>After all the media attention, Jack noticed that he was getting good feedback from unexpected sources.
"I was getting positive comments from random feminists and leftists. And the incel community itself was telling me to kill myself. I was like... maybe this is not healthy for me."
>Matthew - again not his real name - found out about incels on 4chan, a freewheeling, often extreme message board. He is frank about what drew him in, aged just 15.
Matthew is at university now, and says meeting new people has made it easier to socialise and talk to women
"I was BIGGEST TRUECEL when i was 14, now im 18 at university and realized im not incel xDDDDDDDDDDD"