The origins of beta orbiters can be traced to the European middle ages. During the crusades, the warrior men left their homes to fight in the Crusades while the women and beta men stayed at home.
Some of these beta males became the medieval troubadour and minnesänger poets and started courting the ladies who were left alone at home. They were beta orbiters who didn't go to fight in the Crusades because they were weak men. So they started courting women. They didn't have sex with them but instead just praised them.
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This is what gave birth to courtly love which would would eventually degenerate into modern dating.
Courtly love found its expression in the lyric poems written by troubadours, such as William IX, Duke of Aquitaine (1071–1126), one of the first troubadour poets.
Poets adopted the terminology of feudalism, declaring themselves the vassal of the lady and addressing her as midons (my lord), which had the dual benefits of both allowing the poet to use a code name (so as to avoid having to reveal the lady's name) and at the same time be flattering by addressing her as his lord. The troubadour's model of the ideal lady was the wife of his employer or lord, a lady of higher status, usually the rich and powerful female head of the castle. When her husband was away on Crusade or other business she dominated the household and cultural affairs; sometimes this was the case even when the husband was at home.
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While those troubadours were just beta orbiters, they managed to inflate the egos of European women. They also popularized the idea that love can be found outside of marriage:
Since at the time some marriages among nobility had little to do with modern perspectives of what constitutes love, courtly love was also a way for nobles to express the love not found in their marriage. "Lovers" in the context of courtly love need not refer to sex, but rather the act of emotional loving. These "lovers" had short trysts in secret, which escalated mentally, but might not physically.
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The 12th-century book The Art of Courtly Love advised that "True love can have no place between husband and wife." According to one view, clandestine meetings between men and women, generally outside of marriage or before marriage, were the precursors to today's dating.
Through time, these ideas became very influential:
This kind of love is originally a literary fiction created for the entertainment of the nobility, but as time passed, these ideas about love changed and attracted a larger audience. In the high Middle Ages, a "game of love" developed around these ideas as a set of social practices.
Eventually, the chad knights adopted these ideas and started cucking other nobles. It was basically a green light to cuck other men as courting married women was now seeing as something noble. The medieval chad knights started bragging about their sexual success and started living promiscously while the European women were praised by their beta orbiter troubadour and minnesänger poets instead of being shamed. Courting women, "game" and dating them became part of Western culture and eventually degenerated into what we have today.
The Church saw the problem back then and encouraged monastic chivalric orders like the Templars and Teutonic knights who were basically "blackpilled" about women and had wovs of celibacy and lived in chastity. They coped by plundering and pillaging the pagans and establishing a monastic state.
If you ever wonder why white women have such a high opinion about themselves, well they've been praised by their white beta orbiters for almost 1000 years now.
Some of these beta males became the medieval troubadour and minnesänger poets and started courting the ladies who were left alone at home. They were beta orbiters who didn't go to fight in the Crusades because they were weak men. So they started courting women. They didn't have sex with them but instead just praised them.
Troubadour - Wikipedia
This is what gave birth to courtly love which would would eventually degenerate into modern dating.
Courtly love found its expression in the lyric poems written by troubadours, such as William IX, Duke of Aquitaine (1071–1126), one of the first troubadour poets.
Poets adopted the terminology of feudalism, declaring themselves the vassal of the lady and addressing her as midons (my lord), which had the dual benefits of both allowing the poet to use a code name (so as to avoid having to reveal the lady's name) and at the same time be flattering by addressing her as his lord. The troubadour's model of the ideal lady was the wife of his employer or lord, a lady of higher status, usually the rich and powerful female head of the castle. When her husband was away on Crusade or other business she dominated the household and cultural affairs; sometimes this was the case even when the husband was at home.
Courtly love - Wikipedia
While those troubadours were just beta orbiters, they managed to inflate the egos of European women. They also popularized the idea that love can be found outside of marriage:
Since at the time some marriages among nobility had little to do with modern perspectives of what constitutes love, courtly love was also a way for nobles to express the love not found in their marriage. "Lovers" in the context of courtly love need not refer to sex, but rather the act of emotional loving. These "lovers" had short trysts in secret, which escalated mentally, but might not physically.
...
The 12th-century book The Art of Courtly Love advised that "True love can have no place between husband and wife." According to one view, clandestine meetings between men and women, generally outside of marriage or before marriage, were the precursors to today's dating.
Through time, these ideas became very influential:
This kind of love is originally a literary fiction created for the entertainment of the nobility, but as time passed, these ideas about love changed and attracted a larger audience. In the high Middle Ages, a "game of love" developed around these ideas as a set of social practices.
Eventually, the chad knights adopted these ideas and started cucking other nobles. It was basically a green light to cuck other men as courting married women was now seeing as something noble. The medieval chad knights started bragging about their sexual success and started living promiscously while the European women were praised by their beta orbiter troubadour and minnesänger poets instead of being shamed. Courting women, "game" and dating them became part of Western culture and eventually degenerated into what we have today.
The Church saw the problem back then and encouraged monastic chivalric orders like the Templars and Teutonic knights who were basically "blackpilled" about women and had wovs of celibacy and lived in chastity. They coped by plundering and pillaging the pagans and establishing a monastic state.
If you ever wonder why white women have such a high opinion about themselves, well they've been praised by their white beta orbiters for almost 1000 years now.
