jfl at thinking you change is possible. it was over before it even begun.
Idk if you can change inceldom, but it can always get worse. LDAR/NEET is not a good cope, trust me on that. As you approach 30 it starts to hit you like a brick if you haven't accomplished anything.
What are we NEETS gonna do if our parents drop dead? I also just hate my family as they are abusive white trash, so even if I remain virgin I want out ot this shithole. It may be too late for me but I'm at least gonna try, and I'm 2 years older than you.
Not sure what you think of Jordan Peterson, but he's very pragmatic about improving life. There's some things you do everyday, that you know are bad for you, everyone does. If you work to stop doing those things, life will improve exponentially. May not be what you want it to be but will at least avoid it getting worse. Even someone with the worst life imaginable could've had it worse if they had even more bad habits.
It could be health things like smoking, eating badly, etc. or just not trying to work or wasting too much time. As you get older any time wasting starts to eat at your soul. You almost feel sick. It's hard for me to watch a movie or something now unless I at least have a treadmill in front of it because the clock is ticking.
I'm basically royally fucked because I'm obese (still after losting 200 lbs), NEET, have other severe medical problems, no friends or positive relationships with family who have severely traumatized me but I'm also dependent on, severe social anxiety/avoidant personality disorder, AND incel. But even I'm trying to make it better. You're younger than me and trust me, I'm sure you don't have it as bad as me. I'm just making assumptions, because very few do. Everyday feels like I'm being raped. Some of the medical issues are too embarrassing even for here. But even if I somehow met a woman who accepted me and wanted to fuck, I'd still be incel. To put this in perspective, it's extremely difficult to even masturbate and when I do it's painful.
We need a new catergory of inceldom, I haven't heard anyone talk about. People with actual medical issues making sex impossible or extremely difficult. I mean, if someone had some sort of freak accident and lost their dick but still wishes they could have sex aren't THEY incel? Even if they were previously a chad. I believe the only way a woman can be incel is if she's a medicalcel.
It's over for peyroniescels and micropeniscels. But really it's not over until I'm buried under the earth.
I'd actually get a lot of pleasure from just banging a woman with a strap on, because she accepted me and let ME do it. Giving oral sex sounds gross to me but even that would lift me up, knowing someone even desired me at all, without any physical pleasure. Just laying in the same bad would be an incredible feeling.
