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Serious We as incels need to get over our defeatist mentality

I don't like it, I have been backstabbed few times by people I trusted so i don't trust people nowadays.

How many? Were they prostitutes. Mogs me tbf.
Ah yeah backstabbing of course. That will always happen and will always suck. I meant how do you feel about competition by the way

I love the fact that you assumed that moneymaxxing worked anything for me LOL. All i got was just a more comfortable life for myself. Also i have never been with a prostitute or any other kind of sex worker, don't see myself with one in the foreseeable future either
 
I love the fact that you assumed that moneymaxxing worked anything for me LOL. All i got was just a more comfortable life for myself. Also i have never been with a prostitute or any other kind of sex worker, don't see myself with one in the foreseeable future either
This place got to me :feelskek: Here money=escorts, its like currency.
 
Exactly this, and to be honest I can't fathom how many people here still believe something like that will happen. In a few decades, hundred years? Maybe with a 0.01% likelihood or something. Now? JUST-FUCKING-OMEGA-LOL.
Elites want you to believe that nothing can change. In actuality, there have been many social upheavals throughout human history.

What makes Incels different from other oppressed groups?
 
Hard to swallow truth/blackpill:

Your parents aren’t going to live forever. Make sure to get some marketable skills (e.g. coding) and put them to use.

You don’t want to find yourself @ 37 yrs old, broke, homeless, living under a bridge :lul::lul::lul:. This is 5x worse if you’re an incel :dafuckfeels::dafuckfeels:
 
Elites want you to believe that nothing can change. In actuality, there have been many social upheavals throughout human history.
The only upheaval that could happen would be a total collapse, and certainly not a beta uprising JFL.

What makes Incels different from other oppressed groups?
There may have been upheavals, but none came from an issue as fundamental as ours: being denied the most basic thing, our very reason for existing, aka mating. That's what you and many more need to understand: the incel problem is not just another little issue of our modern world, it is one of the biggest, if not THE biggest one.
 
The only upheaval that could happen would be a total collapse, and certainly not a beta uprising JFL.


There may have been upheavals, but none came from an issue as fundamental as ours: being denied the most basic thing, our very reason for existing, aka mating. That's what you and many more need to understand: the incel problem is not just another little issue of our modern world, it is one of the biggest, if not THE biggest one.

Fair point, and I challenge you to think about the even more fundamental issue of human touch.

Social touch and sex activate the same opioid pathways in the brain, which would give us the feeling of safety and belonging if only someone would hold us / touch us on the shoulder even.

Normies choose to avoid incels because incels are emotionally distressed, while not realizing they could be the cure of that distress :bigbrain: just goes to show normies are indoctrinated into believing in social hierarchies, like the idea of 'untouchables' https://www.theguardian.com/world/2...caste-system-us-race-martin-luther-king-india

What normies don't see is that hierarchies are self-fulfilling: by choking lower castes, you actually do take their power from them and make them inferior in a certain sense
 
I don’t hate myself. I don’t think I’m failure for being a khhv, because I know it was never a choice. That doesn’t mean I still don’t know how much determinism comes into play, lol.
 
Hard not too hate ones self when society teaches you too and displays hate towards you. Unfortunately most incels in the world wont hear your message though.
 
good read!
SIEG HEIL!!!!!!!!!
 
I only help people that look like they would be incels too
 
:yes: True, I never blamed myself or other incels/lvm. You can't control the circumstances you're born in. You can't force someone to date you or hang out with you, but the least they could do is to leave us alone.
 
One thing that users need to realize is that why you're here now isn't your fault, but it's your responsibility because no one else is going to help you, but you. It's still difficult to put effort for something that normies get for free and without much effort.
 
A gymcel who doesn't understand semantics, shocking.

No offense intended, I'm mostly saying the above in a humorous tone, but I have no idea why this thread is pinned. OP, you're confusing the definition of 'defeatism' with 'self-hating'. Not blaming yourself for society's bigoted hierarchy and immorality has nothing to do with defeatism. A "defeatist mentality" would be the acknowledgement that you are never going to be victorious over normies and women, nor be accepted by them, which is a calculated fact of reality.
 
Hard not too hate ones self when society teaches you too and displays hate towards you. Unfortunately most incels in the world wont hear your message though.
Women are extremely evil and cold-hearted. They display so much hatred towards me
 
Or....you could rent a Ryder van and buy a bunch of fertilizer
 
The day you hate yourself is the day everyone who hates you wins. So I am not killing myself I dont want to see the people who doesnt like me win.
 
No one cares if it's your fault or not.
[UWSL]If you're born a piece of shit you'll be a piece of shit and people will treat you like a piece of shit.[/UWSL]
Everyone, including yourself, will hate you.
 
Women are extremely evil and cold-hearted. They display so much hatred towards me
Same tbh. People in general treat me like a walking disease.
 
giga based many here can still fuck escorts. some can even surgery Maxx to normie.
 
