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Serious Wagie women are not serious romantic options

Redbeard7

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If she’s a wagie I just can’t see how it would work:

1. She has a wagie income, meaning no relative or absolute need for a NEET’s (likely) more limited income

2. She probably won’t respect and will feel resentment (even disgust) for a man who doesn’t just get less money, he doesn't even “go on the hunt” while she does (her friends and family will also work to undermine you: “Why are you with that loser?”, “You can do better.” Etc.)

3. More personal but I’d want to spend a lot of time together, not share her with a job, coworkers, customers and boss like a cuckold
 
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4. A wagie woman is more integrated into the system and is more likely to have internalised the system’s values, whereas you stand outside or in opposition to them, creating a psychological and existential gap that is usually unbridgeable
 
Workplace is actually where subchads who can't use tinder to get a girlfriend usually meet their girlfriends if they have one.
It's pointless for sub5s though like most things in life.
 
If you look at the data for people below 30 who have girlfriends the overwhelming majority meet online and then in 2nd or 3rd place I don't remember is met at a workplace.
 
Foids will become extremely obnoxious and argumentative if they're in any way unhappy with their life. A wageslave job will probably magnify this by 10
 
Workplace is actually where subchads who can't use tinder to get a girlfriend usually meet their girlfriends if they have one.
It's pointless for sub5s though like most things in life.

Point 2. relates to that.

I question whether getting a job would improve my chances though. On one hand, I’d have more money and status in normie terms (though would a normie woman be interested anyway?) On the other, I’d lose a lot of time, energy and freedom, which are all useful for getting a girlfriend.
 
I question whether getting a job would improve my chances though. On one hand, I’d have more money and status in normie terms (though would a normie woman be interested anyway?) On the other, I’d lose a lot of time, energy and freedom, which are all useful for getting a girlfriend.
It will improve your chances, one of the only ways subchads still get girlfriends is through socialcirclemaxxing which is usually done through the workplace, but again, if you are sub5 you chances would still be next to zero.
 
It will improve your chances, one of the only ways subchads still get girlfriends is through socialcirclemaxxing which is usually done through the workplace, but again, if you are sub5 you chances would still be next to zero.
I just don’t see how it would work for me with a wagie woman even if I had a job, I’m not a normie. Three of the four points I make in the titular piece effectively rule it out. I probably need a highly atypical woman for it to work.

When you talk about boosting chances you are also assuming a certain level of money and status, which not all jobs have. If I’m limited to shit tier work, it may not help me at all on any level and actually hurt me. I’d lose NEETbux, time, energy and freedom. Any advantage I had would be forgone.

There are other ways to social circle max too, which having a job would detract from. If you are a regular at a bar for instance and you get on well with people, you can gain a social circle (this can be difficult due to autism etc.) if you join a dance class (usually more popular with women) and get good at it, you can gain a social circle, a skill and a shared hobby.
 
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This is all water but yes, women dont want to date down only up. They are delusional in that way
 
However, consider this...would you really want a partner who is constantly leeching off you and not paying for her share of the rent/groceries/bills/everything else?

You will basically be blowing money on somebody who is going to probably cheat on you eventually, anyway.
 
However, consider this...would you really want a partner who is constantly leeching off you and not paying for her share of the rent/groceries/bills/everything else?

You will basically be blowing money on somebody who is going to probably cheat on you eventually, anyway.
If we are both NEETs I don’t mind if she gets a net financial benefit. In this scenario I’m not having to wageslave and I get a gf who I’m not sharing with a job and all that entails.
 

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