Discussion Were you lookist before finding out about it?

[mcfroggy]

Were you guys lookist, how much do you cringe looking back?

Not virtue signaling but I didn't. Growing up being excluded, and a late puberty made me have basically no libido until late highschool. I treated everyone the same and was confused why everyone shit on me anyways. Now I just see everyone as base animals.

 

[Deleted member 17997]

a late puberty made me have basically no libido until late highschool

 

[Speedloader]

No

 

[Deleted member 17419]

I remember being obsessed with a girl in like fourth grade whom I now in retrospect realize had a perfect golden ratio face, if that is what you mean.

 

[kingturtle]

all humans have evolved to judge people based on looks. I certainly still do. I see incels all the time at my university and tbh I try to avoid them. When I see them at the library I always wonder about what they are up to, since incels are the ones most likely to blow up...

 

[ordinaryotaku]

I never judged people on their looks, but I always knew that looks matter regardless of what you're doing or plan to do.

 

[Blacktarpill]

I never judged people on their looks, but I always knew that looks matter regardless of what you're doing or plan to do.

Ye same, i still dont judge people like that.

 

[IamJacksBrokenHeart]

i was redpilled 3 years ago and became blackpilled 1,5 years ago .
I am 23 years old atm .
Before that , i had several oneitis-es and believed in " true love " for most of my youth .
I was a vegan for 2 years , a vegetarian for 3 years and i was bluepilled and cucked to oblivion .#
Its like my character turned completely around since i took the blackpill .

 

[jet112]

no, not at all actually.

i thought that status is the most important thing, but i didn't know that looks bring you status so that was the missing link

 

[Deleted member 18214]

Sadly yes and it was a very mindless way of thinking.

 

[DoctorBlythe]

I guess I kind of was, but not in a typical way. I was into unattractive foids and I've seen my uglier mates as "more friendly" even though they weren't much different from my good-looking friends. I think it's because I wanted to socialize with and be in presence of people similar to me, and since I am ugly, I was always naturally more inclined to pursue ugly people.

 

[Deleted member 16455]

a late puberty made me have basically no libido until late highschool.

 

[sub8male]

Everyone is unconsciously that's kind of the point. Of course foids are WAY more lookist than males.

 

[tulasdanslos]

I was, there was this ugly girl at my high school let's call her Selene for reference sake, and people would say "hey tulasdanslos and Selene would make a great couple (burst outs laughing)" and we both found each other repulsive and said no way, to what they would respond "those who fight each other lust for each other" (rhymes in my mother tongue btw). Looking back it was pretty telling that I was just as hideous as her, can't believe I didn't figure out I was ugly till 19.

I would rather be with a fire burn victim looksmatch than with Selene. I really still don't think she was even my looksmatch. Maybe the "substract 3 points if you're ethnic" theory is legit.

 

[WawelDragon1683]

I never treated anybody differently because of their looks. I'm not a woman.

 

[truthpill]

I was always aware that looks mattered in love, but I didn't know how much they really mattered, as a young bluepilled teen I thought your personality could make up for looks, gosh was I wrong.

 

[Neggr]

Yes I was but without knowing it

 

[needsolution]

no, i wasnt to be honest, i never cared too much about it