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Discussion Was there ever a moment where you thought you would ascend and be free of your inceldom?

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Was there ever a moment where any of you thought you were potentially about to ascend and no longer be an incel? Have you ever gotten close only to fall flat on your face? Asking because when I thought about this question I couldn't think of a single instance in where I even got remotely close. It never began for me.
 
when you're a trucel below 3/10 scraping the bottom of the barrel your only options is to SURVIVE
 
you're only options is to SURVIVE
Seems like the case for me. Never had much copium, at least when it came to no longer being an incel.
 
Kinda but was a long time ago and can’t elaborate cuz don’t want to break rules.
 
Ah young love, she probably discovered Chad soon after and moved on.
She’s dating my friend rn. Before that she was dating my hapa friend. Neither are chads but both are mid tier Normie nerds brutal
 
Not really; the average subhuman doesn't even come close to such a thing in actuality, only thinking such due to the indoctrination of the bluepill, while being constantly being mistreated and held in a contemptous view by so many foids and even being outright told the brutal truth at a younger age, when foids haven't learned to contain their true repulsed feelings towards sub 5 males... :feelswhat:

You're instantly looked down upon as lower in the hierarchy the second you even walk into the vicinity of them; perhaps when younger and bluepilled in sweet delusion, but definitely not after accepting the blackpill. :feelsjuice:
 
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She’s dating my friend rn. Before that she was dating my hapa friend. Neither are chads but both are mid tier Normie nerds brutal
Brutal. Coulda been you.
 
yeah there was one time. i had a massive crush on this girl. i think we call em "oneitis" around these parts.
it was like 500 days of summer, but she was zoey deschanel.

we hung out like once, and she made me feel so high, but then she cut ties
 
Yup I fucked up my chance brutally :cryfeels: I regret everything I did
I tried getting her back again for a year or 2 but it didn’t work. We never even had a date.
 
You're instantly looked down upon as lower in the hierarchy the second you even walk into the vicinity of them
They've never looked down on me because they never noticed I was there in the first place. I genuinely believe that there isn't a single foid on this planet besides family members that knows I exist or even remembers me.
 
yeah there was one time. i had a massive crush on this girl. i think we call em "oneitis" around these parts.
it was like 500 days of summer, but she was zoey deschanel.

we hung out like once, and she made me feel so high, but then she cut ties
Mogs Me for having a date and getting high
 
I tried getting her back again for a year or 2 but it didn’t work. We never even had a date.
Sucks, if you didn't fuck up your chances you could have been in a relationship right now with no clue as to what the blackpill is. You'd be free from this prison.
 
One time, yes. Thought I would ascend with that Taiwanese artist gal, but no. I think she was probably a lesbian and she appeared a few years older than me as well. The rejection came about when I offered her a ride to the station and she said "no, but thank you" something like that. It seemed like she tried to make it seem like that there's a chance there, but there wasn't. It seemed she was just being nice, that's all. However, she would get car rides from this gay French Quebecois guy that volunteered with us (clearly she was more comfortable with him than me).

This was in 2017 as well and at that time when I was browsing r/incels as well (just before it got taken down). I was already aware of inceldom and the black pill (when trying to get with her), but yeah that moment made me realize it was over. I was aware of lookism/blackpill spaces as well.

There were other times like this in high school (but I wasn't aware of the black pill during those times), but those years were too early for the black pill to be that prominent and relevant (like it is today).

Tried online dating in the past and even this year I tried dating apps this year with an "improved body" (even that wasn't enough and that was the final nail in the coffin).

Now I'm just betting and banking my chances on escortmaxxing/escortceling in the future.
 
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Sucks, if you didn't fuck up your chances you could have been in a relationship right now with no clue as to what the blackpill is. You'd be free from this prison.
Yup even worse was she was perfect for me. She was one of the few foids who could take offensive jokes, she didn’t have social media and we had a similar sense of humor. I also suspect she was non NT considering the things she did (I won’t say because I don’t want to get warned).
no it wasn't a date.
I c. But at least you hung out with her outside of school
 
but then she cut ties
Seems like she did what a lot of foids are good at, using you and dumping you to the side when you're no longer needed. You'll know almost instantly if a foid really likes you. No such thing as female friends, just foids using you.
 
One time, yes. Thought I would ascend with that Taiwanese artist gal, but no. I think she was probably a lesbian and she appeared a few years older than me as well. The rejection came about when I offered her a ride to the station and she said "no, but thank you" something like that. It seemed she was just being nice, that's all.

This was in 2017 as well and at that time when I was browsing r/incels as well (just before it got taken down). I was already aware of inceldom and the black pill (when trying to get with her), but yeah that moment made me realize it was over. I was aware of lookism/blackpill spaces as well.

There were other times like this in high school (but I wasn't aware of the black pill during those times), but those years were too early for the black pill to be that prominent.

Tried online dating and even this year I tried dating apps this year with an "improved body" (even that wasn't enough and that was the final nail in the coffin).

Now I'm just betting my chances on escortmaxxing/escortceling in the future.
Brutal, it's hard to read women sometimes.
 
Seems like she did what a lot of foids are good at, using you and dumping you to the side when you're no longer needed. You'll know almost instantly if a foid really likes you. No such thing as female friends, just foids using you.
sigh... maybe in another universe, cause this one sucks
 
No. There are no good women left. I am not even joking. The timeless protest "where have all the good men gone?" is rebuking the wrong sex.
True, no way I'd ever want to start a family with a modern day foid (doubt I'd get the chance). They're only good for sex now, nothing serious.
 
