I’m tired of men complaining about lookism
Look, I get it. Some guys are obsessed with this whole “lookism” thing, acting like it’s the end of the world if they don’t look like a movie star. But let me tell you something: a 4’11 balding Indian janitor with oozing sores on his scalp, decaying teeth that reek of rot, pus-filled acne scars dripping down his face, a grotesquely hooked nose caked with dried mucus, a gaping overbite with slimy drool leaking out, a tiny little chin covered in grease, a hunchback, and a face so pockmarked and sweaty it looks like a swamp can be way more attractive than someone like Sean O’Pry.
You know why? Confidence, smarts, and a good sense of humor go a long way. It’s not just about having the perfect jawline or flawless skin. If that janitor walks into a room and owns it, makes people laugh, and has interesting things to say, he’s going to stand out way more than some guy who just relies on his looks.
I’m so tired of guys acting like the world owes them something just because they don’t fit some unrealistic beauty standard. Newsflash: nobody, and I mean nobody, cares if you’re ugly. What people care about is how you make them feel. Are you kind? Are you fun to be around? Do you have interesting things to talk about? Those are the things that matter.
So, instead of whining about how unfair life is because you don’t look like a model, try working on being a better person. Be confident, smart, and funny, and people will be drawn to you for who you are, not how you look.
Don’t give me nonsense about bullying and body shaming—it doesn’t exist. If you’re ugly, that’s your problem, not mine. Hit the gym, get a decent haircut, learn how to dress, and stop acting like a victim. Confidence, intelligence, and humor go a long way. You could be the ugliest guy in the room, but if you own it and have a great personality, people will notice you for the right reasons.
Life isn’t fair, and nobody owes you anything. Grow up, stop expecting the world to feel sorry for you, and be a better, more interesting person.
Now, let’s talk about fat shaming. As a fat queen, I can tell you it’s real. Don’t tell me to just have a better personality. Being fat isn’t the same as being ugly—it’s a different struggle that deserves respect. So if you think you can equate the two, think again. Work on yourself and stop expecting the world to change for you.