We cannot change our lives or society as a whole if all we ever do is to put ourselves down.
We need to be "kinder" to ourselves and each other.

Our inceldom isn't our fault.
That is something we need to acknowledge every day.
We didn't choose to be like this.
It is not our fault.
Once you truely accept this, you can grow better and stop hating yourself.

We as incels need to stop doubting ourselves. We need to truely believe in our abilities even in the smallest ones. We are a powerful group of young men who can change the world for themselves if we wanted to.

Now you might think to yourself why I am using "we" so often.
It is because we can only get over this as the group, the collective we are as incels.
One man can't change much but many individuals together can.
I am not advocating for any ideology or system because I don't know myself what to really believe in but maybe thats the best for me at the moment.
You don't need to fit in. People should ask themselves why they don't fit in with us and not the other way around.
We aren't the problem we are just a symptom of a failed society that the world has produced.

I got a bit too philosophical there but I hope this post helps you in tought provoking.

(in video game but ded srs)
Everything you said is true FACTS!!! We need to treat ourselves and others the way we want to be treated. It's not hard to be nice to one another.
 
I agree tbh. Many of these retards here are overly defeatist. I can understand why, but we should still try to live good lives. Why should we just accept the hell society forced onto us? We are people too. We may not have anyone else, but at least we can always turn to our brocels. We should do whatever we can to live our lives in a good way
 
i will ascend with a white girl. i believe in myself:feelzez:
 
There may have been upheavals, but none came from an issue as fundamental as ours: being denied the most basic thing, our very reason for existing, aka mating. That's what you and many more need to understand: the incel problem is not just another little issue of our modern world, it is one of the biggest, if not THE biggest one.
The problem isn't just that it's fundamental in the sense of us being denied something essential for a healthy fulfilling life. It's that it's fundamental in the sense that no amount of social reforms would make us more desirable to foids and soyciety; at best, they would be forced into putting up with us like they were in the "good old days". The cat's already out of the bag.

BUT

only when you get a juicy reward for obliterating the competition.
Every time I feel motivated, I remember this fact. There's no reward for me to look forward to, my only motivation to improve myself is that I can at least feel a little proud of myself afterwards. Still, when it comes to moneymaxxing, I don't feel good about making money for a huge corporation just so that the Chad CEO can buy a second yacht, or working twice as hard to please customers than a Chad entrepreneur or freelancer because of the halo effect.
 
The problem isn't just that it's fundamental in the sense of us being denied something essential for a healthy fulfilling life. It's that it's fundamental in the sense that no amount of social reforms would make us more desirable to foids and soyciety; at best, they would be forced into putting up with us like they were in the "good old days". The cat's already out of the bag.
That's precisely what I meant, and my last sentence didn't reflect my thoughts perfectly since it is clear that even in any other lifetime we would still be incels.
 
We cannot change our lives or society as a whole if all we ever do is to put ourselves down.
We need to be "kinder" to ourselves and each other.

Our inceldom isn't our fault.
That is something we need to acknowledge every day.
We didn't choose to be like this.
It is not our fault.
Once you truely accept this, you can grow better and stop hating yourself.

We as incels need to stop doubting ourselves. We need to truely believe in our abilities even in the smallest ones. We are a powerful group of young men who can change the world for themselves if we wanted to.

Now you might think to yourself why I am using "we" so often.
It is because we can only get over this as the group, the collective we are as incels.
One man can't change much but many individuals together can.
I am not advocating for any ideology or system because I don't know myself what to really believe in but maybe thats the best for me at the moment.
You don't need to fit in. People should ask themselves why they don't fit in with us and not the other way around.
We aren't the problem we are just a symptom of a failed society that the world has produced.

I got a bit too philosophical there but I hope this post helps you in tought provoking.

(in video game but ded srs)
i dont hate myself i hate my parents and pretty much everyone
 
We cannot change our lives or society as a whole if all we ever do is to put ourselves down.
We need to be "kinder" to ourselves and each other.

Our inceldom isn't our fault.
That is something we need to acknowledge every day.
We didn't choose to be like this.
It is not our fault.
Once you truely accept this, you can grow better and stop hating yourself.

We as incels need to stop doubting ourselves. We need to truely believe in our abilities even in the smallest ones. We are a powerful group of young men who can change the world for themselves if we wanted to.

Now you might think to yourself why I am using "we" so often.
It is because we can only get over this as the group, the collective we are as incels.
One man can't change much but many individuals together can.
I am not advocating for any ideology or system because I don't know myself what to really believe in but maybe thats the best for me at the moment.
You don't need to fit in. People should ask themselves why they don't fit in with us and not the other way around.
We aren't the problem we are just a symptom of a failed society that the world has produced.

I got a bit too philosophical there but I hope this post helps you in tought provoking.

(in video game but ded srs)
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:p
 
The bluepill strikes again, What a weird thread
 

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