UserHussein
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I was in this group called the Arab Student Club in my local college. I meet this very nice girl and I ask her out. She informs me that she’s cannot because she is a religious Muslim. But little does she know that I am a religious Muslim as well. I ask her out again, with the intention of telling her that I am also a religious Muslim. But when I do that, I forgot the “I am also a Muslim” part. So After the second rejection, I shoot her a text message clarifying what I forgot to tell her. At this point, she tells me that I’m making her uncomfortable and to leave her alone. Then the Arab club bans me due to complaints from this member.I as well wrote in another discord server that “I only go to the Arab club for the women” (which was a joke) and the club leaders found this and used it as evidence to banish me.
Btw I’m not a Muslim, pretty much all of my friends and these people I go to college with think I’m a practicing Muslim because that’s what I keep telling them. Why do I keep up this lie? Because all of my friends are Muslim/Arabs and I’m trying to fit in with them.
I even debated whether or not I should accept that this woman’s religion prevents her from being with me, or should I continue to lie about being in a religion that I’m not. I chose lying.
But keeping up this lie, and even partially believing it myself, ended up backfiring and I lost a lot of my friends.
I feel terrible because these kind people even took me out for dinner on Christmas.
Btw I’m not a Muslim, pretty much all of my friends and these people I go to college with think I’m a practicing Muslim because that’s what I keep telling them. Why do I keep up this lie? Because all of my friends are Muslim/Arabs and I’m trying to fit in with them.
I even debated whether or not I should accept that this woman’s religion prevents her from being with me, or should I continue to lie about being in a religion that I’m not. I chose lying.
But keeping up this lie, and even partially believing it myself, ended up backfiring and I lost a lot of my friends.
I feel terrible because these kind people even took me out for dinner on Christmas.