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Serious Ways to meet 18-23 year old girls in large cities?

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What are some ways to meet 18-23 year old girls in large cities (like San Diego)? I’m moving there in January to work.

I was thinking maybe social gatherings, clubs, gym, public events, library, university (if I was a student), beaches?
 
there is no point in trying if you are not tall or your ugly
 
If you're sure that you're going to succeed why are you here? Are you a fakecel?
 
What are some ways to meet 18-23 year old girls in large cities (like San Diego)? I’m moving there in January to work.

I was thinking maybe social gatherings, clubs, gym, public events, library, university (if I was a student), beaches?
To fuck or to date?

If it’s the former I would recommend you just solicit prostitutes, they will actually cost you less money and energy in the long run.

If the latter as far as I understand the best way to find a compatible girlfriend is through friends. I can elaborate more on this if you’d like. I would dissuade you from searching through online dating, bars, clubs, most public events that involve cold approach. They all have their different reasons for why they’re bad routes.

Also dating an 18-23 year old is not the best idea if you’re attached to them because most of them don’t take life seriously and just want to sleep around and party.
 
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supposedly an incel website :feelskek:
 
Read the name of the website again
 
What are some ways to meet 18-23 year old girls in large cities (like San Diego)? I’m moving there in January to work.

I was thinking maybe social gatherings, clubs, gym, public events, library, university (if I was a student), beaches?
Just cold approach random foids in the streets so they can laugh at you, GrAY.
 
Just be yourself
 
By putting your discord in your bio :feelskek: :feelskek:
 
give up and go jack off and play video games all day like the rest of us
 
Be tall with a chad face
 
Leave the site and try it. You can return if you fail, if you really think you have a chance, don't waste your time here
 
Please elaborate further if you don’t mind. I’m interested in dating as well.
I plan to return to college and live in a big city very soon. That’s why I was asking.

I also can height fraud to 6 feet tall, so I’m wondering if that’s an advantage.
 
Please elaborate further if you don’t mind. I’m interested in dating as well.
What are you thinking of doing for dating right now?
 
how to meet foids? :feelshmm:

be a tall chad?? :bigbrain:
 
I made friends with other sub5s and a lesbian foid when I joined a boxing gym
 
you have to know certain people in order to get invited to places foids hang out but that’s if you’re considered a human
 
You should ask this on .org if you really think you have the genetics to ascend
 
I plan to return to college and live in a big city very soon. That’s why I was asking.

I also can height fraud to 6 feet tall, so I’m wondering if that’s an advantage.
Ah i see, San Diego huh?

That should help.
What are you thinking of doing for dating right now?
I gave up on apps a few years back, after about 8ish years with no results. Lately I've just been going to different kinds of events, bars and stuff, but the issue (well, the one i think is making it very hard at least, that is relatively within my control) is i don't really have supportive friends to do these things with, i either do them alone or with people who view me as a side character with no real needs or wants

I think that may be a good starting point for you actually, just make some friends to go out and do stuff with. Especially if you also struggle with shyness, it helps a lot to have support from people nearby you. And honestly it never hurts to have friends that you can count on or at least talk to or hang out with.

One time i was at a bar, i asked a guy i went with just to stand within my vicinity (maybe 5-10ft away) while i walked up and talked to a girl, i went up to her and said hi, she said hi back and left after we exchanged a few words (she was visibly not interested), i turned around and that guy had already walked in the opposite direction and was like 25-30 ft away from me. Someone i've known for a long time.
 
I was thinking maybe social gatherings, clubs, gym, public events, library, university (if I was a student), beaches?
I advise against clubs and gyms. Beaches can be a bit touch and go as well.

Depends on the social gatherings and public events.

Libraries and universities seem alright.

If there are any famer's markets around your location that would be a good option.
 
If you can't match with them on tinder you have no hope
 
Go ascend already instead of wasting your time here.
 
You're asking this question on the wrong forum, GrAY.
 
What are some ways to meet 18-23 year old girls in large cities (like San Diego)? I’m moving there in January to work.

I was thinking maybe social gatherings, clubs, gym, public events, library, university (if I was a student), beaches?
Having a good face
 
Don't be ugly
 

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