war_with_myself
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Recent data suggests physical attractiveness exceeds warmth, intelligence, and income in women's preferences.
Given the primacy of photos and limited time spent on each profile, participants privileged physical attractiveness above any other variable. Characteristics like income, intelligence, and warmth were only weighted after establishing there was physical attraction (Woloszyn et al, 2020).
The bottom line is that dating apps don’t appear to have given a leg up to those perceived as less physically attractive (Selterman & Gideon, 2022).
However, don't despair inkwells! There's a very small window
Ah, so basically, choose better photos, make an engaging bio, and don't ghost....Here are three tips for everyone to level up their dating profile today:
- Knowing physical attractiveness is so central on dating apps, choose four to six of your favorite photos with great lighting. I’d recommend one or two profile shots that are relatively recent, and while activity shots like climbing or kayaking are great, don’t be too far off in those photos. Many users make a decision on a profile based on the first photo within a few seconds.
- Create an engaging caption that is authentic and can serve to foster communication. Describing your favorite hobbies, latest adventure, or ideal partner in creative ways can be attention-grabbing for a great match.
- Strike up a conversation within the first 24 hours of matching. With millions of active monthly users, it is easy to become just another match who is not pursued. Lead with simple, funny, or endearing, and be responsive if your match replies in short order.





