Discussion Was anyone else raised by addict parent?

[Ellsworth]

neither of mine did drugs but my dad was a gambling addict. Very similar to drug addict. They clearly care WAYYY more about their addiction than their own children. I was never physically abused but very much emotionally, financially and mentally abused. My mom did little to nothing to stop it, my older sister too (who wasn’t abused, only I was lucky enough to for that, female privilege anyone?). My mom is a good person but I kinda resent her for not divorcing my dad even though they hate each other and have since I can remember.

It sucks to think that my dad treated me worse than I could ever treat my worst enemy.

Edit: nobody but you guys even know about this. Even my friends of 15 or 20 years. TBH I’m not even sure if my mom and sister fully understand the abuse I went through, but they must at some level.

 

[Haywire]

no but mine were shitty parents.

 

[Fat Link]

My dad was a workaholic and probably addicted to coffee or the caffeine in it considering he drank so much of it and my mother was addicted to food but if you were to suggest as much to her she’d specify it’s only chocolate in particular that she’s addicted to.

So while not exactly a lie it may not be the full truth either.

My dad and I had a love hate relationship but in truth it would probably have been about as good as a father and son relationship can realistically be had if only I’d been born a Chad and thus received the emotional validation and fulfillment necessary to push forward in school and eventually become a dutiful wage cuck/slave just like him but once I fully realized it was ovER for me and girls/women were never going to give a fuck about me I just gave up and quit going to school and no amount of my old man’s whinings, pleadings, threats of violence or to kick me out ever turned me away from the path to my eventual NEETdom.

Nor any of my mothers whinings or cajoling either motivated by his whinings behind the scenes to her or how they threatened to stick me into therapy (lol like that’s going to do any good. The only therapy that will work for our kind involves a hot young virginal female that desires to be with us and only us placed in our close proximity. Everything else these fucking hacks can try is destined to failure).

I know he wanted the best for me and I recognize that he was a good man and love him for that but he never could understand how fucked I was due to the inferior hillbilly type genetics he and my mother provided me with.

I know I said that it was ovER for me earlier but really for me it never began.

 

[Saigon Depression]

My father is an alcoholic who ended up as a human wreckage.
He was never fit to be a father.

 

[Caesercel]

Yeah. Alcoholic. Though saying I was "raised" by that person would be a long shot.

Though you shouldn't wish for a divorce. That degeneracy should have no place.

 

[PPEcel]

no

absolutely brutal for you OP

this is why i think abortions are based, people who suck at parenting should have the option to not become parents

 

[newcelbro]

yes

neither of mine did drugs but my dad was a gambling addict. Very similar to drug addict. They clearly care WAYYY more about their addiction than their own children. I was never physically abused but very much emotionally, financially and mentally abused. My mom did little to nothing to stop it, my older sister too (who wasn’t abused, only I was lucky enough to for that, female privilege anyone?). My mom is a good person but I kinda resent her for not divorcing my dad even though they hate each other and have since I can remember.

It sucks to think that my dad treated me worse than I could ever treat my worst enemy.

Edit: nobody but you guys even know about this. Even my friends of 15 or 20 years. TBH I’m not even sure if my mom and sister fully understand the abuse I went through, but they must at some level.

wow I think we went through the same experience

 

[Uglymuggly]

no

absolutely brutal for you OP

this is why i think abortions are based, people who suck at parenting should have the option to not become parents

Foids hate children

 

[Hell]

Single mother has always been an alcoholic. Even now she spends her days getting drunk. Her father was a drunk too and he died of liver failure in his early 40s. She also spent a long time hooked on pills and crack, whenever she has to get a medical procedure done they can't sedate her enough without fear of killing her because she's developed so much resistance.

I almost envy her because she can escape her woes with a cheap bottle of liquor. I have to live in incel Hell and none of that stuff can provide relief.

 

[Ellsworth]

yes


wow I think we went through the same experience

Was yours gambling or drugs?