IncelCatechumen
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Inceldom is a positive existence not in the sense that it is "good" for the person in question, rather it is a real problem that is symptomatic of the sexual dynamics in our contemporary society. The reason behind this modern phenomena is contested, which shows us the multi-faceted nature of inceldom. It´s important to keep this in mind because it is not my intention to downplay the solitary nature and the frustration that the condition of being an incel generates in our hearts.
Yet, I cannot see the benefits of holding the negative nihilistic beliefs that are often exposed on here. What if we redirected our lives not on the basis of sex but rather on questions of vocations, intellectuality, or human relations? To what extent being an incel stops you from having friends? In fact, my personal experience showed me that in the cordiality of friendly interactions you can also find a sense of small meaning in your life: they don´t automatically hate you for being ugly. Evidently, there are initial prejudices but if you engage with life through the spirit of personal transparency folks are going to appreciate you more. Yes, you might not achieve sex (or perhaps you might), so what? Compulsory sexuality is one of the reasons that our minds are in this state of pain. What if you re-direct that pain through being humble and caring? This was the solution that Schopenhauer gave in order to escape the cycle of suffering that human existence implies.
Identifying sex as the whole reason behind your issues impides you from analyzing existence in its plurality, which ultimately turns you into a banal monochromatic individual just like the "normies" that you seem to hate.
It´s time to say yes to life.
Yet, I cannot see the benefits of holding the negative nihilistic beliefs that are often exposed on here. What if we redirected our lives not on the basis of sex but rather on questions of vocations, intellectuality, or human relations? To what extent being an incel stops you from having friends? In fact, my personal experience showed me that in the cordiality of friendly interactions you can also find a sense of small meaning in your life: they don´t automatically hate you for being ugly. Evidently, there are initial prejudices but if you engage with life through the spirit of personal transparency folks are going to appreciate you more. Yes, you might not achieve sex (or perhaps you might), so what? Compulsory sexuality is one of the reasons that our minds are in this state of pain. What if you re-direct that pain through being humble and caring? This was the solution that Schopenhauer gave in order to escape the cycle of suffering that human existence implies.
Identifying sex as the whole reason behind your issues impides you from analyzing existence in its plurality, which ultimately turns you into a banal monochromatic individual just like the "normies" that you seem to hate.
It´s time to say yes to life.
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