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Very Painful Throwing Away My Dead Father's and Mother's Stuff.

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I think I would rope if my parents died.
 
I think I would rope if my parents died.
I hope that doesn't happen to me. This is very scary.
This could be the worst thing in my life, short of becoming crippled, blind or cancer.
 
Damn you're 56? How do you cope?
 
Sorry to hear, OP
 
It's too painful to sell.
If I throw it away, it is much quicker.
Selling it will only drag out the pain.

Another option could be to place them in an isolated area or at least to keep the most important items, such as watches and jewelry.
 
Maybe give it to charity as an alternative?
This stuff is only value to my mother.
It's junk to everyone else.
Examples: Oil Paintings my mother made.
A serving tray she used to serve my father, when he had cancer
Her high school yearbook, from 1943
 
I have to clean my house. I have to get rid of as much as I can, for when I have to move, to a small place, possibly even a group home. It hurts very badly throwing their stuff away. All this memories. Even the smallest items meant a lot to my parents. I wish I could keep it. Storage is expensive and only pushing the problem down the road. Better to suffer getting rid of it now, then later. i.e. get it over with. My father died in 2004, my mother is 91 with Alzheimer's in a nursing home. I am dreading that day, which is coming closer and closer, at faster speed. Only the man upstairs knows when that day is going to come, but it will be here soon, very soon. I hope I don't have a breakdown when that happens. My mother is all I have. No friends, no family.
Stay strong brother. My father passed a while back too from cancer and it sucks
 
they are free from this nightmare reality OP, take solace in that
 
dude... dont you think you're at the age where you should stop caring about dating and women? I mean its over man. Try getting a hobby and trying to find some happiness.
 
I can feel your pain boyo. stay strong.
 
The saddest part is my age.
If I was 25, instead of 56, I would have my whole life ahead of me.
It is unlikely I will ever go back to college, marry, have kids, get a good job.
Right now I'm in a supportive work program.
That's why If I got doxxed, there's nothing they can do to me.
I'm going to lose my mother's house that I loved in al my life, to pay for her nursing care.
I will probably end up in a group home, which almost all guys. The girls that go there are over 60. If there is a rare one under that, she will have a boyfriend(s).
I know, because I've gone to hundreds of socials with group homes over the last 30 years.
Almost never seen a girl there under 60.
It's over for me.
Hey, I'm going to be 60 soon. At least I've NEVER seen the 60+ year olds with boyfriends.
Most of the guys there are way younger than 60, so I won't have competition.
Then I can leave this site, as. have the 60+ year olds fight over me, like they do EVERY other rare 60+ year old male that steps foot in there.

How did this happen? are you that ugly? if pushes came to shoves, why didn't you get a mail bride from the third world? you'd at least have children.
 
dude... dont you think you're at the age where you should stop caring about dating and women? I mean its over man. Try getting a hobby and trying to find some happiness.
I'm more lonely than ever.
 

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