country you live in ?

 

[Dionysus]

Cuckanada. pretty much impossible to make friends here

 

[Deleted member 8353]

what have you tried to make friends irl?

Not recently no, I don't even know how to tbh.

 

[Sans]

Does this mean Western civilization or just the western United States?

 

[NotQuiteChadLite]

You live in Turkey which is basically the west of the Arab world. Still better than the actual west though.

 

[Cuyen]

the west of the Arab world.

low iq tbh

Does this mean Western civilization or just the western United States?

North america(canada and US),europe,australasia(Australia, New Zealand, and some neighbouring islands)

 

[ihaveno1]

is that really hard or you guys just exaggerating?

no not exaggerating at all, the west is so fucked up everyone is so judgmental and cruel and foids are so fat and beyond hypergamous as well, never come to the west

 

[Cuyen]

no not exaggerating at all, the west is so fucked up everyone is so judgmental and cruel and foids are so fat and beyond hypergamous as well, never come to the west

it sounds like hell ngl.at least here you can cope with friends etc. where you from btw

 

[ihaveno1]

where you from btw

burgerland, its pure hell

 

[Bangkok or bust]

Try being age 41 like me. "Hey bro wanna go to some bars with me and pic up chicks"

Normie: erm, no.... i did all that 20 years ago. I'm happily married and have two daughters. Family is priority.

 

[Cuyen]

burgerland, its pure hell

I assume some parts of burgerland is good though

 

[Angry_runt]

I grew up in Belgrade, but I also lived in London, NYC and Prague. Everywhere's the same.
Even when I somehow built a social circle, I was always being treated like shit by my "friends". When I got gymmaxxed and martialartsmaxxed I suddenly couldn't make any friends. This was in my early 20s so maybe it's just a coincident with not being in school any longer.

 

[ihaveno1]

I assume some parts of burgerland is good though

the people there suck, i live in a complete shit hypergamous area of the country

 

[Angry_runt]

Normie: erm, no.... i did all that 20 years ago. I'm happily married and have two daughters. Family is priority.

Tbh married guys aren't usually that happy and devoted to family life. A lot of them will stray if given the opportunity because marriage sucks balls for men apparently.

 

[ManletHalfCurry]

Everything is extremely superficial in the west. Making friends can be extremely difficult, here is just some of the challenges you will face.

People would not want to be seen with an ugly ethnic manlet like myself in public, or even risk the chance of people finding out they associate with me at all.

If you don't have the latest clothes or shoes, you will be looked down upon as poor and treated like shit (This one I experienced so many times when I was younger).

Don't play normie video games or watch normie tv shows? You will be unable to relate to anyone.

Don't like monotonous boring small talk like "Nice weather" or "Did you watch the sports game last night?" you are a creep weirdo who won't talk to anyone.

A lot of people here, only make "friends" for personal gain (To improve their image, business or job opportunities etc), therefore if you are a low value male you have nothing to offer them at all.

Another big one is how judgemental everyone is, if you make even slightest mistake in speaking or when performing a task cruel normies will point it out and ridicule you for it, they will also point out or talk about your appearance behind your back, all of them are extremely two faced.

This place is hell.

 

[IsolationHurts]

I'm Spanish and it's supposed to be easy in here... But it's not. If you're ugly and shy, it's fucking hell.

 

[GetFucked]

I grew up in Belgrade, but I also lived in London, NYC and Prague. Everywhere's the same.
Even when I somehow built a social circle, I was always being treated like shit by my "friends". When I got gymmaxxed and martialartsmaxxed I suddenly couldn't make any friends. This was in my early 20s so maybe it's just a coincident with not being in school any longer.

you found it harder after you gymmaxxed? you have any idea why?

 

[Vermilioncore]

You can't have friends if you're a weirdo who has been locked in his bedroom like an ogre since birth. Friends are hard to keep also, I'm guessing. You have to put in a lot of effort. It's like having a gf but without romance, sex, and affection. Also, I never really wanted friends anyway. All I want is a girlfriend tbh

 

[Angry_runt]

you found it harder after you gymmaxxed? you have any idea why?

I think it's probably because I was out of school and it's harder to make friends if you don't hang around people your age. The gymmaxxing just happened to be at the same time.

 

[FrothySolutions]

Where do you live? How is it so easy to make friends? Where do you meet these friends?

 

[GetFucked]

I think it's probably because I was out of school and it's harder to make friends if you don't hang around people your age. The gymmaxxing just happened to be at the same time.

True, if you're friendless after school its fucking over

 

[ManletHalfCurry]

if you're friendless after school its fucking over

 

[Reddit_is_for_cucks]

Most guys don’t wana be friends with a guy who doesn’t have any female friends. And same with girls.

Amount of friends you make is directly correlated with your past relationship experience

 

[Vorbei]

In the West it becomes a lot harder to make friends once you leave education. People are generally too busy with work and relationships but the real killer is that socialising is done mostly as couples past a certain point. If you don't have a social circle past your mid 20s, you have to settle for workplace friendships or do some lame shit like attending a language class and hope for the best.

 

[Cuyen]

Where do you live? How is it so easy to make friends? Where do you meet these friends?

Turkey. its enough if youre student. like at the first day of the school people greets each other ask where you from,your name etc. you hundred percent end up as being friends with the first guy you saw. its easier if youre from the same neighborhood or city. It's actually easy to make friends and make enemies. all up to you.MEN are not that lookist to each other just dont act like a pussy.

Or if you want to make friends,just go and say hi,join them if they playing football or just simply sitting on a bench

Like i said,it seems like lookism in friendships are only strong in the west. because rest of the world is not like that.

 

[Jog Mansen]

UK everyone is fucking degenerate trash and dont even think of discussing politics they are all tranny loving freaks

 

[acnescarcel]

depends on your age. i still have a couple of friends i see on a regular basis from high school so I'm lucky