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Blackpill Were you happier before or after the blackpill?

ValiantThor2

ValiantThor2

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I see a lot of people complaining that they wish they didn't discover it. I am the opposite. I am grateful for being exposed to female nature rather than convincing myself that my haircut is the problem lol. I'm the kind of person that likes to know the truth even if it is bitter. I like to know where I stand on the food chain.
 
I already knew about it before it got called blackpill. Not everything tho. I feel the same.
 
Happier before the blackpill. Ignorance is bliss,and the blackpill ruined my life.
 
I see a lot of people complaining that they wish they didn't discover it. I am the opposite. I am grateful for being exposed to female nature rather than convincing myself that my haircut is the problem lol. I'm the kind of person that likes to know the truth even if it is bitter. I like to know where I stand on the food chain.

Same here. I was more frustrated before coming on here.
 
I'm way happier after the Black Pill.

More so I am even happier after taking the Yellow Pill. It's the only reason I get up every morning.
 
I already knew about it before it got called blackpill. Not everything tho. I feel the same.
I was fairly blackpilled throughout school but then became bluepilled from age 18 - 21 because I got picked on less & thought people had become more mature. Reading about the blackpill gave me the kick up the ass I needed though.
 
Wasnt happy before am not happy now
 
I kinda always knew, but I am happier now that I find clearly stated the things I suspected
 
Before I took the blackpill I didn't realize the features that women were attracted to. Then I noticed that every guy that women universally find attractive (because they're a literal hivemind) has pretty much the exact same features. So I'm more depressed than ever after taking the blackpill because I realized why I've been rejected by every single girl. Because I don't have those features that they want. I used to think that women have types like men do and one would like me because I'd be their "type" but there is no such thing because they all like the same dudes.
 
After

I know women will never be attracted to me
Maybe those post wall roasties looking for beta buxx. Thanks to blackpill I avoid all foids above 25- 27.

My plan is to stay single, get a house and spend my time doing things I enjoy.

Much better than being repeatedly dissapointed by women.
 
Happier after the blackpill. Before I was just a confused cuck, who didn't know what to expect and what not. I never understood why things didn't work out well. Now it's all crystal clear. I know exactly what to do and what to expect.
 
Happier before the blackpill. Ignorance is bliss

I agree but i appreciate the blackpill though,it opened my eyes and made me understand the reason females hate me.
 
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I was happier, now I understand the miseries of my life
 
Wasn't happy then and I'm not happy now, just less ignorant.
 
If you were happier before you are a fakecel. Truecels always suffer and confused asf it is after the blackpill they understand why and how it never began so no worries.

I am grateful being blackpilled. Now i know the surgeries to get
 
Happier before the blackpill. Ignorance is bliss,and the blackpill ruined my life.

You weren't happier before the black pill, you were happier before the realities of the black pill could truly affect your life. The only time ignorance is bliss could qualify as true in any of our live in relation to the black pill is when we were small children, and that's only half true, because its wasn't "not knowing" that made us happy, it was the fact that we lacked the "desires" to even make knowing relevant.

When you're a small child, with no libido and your only interest is games, tasty foods and entertainment whether you were black pilled or not wouldn't make a difference because your life is unaffected by it.

Its only when we reached the phases of "young adult" and "adulthood" do we get fucked as we have to worry about shit like a career, relationships, bills, etc. A lot of shit that has to do with social status and appearances.

For me in my case (and I'd think most cases) it would be somewhat false to claim I was happier, its more like I didn't know what I was missing out on, I wasn't aware of what was out there that should be upsetting to me to begin with. If anything I was somewhat frustrated because I would look at older kids and tell that there was something I was missing out on based on how they interacted with eachother.

You don't really know how to feel about those experiences because you don't know what you're missing out on.

Also for some of us I'm sure we were facing the harsh realities of the black pill whether we were aware of the term or its philosophy. If an invisible force is fucking with your life, I don't think it matters much whether it becomes visible or not if you can't do anything about it.
 
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was always intuitively aware of it, from middle school and up. As a subhuman, you can't not be.
 
Happier and give less fucks
 
i desperately needed it. i suffrered from cognitive dissonance till i took the blackpill
 
I have always been black pilled to some extent TBH. It's probably how I was raised. Both my parents are in to looking good and they taught me from a young age that looks matter a lot and that people will judge you if you do not look good.
 
I discovered the blackpill a long time ago, on my own, through experience. I was probably happier after it, just because I could relax and stop giving a fuck. Yeah, it was over, but then, it never began, and the entire universe is a pile of shit anyway.
 
Definitely after the blackpill, now that I have an accurate understanding of reality, I can adapt my behaviour and expectations accordingly.
 
I was way more happy before i came on this site. I lurked here for a week or so and that was the saddest week of my life.
 
After

I know women will never be attracted to me
Maybe those post wall roasties looking for beta buxx. Thanks to blackpill I avoid all foids above 25- 27.

My plan is to stay single, get a house and spend my time doing things I enjoy.

Much better than being repeatedly dissapointed by women.

MGTOW cope.
 
Same either way, even in behavior.
 
Not exactly happy
 
Even before discovering the blackpill, “happy” was a rare feeling for me to experience
 
Before. At the beginning I laughed about the blackpill/lookspill and even felt relived because I didn't feel pressure to do stuff regarding women anymore. "It's over" and stuff. But eventually became even more depressed from having this knowledge.
 
After

I know women will never be attracted to me
Maybe those post wall roasties looking for beta buxx. Thanks to blackpill I avoid all foids above 25- 27.

My plan is to stay single, get a house and spend my time doing things I enjoy.

Much better than being repeatedly dissapointed by women.
this is my exact goal. Home-owning.
 
I was more deluded (happy) before becoming conscious of my poor looks in grade school.
 
After for sure. Before people always say you'll meet someone just be yourself and all this fairy tale garbage and I desperately wanted to believe them even though I knew it was over around my mid 20s. Now that I've accepted reality for what it is I feel like a huge weight has been lifted off my shoulders.
 
The Blackpill changed my life to the better. I was clueless and lost before it, wondering what the hell is wrong with me.

After the BlackPill, I have embarked on a journey of looksmax, in order to try and squeeze some juice out of this life.

Life as an ugly man is unbearable.
 
I feel the same emotionally but I am less controlled by my emotions. I am in more control to better my life knowing the truth, and the things I am unable to achieve I don't feel bad about.
I am so glad it motivated my to gymcelling.

Except when I see Chad and Stacy. I get angry instead of depressed / trying to ignore them like before. "A few millimeters of bone" I caught myself muttering yesterday while looking at a scrawny male model with terrible neck posture and his makeupmaxxed companion. :fire:
 
when you first take the blackpill its brutal. i was legitimately depressed for some months then after a while you feel nothing towards everything, until you witness blackpills irl. i try to keep my head down and avoid seeing all the suifuel thats possible at uni
 
Enlightenment comes with its consequences
 
The Blackpill has opened my eyes giving me much greater awareness. It has answered my questions! When younger I used to wonder why females aren't approaching me, then afterwards followed with stupid hope that the 'special one' will come along someday.....Wrong!

Also I watched FaceandLMS videos. His stuff just blew my mind! It was like taking off rose tinted glasses and replacing them for clear specs.

Lesson learned!
 

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