proudweeb
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You guys have probably heard of Maslow's hierarchy of needs, well at the bottom of the pyramid, at the most fundamental level with breathing and food is SEX and REPRODUCTION. Life literally exists on this planet so that it can propagate and continue. So right off the bat, we're already missing one of the most fundamental pillars to basic human functionality and satisfaction.
But it isn't just that, let's look at the next level. Security of employment, resources, the family, and health? As incels, we're also worse off here. Hundreds of studies have shown that single, lonely people have worse material (lower paying jobs, lower net worth, etc) than their married or non-single counterparts. Not to mention, worse health. That's due to both our worse mental health, and to the copes we have to use (alcohol, drugs etc.) just to make it through the day without roping.
The next level up? Friendship, family, and sexual intimacy? It might as well not even exist. In addition to being incel, most of us are either friendless, or low on connections. With our looks, we're rejected from not just relationships, but platonic interactions as well.
Self-esteem and confidence are difficult to have when you've failed every single time you tried to interact with a women irl, and online interactions (tinder etc.) are even worse. Not to mention the bullying many of us had to deal with in our youth. Achievement and the respect of others? It's tough to accomplish things such as a career and material goals like buying a house, since you need to fight twice as hard as normies, and 10x as hard as a chad, to do so. An uphill battle, when both your appearance and your life's experiences are against you.
Ironically the top of the pyramid may be the only area we have at least a small chance of success. The blackpill allows us to see reality ("acceptance of facts") without a layer of sugar coated bullshit that society normally imposes. Also, our minds tend to think in different ways than normies, as our life experiences have been so different. This allows us to excel at creativity, spontaneity, and problem solving.
tl;dr it's difficult for us to be happy as Incels, when we're missing over half of our fundamental needs. Basically, we're fucked six ways to sunday (except literally)
But it isn't just that, let's look at the next level. Security of employment, resources, the family, and health? As incels, we're also worse off here. Hundreds of studies have shown that single, lonely people have worse material (lower paying jobs, lower net worth, etc) than their married or non-single counterparts. Not to mention, worse health. That's due to both our worse mental health, and to the copes we have to use (alcohol, drugs etc.) just to make it through the day without roping.
The next level up? Friendship, family, and sexual intimacy? It might as well not even exist. In addition to being incel, most of us are either friendless, or low on connections. With our looks, we're rejected from not just relationships, but platonic interactions as well.
Self-esteem and confidence are difficult to have when you've failed every single time you tried to interact with a women irl, and online interactions (tinder etc.) are even worse. Not to mention the bullying many of us had to deal with in our youth. Achievement and the respect of others? It's tough to accomplish things such as a career and material goals like buying a house, since you need to fight twice as hard as normies, and 10x as hard as a chad, to do so. An uphill battle, when both your appearance and your life's experiences are against you.
Ironically the top of the pyramid may be the only area we have at least a small chance of success. The blackpill allows us to see reality ("acceptance of facts") without a layer of sugar coated bullshit that society normally imposes. Also, our minds tend to think in different ways than normies, as our life experiences have been so different. This allows us to excel at creativity, spontaneity, and problem solving.
tl;dr it's difficult for us to be happy as Incels, when we're missing over half of our fundamental needs. Basically, we're fucked six ways to sunday (except literally)
