Blackpill We're blackpilled because we're failed romantics

[Dusk]

Inceldom is a vast spectrum. Bluepilled incels; these are the men that populate IncelTears or sparsely around the real world, who earnestly believe that their personality may outshine their bad looks and they'll find someone... You have redpilled incels; they swarm around pariahs like Scamza or Tate, believing that there's a 'grindset' for their face... You have what I like to call the 'scarlet' pill, a fusion of the redpill and the blackpill in the form of looksmaxxing, wherein undesirables undergo extensive surgeries and dangerous procedures to 'ascend'. Then you have the blackpill; painting a nihilistic coat of paint on all of those prior it claims that immutable genetic factors are king. Each 'pill' claims to be the one true view on male-female relations and the nature of love itself.

What is it that seperates the naive idealists from the rotters? On this forum there's plenty of spread in terms of IQ, race, height, ideals and personalities but aside from our lack of looks I think there's something that could unite us, which is that we are all failed romantics.

Think about it, why is it that we react so negatively to the blackpill? If we really truly only wanted sex we could contact a local town bicycle or fly off to fuck an escort in a single day and be done with it. If that was all it took to 'ascend' then most of us could do that and leave the site. Why is it that people care to document the blackpill so extensively, to scour through study upon study, to lament and consider the rope and to vent? I think it's because we are utterly repulsed by the blackpill and the true nature of female behavior. Fantasies of doing romantic things and having a pure love are immediately demolished by coming into contact with the blackpill, rotting them inside out like a disease. To know that all women would rather be whores that *click, whirr...* into place robotically for certain genetic signals (chads) rather than giving us the slow-burn, romantic fantasies we desire forces us into a fatalistic knee-jerk spiral of self-hatred. In my opinion...

Bluepillers: Naive romantics, doesn't try to game the system.
Redpillers: Tries to game the system through acquiring assets, only really cares about superficial sex.
Scarletpillers: Tries to game the system through frauding looks, only really cares about superficial sex.
Blackpillers: Doesn't try to game the system, disillusioned by the shattering of the 'romance fantasy'. Failed romantics.

 

[1oilypufta]

Is the term scarletpill, canon?

 

[Johnhatenigger12]

Scarletpillers: Tries to game the system through frauding looks, only really cares about superficial sex.

This explained looksfags.org in one sentences

 

[Dusk]

Is the term scarletpill, canon?

Not canon no. People often don't know which one looksmaxxing falls into (redpill/blackpill) so I thought I'd refer to it in a middle ground (scarletpill).

 

[1oilypufta]

Not canon no. People often don't know which one looksmaxxing falls into (redpill/blackpill) so I thought I'd refer to it in a middle ground (scarletpill).

It will do.

 

[lifeisfucked215]

Good read

 

[AlexDelarge]

If we really truly only wanted sex we could contact a local town bicycle or fly off to fuck an escort in a single day and be done with it

When i fuck escort i feel she is tolerating my dick inside her for the money. Bad acting will not make me believe she wants my dick really. Plus you have to use rubber. It is not real thing.

I think it's because we are utterly repulsed by the blackpill and the true nature of female behavior.

I am not. Purity is most of times cope. I would have nothing against foids if i was not ugly. I would be happy that they are sluts who love to fuck all day because i would be the one fucking them and enjoying. BP is reality it is not good or bad it is just reality and we genetical abominations are just on the losing side. Hating it is a natural but not rational.

than giving us the slow-burn, romantic fantasies we desire forces us into a fatalistic knee-jerk spiral of self-hatred.

Never desired anything like that. Neither i hate myself. I just hate foids for not wanting to fuck me. And hate luck for making me ugly

Overal I dont think most incels share your views, but some of them do. Most of them who do are ones likely to revert to bluepill given any false hope.

 

[Dusk]

When i fuck escort i feel she is tolerating my dick inside her for the money. Bad acting will not make me believe she wants my dick really. Plus you have to use rubber. It is not real thing.


I am not. Purity is most of times cope. I would have nothing against foids if i was not ugly. I would be happy that they are sluts who love to fuck all day because i would be the one fucking them and enjoying. BP is reality it is not good or bad it is just reality and we genetical abominations are just on the losing side. Hating it is a natural but not rational.


Never desired anything like that. Neither i hate myself. I just hate foids for not wanting to fuck me. And hate luck for making me ugly

Overal I dont think most incels share your views, but some of them do. Most of them who do are ones likely to revert to bluepill given any false hope.

Why do you care that they don't really want your dick? As long as you get your rocks off and have sex that should be fine no?
My point is that we want something deeper than sex, which is attraction and romance. We want that romantic fantasy of being loved in return.

