Victim Mentality is Destroying Some of You

[ItheIthe]

First, of all, I would like to note that many people here face bigger problems with their mentalceldom than their actual face.

Some of you are so wrapped up in victim mentality that you immediately begin to think negatively whenever a situation arises that involves another person. You are writing yourself off before you even allow the situation to develop. This is very debilitating, and I have been guilty of the same thing.

Take, for example, this post from @Twisted https://incels.is/Thread-LifeFuel-ITT-we-post-stories-of-when-we-lashed-out-against-femoids. I am not trying to humiliate him. But a girl takes a photo of him and he loses his mind, takes the phone, and smashes it?

I can't blame a real subhuman for doing that. But some of you are too hard on yourselves. I honestly find it MUCH more likely that the girl was taking a pic of him to ask a friend if she should make a move. I REALLY doubt that she was trying to show off his ugliness to the whole world. Twisted is a good-looking guy, and I really think the odds of the former scenario are greater than that of the large in his case.

Some of you do the same thing. Be filled with anger only after you are sure there was an injustice done to you. Don't be presumptuous, or you kill any chance that may pop up. And if there are so few chances, why would you want to extinguish them before seeing where they lead?

 

[RREEEEEEEEE]

How can we not be presumptuous when it's a fact that non-Chads get treated like shit? Not to mention I am a truecel, I always get treated negatively because of my looks.

 

[NeverSubmit]

I don't think it matters. I always thought I was good looking and I still think I am good looking to a degree just not by anglo/western standards. That never got me any chicks though

 

[Jockcel]

Twisted is a mentalcel. Other than his frame and height he's all set to slay. NOBODY would find his face funny.

 

[42cel]

“REALLY doubt that she was trying to show off his ugliness to the whole world.”
You’re saying this after 2 consecutive school shootings in the US. People do shitty things it’s how humans are they aren’t calculative ,they’re irrational and animalistic, this isn’t victim mentality this is truth, we are in this situation because of our inferior genetics, which we never chose and cannot improve. Gtfo with your bullshit sentimental post.

Have you seen Twisted's face?

 

[ItheIthe]

“REALLY doubt that she was trying to show off his ugliness to the whole world.”
You’re saying this after 2 consecutive school shootings in the US. People do shitty things it’s how humans are they aren’t calculative ,they’re irrational and animalistic, this isn’t victim mentality this is truth, we are in this situation because of our inferior genetics, which we never chose and cannot improve. Gtfo with your bullshit sentimental post.

No, I'm saying that in the case of Twisted, it's far more likely that the female found him ATTRACTIVE than ugly. Some people are are in the same boat, and they need to stop shooting themselves in the foot.

 

[Dissapointment]

We are all autists not only ugly

 

[ItheIthe]

I was having a really bad day already and was in a terrible mood so my actions were hardly rational.

I’m usually very placid and high inhib. Had I been in a better mood I actually may have made a humorous comment of some sort and tried to gauge if she was interested. I really don’t think she was due to the fact that she left some distance between us on the bench. If she’d been interested, I’d have expected her to have sat right next to me and leaned her body towards me.

My mood can change very rapidly throughout the days. Right now I have days where I am full of motivation thinking of all the best possible outcomes from surgery and finally being free of inceldom then I have days where I’m suicidal as fuck and just keep contemplating all the things that could go wrong in my looksmaxing journey. My thought process is very unstable which is why I ask members here for advice on looksmaxing because I feel their more capable of making sensible decisions that are also blackpilled and pragmatic.

All the TRP/looksmaxxing/PUA bullshit is killing you bro.

First of all, just because she leaves some distance on the bench doesn't mean she's not interested. It means you're a random stranger and it's not socially acceptable to sit right next to a random stranger on a bench. I know these communities literally think that if you're attractive, girls will just hop right on you, but that's not reality, especially when you're a stranger to her.

And you're a good-looking dude. Don't go blowing tons of money just to look like a Ken doll. Looksmaxxing too hard makes you look like a blowhard tool. Some members here legitimately need surgery. You're not one of them. I think what you need is social inclusion. I don't doubt at all that if you got a big friend group, some girls would take interest.

