Validation

[oldoldold]

The highest IQ threads I've seen make it clear, it's not about sex, it's about validation.

So then I have a question, and I think it's a generational thing.

A fat girl, with a somewhat cute face is willing to do the deed. She's not a virgin but hasn't been with more than a few guys. What say you?

As a college student in the 80s I would have said Hell Yes. It counts, it's consensual. Its validation. Off the snide. I feel no shame it's a porker. I am positive my nerd virgin friends back in the day would have done the same.

I get a prettier girl means more validation but if this is the ONLY chance

People here seem to think it doesn't count. It's odd to this old guy.

(To be clear I never was actually given this opportunity).

 

[VLÖ]

If any womyn shows signs of interest in you you're probably not that bad off. Even fatties have outrageous standards these days.

 

[Diablocel]

Just her claiming to be attracted to you or being nice is far from validation, you're still the weird kid while normies and chads are actually validated for their "confidence" and looks

 

[Mainländer]

I actually like chubby women. But actual fat femoids, of the type that get skin diseases between the fat layers, are utterly repulsive.