No. I can't even imagine myself having a female friend, let alone ascending.
 
Yes. High school. I overestimated my sexual market value, even considering how easier things were back then. I assumed things were gonna work but they didn't. It's funny how everything went well (like friends, activities, etc) but only women and relationship didn't. I wonder if that has anything to do with my ugliness...
 
Are escorts a possibility for you?
I'm in the US so I'm sure there are escorts although illegal, but I've never looked. Something about having to pay to lose my virginity always bothered me so I doubt I'd ever go that route.
 
Yes. High school. I overestimated my sexual market value, even considering how easier things were back then. I assumed things were gonna work but they didn't. It's funny how everything went well (like friends, activities, etc) but only women and relationship didn't. I wonder if that has anything to do with my ugliness...
I miss being bluepilled. I was happier back then but as they say, ignorance is bliss. Rather be told the truth and be sad.
 
Thanks

What happened with you in college mind sharing?
Nothing much really. I did engineering so the majority of my classes consisted of men and when there were women in my classes I didn't even bother to talk to them because 50 dudes fighting for 5 women wasn't going to work in my favor. I just focused on school instead so that I could career/moneymaxx.
 
I miss being bluepilled. I was happier back then but as they say, ignorance is bliss. Rather be told the truth and be sad.
Being bluepilled sets you up for shit that will make you way unhappier than merely knowing the sad truth does, though. This is why I don't miss it much.

Truth is a very powerful thing. It's like a map, even if you're in a place that sucks, it's still better to navigate with a correct map of it instead of just bumping around in the dark all the time while you blissfully stumble. Or trying to force your way through a dead-end.
 
Escortmaxx too whenever you can. Trust me, blowing a fat load on a whore's face is the most liberal act a white male in modern society can perform.

@subhuman
It does sound tempting although I don't know if I'd do it in the US. Maybe go to a different country and get a sexy whore to use as I please.
 
Truth is a very powerful thing. It's like a map, even if you're in a place that sucks, it's still better to navigate with a correct map of it instead of just bumping around in the dark all the time while you blissfully stumble. Or trying to force your way through a dead-end.
This is true. I can at least be satisfied in the fact that I understand why my life is the way it is, because of the blackpill. Nice analogy.
 
what about parties how did people get invited in those at your school
Typically through word of mouth. Didn't go to parties though as I knew it would be hopeless. Bunch of dudes, not gonna bother simping for some whore when I know it's useless. At least I keep my dignity intact.
 
is it easy to make friend groups in college?

I want to atleast make some friends while im there
Ya I'd say so. In my case I took the same classes with a lot of dudes throughout my time in University so I got to know some of them pretty well.
 
Was there ever a moment where any of you thought you were potentially about to ascend and no longer be an incel? Have you ever gotten close only to fall flat on your face? Asking because when I thought about this question I couldn't think of a single instance in where I even got remotely close. It never began for me.
I daydream about that. But I dont see a foid holding hands with me proudly and going outside.

Im also a voicel. People also make fun of my voice. Foids use to send audios in Whatsapp. I dont see myself answering an hypothetic gf with audios. She may think Im not putting effort in the relationship or just use that as an excuse to cut me off due to my looks.

Even ignoring my looks and height I cant just see myself sharing my phone with a foid without be worried.
 
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Yes.
And everytime I thought I could escape from inceldom, the blackpill came to strike me back to the harsh reality.
 
Yes, when I drank alcohol almost every day and fapped often.
 
I think most here started out bluepilled as fuck. I became blackpilled through experiences I had in the real world, not by being rejected once by some slank and then reading online redpillforums to fuel my hate for women or anything.

Although harsh, blackpill is the closest a man can come to describing reality as it really is. That's what toilets will never understand, because they thrive by a bluepilled reality that works in their favor. That's why they are so eager to dismiss inkels as creepy loners.

I will keep on fighting the fight though, if not online then in real life. Foids and cucks won't ever get me down.
 
Maybe in high school, but I'm way past that.
 
Yes, multiple times. I still have hope
 
Not once in my entire fucking life.
 
No although I often get pretty delusional and start thinking that girls actually like me
 
Well, a few times I tried to convince myself that I could get sex. But there was always that deep subtle thought that, no, I wouldn’t.
In my youth, I worked and at my jobs I’d talk to foid coworkers occasionally. They were always nice and part of me wanted to believe they were interested.
But, no, they were being nice because we worked together. That was all. They had no interest in seeing me outside of work. The few times I asked, I got brutally rejected.
Once had one complain to the boss because I asked her out.
Outside of work situations, foids treat me like I have some contagious disease.
 
I became blackpilled through experiences I had in the real world, not by being rejected once by some slank and then reading online redpillforums to fuel my hate for women or anything.
Same, I feel like experiencing the blackpill first hand makes your belief in it stronger. Simply choosing the blackpill because of one foid will cause your belief to waver the second some whore shows attention and I feel like that's often the case on .is.
 
I daydream about that. But I dont see a foid holding hands with me proudly and going outside.
I daydream about it sometimes then realize I'm just wasating my time and should just focus on shit I can change.
 

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