 

[Kointo1]

If a female takes a picture of an actual subhuman secretly, then it's safe to assume that she's not doing it for any righteous reason. I understand that thinking someone is treating you unfairly because of your ugliness before accessing the situation can lead to misunderstandings, but most of the time we truly are the victim of mockery.

 

[SeifEsteem]

First, of all, I would like to note that many people here face bigger problems with their mentalceldom than their actual face.
Some of you are so wrapped up in victim mentality that you immediately begin to think negatively whenever a situation arises that involves another person. You are writing yourself off before you even allow the situation to develop. This is very debilitating, and I have been guilty of the same thing.
Take, for example, this post from @Twisted https://incels.is/Thread-LifeFuel-ITT-we-post-stories-of-when-we-lashed-out-against-femoids. I am not trying to humiliate him. But a girl takes a photo of him and he loses his mind, takes the phone, and smashes it?
I can't blame a real subhuman for doing that. But some of you are too hard on yourselves. I honestly find it MUCH more likely that the girl was taking a pic of him to ask a friend if she should make a move. I REALLY doubt that she was trying to show off his ugliness to the whole world. Twisted is a good-looking guy, and I really think the odds of the former scenario are greater than that of the large in his case.
Some of you do the same thing. Be filled with anger only after you are sure there was an injustice done to you. Don't be presumptuous, or you kill any chance that may pop up. And if there are so few chances, why would you want to extinguish them before seeing where they lead?

get the fuck out with your jesus nonsense

 

[Deleted member]

All the TRP/looksmaxxing/PUA bullshit is killing you bro.

First of all, just because she leaves some distance on the bench doesn't mean she's not interested. It means you're a random stranger and it's not socially acceptable to sit right next to a random stranger on a bench. I know these communities literally think that if you're attractive, girls will just hop right on you, but that's not reality, especially when you're a stranger to her.

And you're a good-looking dude. Don't go blowing tons of money just to look like a Ken doll. Looksmaxxing too hard makes you look like a blowhard tool. Some members here legitimately need surgery. You're not one of them. I think what you need is social inclusion. I don't doubt at all that if you got a big friend group, some girls would take interest.

you talk and talk about how degenerate modern society is, and then effectively say otherwise by saying "no, females don't worship Chad and they have self-respect". females very well WILL hop on you if you're attractive enough.

 

[Zielony4]

The mentalcels here have the victim mentality. A few of us on this place are still victims.

 

[ItheIthe]

you talk and talk about how degenerate modern society is, and then effectively say otherwise by saying "no, females don't worship Chad and they have self-respect". females very well WILL hop on you if you're attractive enough.

Implying that a female will literally just jump on a random stranger light-night at a bus stop is just retarded.

 

[Robinxyz]

What the hell is he doing here if he's good-looking?

 

[mylifeistrash]

except he's right. women will outright shit on you unless you look damn near like a god and he is no god.

women don't give points for kinda good looking. you're a fucking clown to them. they don't care about slightly above average or any bullshit like that.

 

[Deleted member 2119]

I can't stop hating myself

 

[Framecel222]

This might be the first legit thread you've ever posted.

 

[GeneticDysfunction]

except he's right. women will outright shit on you unless you look damn near like a god and he is no god.
women don't give points for kinda good looking. you're a fucking clown to them. they don't care about slightly above average or any bullshit like that.

/thread

 

[Mahlo]

The blackpill causes Mental issues. Those who are already mentalcels are hit even harder.

 

[Rójj]

This might be the first legit thread you've ever posted.

Of course, cuck.

 

[imbored21]

im one of the few people who are actually ugly

 

[Rójj]

im one of the few people who are actually ugly

No you're not.

 

[kvn]

 you immediately begin to think negatively whenever a situation arises that involves another person. You are writing yourself off before you even allow the situation to develop.

if you didnt smash the wall the first 100 bangs of head, what would your mentality and ekspectation be entering the 101st bang?