 

[eldercelder]

High IQ post. And I like the term scarlet pill.

You're absolutely right. I think many of us become majorly disenfranchised for two reasons: Knowing that all the hatred and mistreatment we've received all of our lives was for something we had absolutely no control over. And learning that the bluepill isn't real.

Most incels don't become blackpilled because they're not Casa Novas. They become blackpilled because they don't get what EVERYONE else seems to get - a foid who wants to be with them in both a sexual and romantic relationship.

 

[Dusk]

High IQ post. And I like the term scarlet pill.

You're absolutely right. I think many of us become majorly disenfranchised for two reasons: Knowing that all the hatred and mistreatment we've received all of our lives was for something we had absolutely no control over. And learning that the bluepill isn't real.

Most incels don't become blackpilled because they're not Casa Novas. They become blackpilled because they don't get what EVERYONE else seems to get - a foid who wants to be with them in both a sexual and romantic relationship.

Thanks! And yeah, you grow up being sold a certain ideal for relationships and love... and then as your grow older and look in the mirror you start to realize that you can never have what everyone else has. It's brutal.

 

[AlexDelarge]

Why do you care that they don't really want your dick? As long as you get your rocks off and have sex that should be fine no?
My point is that we want something deeper than sex, which is attraction and romance.

I think you are wrong in joining attraction with love and romance.

Attraction is objective and physical. Sex without mutual attraction is not that good

Love and romance are bluepill concepts

 

[Dusk]

I think you are wrong in joining attraction with love and romance.

Attraction is objective and physical. Sex without mutual attraction is not that good

Love and romance are bluepill concepts

Why is sex without mutual attraction not good? What about it? Is it lacking in... romance?
If you want you can define romance as a set of physical symptoms. The blushing, the mutual attraction, the energy, the flow, the smile... yes it's a concept of the bluepill, but it's a descriptor. A character-less, energy-less relationship lacks romance. You only get the symptoms of romance if you're desirable.

 

[AlexDelarge]

Why is sex without mutual attraction not good? What about it?

Because it feels like fucking a doll. Maybe necrophiles are into that shit. Normal human (male) brain is wired to get turned on by sensing other side is turned on too.

Your definition of romance is bit different from standard bluepill one.

 

[Spooky_Heejin]

Great post. You worded everything very well and I agree with you on everything you said.

 

[HBK The Showstopper]

High IQ post

 

[VλREN]

High IQ post to explain the obvious



It’s ovER

 

[Vlarke]

Inceldom is a vast spectrum. Bluepilled incels; these are the men that populate IncelTears or sparsely around the real world, who earnestly believe that their personality may outshine their bad looks and they'll find someone... You have redpilled incels; they swarm around pariahs like Scamza or Tate, believing that there's a 'grindset' for their face... You have what I like to call the 'scarlet' pill, a fusion of the redpill and the blackpill in the form of looksmaxxing, wherein undesirables undergo extensive surgeries and dangerous procedures to 'ascend'. Then you have the blackpill; painting a nihilistic coat of paint on all of those prior it claims that immutable genetic factors are king. Each 'pill' claims to be the one true view on male-female relations and the nature of love itself.

What is it that seperates the naive idealists from the rotters? On this forum there's plenty of spread in terms of IQ, race, height, ideals and personalities but aside from our lack of looks I think there's something that could unite us, which is that we are all failed romantics.

Think about it, why is it that we react so negatively to the blackpill? If we really truly only wanted sex we could contact a local town bicycle or fly off to fuck an escort in a single day and be done with it. If that was all it took to 'ascend' then most of us could do that and leave the site. Why is it that people care to document the blackpill so extensively, to scour through study upon study, to lament and consider the rope and to vent? I think it's because we are utterly repulsed by the blackpill and the true nature of female behavior. Fantasies of doing romantic things and having a pure love are immediately demolished by coming into contact with the blackpill, rotting them inside out like a disease. To know that all women would rather be whores that *click, whirr...* into place robotically for certain genetic signals (chads) rather than giving us the slow-burn, romantic fantasies we desire forces us into a fatalistic knee-jerk spiral of self-hatred. In my opinion...

Bluepillers: Naive romantics, doesn't try to game the system.
Redpillers: Tries to game the system through acquiring assets, only really cares about superficial sex.
Scarletpillers: Tries to game the system through frauding looks, only really cares about superficial sex.
Blackpillers: Doesn't try to game the system, disillusioned by the shattering of the 'romance fantasy'. Failed romantics.

I just want to be loved and love someone