Zesto
Chair of the Beautification Committee
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I dropped out of high school and had a tough time getting along with other people. I didn't know how to interact with people at all.
But I always loved the movie Alien. Mainly the first half because the interactions among the crew members were the most realistic social interactions I've ever seen in a movie.
This is because the actors were all really good and it was mostly all unscripted and extemporaneous.
So they were using real social skills to interact with each other as people normally would do.
Some of them were friends, some weren't, they were all co workers, some were superior and others were subordinate. There were lots of different interactions to learn from that pretty much covers all social interactions.
and you can watch Ash (the robot) for how not to act.
I would watch this movie every morning before leaving and while getting ready for college for my first two years.
I went from having no friends and after a very long time to these past couple weeks I have people I can genuinely talk to and hang out with and it doesn't come across as forced, completely natural.
Today I helped my Chinese friend get an internship for our college class at the same place I was and we met up at the work site and texted each other and coordinated it. Then he helped me with an assignment we're both responsible for about this experience for the class.
In between I was talking to him about how much I like Chinese girls and how I would want to go to Taiwan and he was talking to me about his Chinese girlfriend and I was talking to him about a café I like he could take her to and he told me passes it by all the time but never stopped.
My point with this is our conversation was completely natural with no awkwardness.
I attribute my social success despite being socially stunted to becoming NT through watching the movie Alien and I would recommend incels who were similarly socially stunted to watch this movie as well.
But I always loved the movie Alien. Mainly the first half because the interactions among the crew members were the most realistic social interactions I've ever seen in a movie.
This is because the actors were all really good and it was mostly all unscripted and extemporaneous.
So they were using real social skills to interact with each other as people normally would do.
Some of them were friends, some weren't, they were all co workers, some were superior and others were subordinate. There were lots of different interactions to learn from that pretty much covers all social interactions.
and you can watch Ash (the robot) for how not to act.
I would watch this movie every morning before leaving and while getting ready for college for my first two years.
I went from having no friends and after a very long time to these past couple weeks I have people I can genuinely talk to and hang out with and it doesn't come across as forced, completely natural.
Today I helped my Chinese friend get an internship for our college class at the same place I was and we met up at the work site and texted each other and coordinated it. Then he helped me with an assignment we're both responsible for about this experience for the class.
In between I was talking to him about how much I like Chinese girls and how I would want to go to Taiwan and he was talking to me about his Chinese girlfriend and I was talking to him about a café I like he could take her to and he told me passes it by all the time but never stopped.
My point with this is our conversation was completely natural with no awkwardness.
I attribute my social success despite being socially stunted to becoming NT through watching the movie Alien and I would recommend incels who were similarly socially stunted to watch this movie as well.
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