 

[Deleted member 2119]

Tell me how can I stop having trust issues,mood swings,depression,self hatred and high inhibtions.


Oh wait....

 

[Rójj]

Tell me how can I stop having trust issues,mood swings,depression,self hatred and high inhibtions.


Oh wait....

Jus be NT brah

 

[ghostcell]

if a female takes a picture of YOU (white incel) - and you are NOT CURRENTLY LOCATED IN ASIA

THEN SHE IS MAKING A PICTURE TO MAKE FUN OF YOU

STOP FUCKING COPING

She probably made some snapchat with caption "freak at the train station" or some bullshit. Ugly people who are too delusional to understand its over are the worst normies

There is a reason that our gut feeling tells us something is very wrong. This gut feeling evolved over millions of years to assess these kinds of situation. On top of that, all your life experiences as an incel makes it obvious to see when someone is taking the piss.

 

[mylifeistrash]

if a female takes a picture of YOU (white incel) - and you are NOT CURRENTLY LOCATED IN ASIA
THEN SHE IS MAKING A PICTURE TO MAKE FUN OF YOU
STOP FUCKING COPING
She probably made some snapchat with caption "freak at the train station" or some bullshit. Ugly people who are too delusional to understand its over are the worst normies
There is a reason that our gut feeling tells us something is very wrong. This gut feeling evolved over millions of years to assess these kinds of situation. On top of that, all your life experiences as an incel makes it obvious to see when someone is taking the piss.

this.

it's pretty easy to tell who has zero real life social experience.

women do this shit all the time to make fun of guys, even legit 6/10 ones.

 

[IsolationHurts]

And if there are so few chances, why would you want to extinguish them before seeing where they lead?

Because im tired and i want to die

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Tell me how can I stop having trust issues,mood swings,depression,self hatred and high inhibtions.


Oh wait....

this + no social skills

 

[Tellem--T]

testing my sig

 

[Vision]

The mentalcels here have the victim mentality. A few of us on this place are still victims.

 

[KyloRen]

OP is a volcel, he wouldn't understand what it's like to be an ugly male.

No offense to you, bro, I love your anti-degeneracy crusade.

 

[exwizard]

Tell me how can I stop having trust issues,mood swings,depression,self hatred and high inhibtions.


Oh wait....

Stop posting in a forum that massively feeds and exacerbates your mental health issues. 

This place is for subhumans with no hope, but most of the guys here look fine but have become neurotic to the point of needing to be sectioned. Muh eye area, muh septum, muh jawline, mog this mog that, <6ft manlets ITS OGRE. If you are taking all of that seriously, you need to get a grip. 

Its like when a psychiatrist did a famous experiment with schizoprenics. He got a bunch of schizos that all believed they were Jesus Christ, and put them in a room together. He reasoned that because their beliefs conflicted, at least some of them would realize they were delusional. Instead their delusions just fed into each other and they became worse, more manic and less coherent.

 

[Deleted member 2119]

Stop posting in a forum that massively feeds and exacerbates your mental health issues. 

This place is for subhumans with no hope, but most of the guys here look fine but have become neurotic to the point of needing to be sectioned. Muh eye area, muh septum, muh jawline, mog this mog that, <6ft manlets ITS OGRE. If you are taking all of that seriously, you need to get a grip. 

Its like when a psychiatrist did a famous experiment with schizoprenics. He got a bunch of schizos that all believed they were Jesus Christ, and put them in a room together. He reasoned that because their beliefs conflicted, at least some of them would realize they were delusional. Instead their delusions just fed into each other and they became worse, more manic and less coherent.

I had the same issues way before I even joined this forum but now I'm posting here instead of crying in my bed. Sure it won't help but I at least got rid of my mental breakdowns

 

[JovanD]

But we ARE victimized by various social groups.

 

[donot]

OP got a point though

 

[Kointo1]

But we ARE victimized by various social groups.

Yup. We aren't accepted.

 

[Gone Coping]

the only thing OP does here is talk down to people and proselytize for his dead religion